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What a dame
By Lisa Sabbage
History has it that King Edward VIII renounced the throne for a woman who dedicated her life to him. But a new movie reveals that their marriage almost ended when Wallis Simpson fell in love with another man.

When King Edward VIII gave up the throne of England in 1936 to marry American divorcee, Wallis Simpson, there were those who applauded his decision as the epitome of romantic love. Others - the Queen Mother among them - dismissed Mrs. Simpson as a gold digger and predicted that the relationship would end in tears.

Now it seems that the royal love affair very nearly did end in tragedy when the Duchess of Windsor, as Mrs. Simpson became after she married Edward, fell in love with American multi-millionaire Jimmy Donahue, pushing the Duke of Windsor to the verge of suicide.

The painful love triangle, exposed in 2000 in Christopher Wilson's book Dancing with the Devil, so fired the imagination of British producer Harry Alan Towers, that he is now making a film starring Michael York as the cuckolded Duke of Windsor and Faye Dunaway as his unfaithful wife.

"It is a very colourful story," says Towers, "but there will be nothing offensive about the Duke except to show him as a very weak, tragic figure. As for the Duchess, I don't care. I don't think she was a very nice lady."

Indeed, by 1950, having wooed and won the King of England, whom she married in 1937, the 54-year-old beauty had grown frustrated with her emotionally dependent husband (his former equerry John Aird once noted that the Duke had "lost all confidence in himself and follows W around like a dog").

She also chafed at the Royal Family's attitude toward them, a barely disguised hostility that left the couple permanently cash-strapped.

So, when Wallis met 35-year-old Donahue, the attraction was instant. The blond, baby-faced grandson of F. W. Woolworth, founder of the famous department store, appeared to be a man of action.

He could fly a plane and speak several languages. He was a wit and raconteur with a reputation for what the Duchess called "naughtiness" - he once drove through Palm Beach dressed as a nun, and, on another occasion, stood at the top of the stairs at a nightclub, naked except for a well-placed red and white checked napkin.

And, perhaps most attractive of all, he boasted the money and lifestyle to which the Duke and Duchess aspired. Despite the fact that Donahue was almost 20 years her junior and openly gay, Wallis began an affair with the American while Edward watched helplessly from the sidelines.

For the next four years, the trio became inseparable, embarking on transatlantic cruises and holidays in Palm Beach, Florida and the Bahamas, where the Duke had served as Governor during World War II.

The intensity of their closeness was such that rumours began to spread that it was actually the foppish Edward with whom Donahue was involved.

But nothing could have been further from the truth. While researching his book, British journalist and author Christopher Wilson spoke to sources on all three sides of the love triangle, including Mona Eldridge, secretary to Donahue's cousin, Woolworth heiress Barbara Hutton. "Hutton and Jimmy Donahue were cousins and close friends," says Wilson, "and she often provided the discreet hotels and bedrooms where the couple allegedly romped."

Another source revealed that Donahue "had always been a foot fetishist and she [Wallis] discovered this and indulged the perversity completely". Discretion was not in the vocabulary that Wallis and Jimmy shared.

He bought the fashion-conscious Duchess haute couture clothes and jewellery worth millions. At the parties and nightclubs, casinos and resorts, restaurants and dinners the trio attended, guests noticed that the pair giggled and whispered together like young lovers, while the Duke seemed to be a tag-along or mere chaperone.

As for Edward, while he watched Wallis grow more and more obsessed with the young man, he became so terrified of losing her that he tolerated the affair. Painfully aware that his government allowance was too small to satisfy his wife's expensive tastes, the former king sat back and let Donahue pick up the tab for their lifestyle.

"Up until this point he has been seen as a sort of brave soldier who hobbled along," Wilson says of the public's perception of the former king. But his weakness in the face of his wife's infidelity fundamentally alters that image. "Suddenly you see him as being someone who was cuckolded, aware of it, and happy to accept gifts in return for it." If he was guilty of being weak and ineffectual, the poor Duke was also desperately miserable.

Fearful that his infatuated wife was contemplating divorce, he considered suicide. "Had the divorce occurred, as it so nearly did, it would have been the greatest betrayal in the history of love," says Wilson. "I think it does actually rewrite history. The belief up until this point was that the king gave up his throne for the woman he loved and she gave up everything to be faithful to the man who had given up everything for her.

Yet it is clear that, 14 years after the abdication, she drew Jimmy Donahue into her bed and there he stayed for the next four years and three months."

Fortunately for the beleaguered Duke, American gossip columnist Walter Winchell intervened. Revealing that the Windsor marriage was in trouble because of Jimmy Donahue, Winchell forced the Duchess's hand.

Jolted into the realisation of how much she had to lose by leaving her husband for the unreliable playboy, she brought the four-year affair to a close in her own inimitable fashion.

One night in 1954, as the trio sat down to dinner in Baden-Baden, the Duchess complained to Jimmy that his breath stank of garlic and that he was selfish and vulgar to expose them to it.

Slightly drunk as always, Donahue lost his temper and kicked his lover in the shins with such force that it ripped her stockings and drew blood. Driven to action at last, the Duke rushed to his wife's side, attended to her wounds, then turned to the man who had cuckolded him for so long and said: "We've had enough of you Jimmy. Get out!" "And to think," Wallis is said to have shrieked at the end of the affair, "I gave up a king for a queen." Their marriage restored, the Duke and Duchess remained together until Edward's death in 1972.

On her death 14 years later, Wallis was reunited with the husband she had almost abandoned when she was buried alongside him in the royal cemetery in Windsor Home Park. With its romance, glamour, drama and betrayal, the story of the Duchess's love affair has all the ingredients that producers look for in a movie.

And, as Prince Charles considers his future with Camilla Parker Bowles, its themes have never been so timely. "I wasn't at all sure that the new generation would have a great deal of interest in the Windsors," says Harry Alan Towers, "but recent events have proved me wrong and that it is time to make the film."
-Asia Features


Golden past and bright future
By Esther Williams
Enayetullah Khan's pride in his country, its past, culture and heritage is reflected in his book: ‘Bangladesh - Splendours of the past’. It would be an eye-opener to those outside Bangladesh, he thinks, particularly the western media who have so far exploited tales of misery and poverty of that land, despite its golden past and great potential to shape its future.

The book, a pictorial account of the heritage of Bangladesh, covers a timeframe between the 2nd century BC and the 18th century, with the main focus on three periods - The Buddhist, Hindu and Muslim, that represent the cultural heritage of Bangladesh at its best.

Through it the author draws attention to the glorious past as depicted in their sculpture, architecture and education.

Bangladesh is a land of natural calamity, a cyclone prone area where frequent floods wash away the humble huts of people who happen to be among the poorest in the world. Nonetheless, the people have a strange resilience, the author explains. "They don't cringe before the fury of nature, rather stand up and rebuild on the ravaged land."

He goes on to tell a different story through a profile of its people and land. Through a vibrant historical account he provides readers with a glimpse of the ancient culture and significant events and developments that have made Bangladesh what it is today, evoking a sense of dignity and respect for the people.

Bangladesh is a new state with an ancient culture, which formed an integral part of a civilization, which flourished in the whole of eastern India, explains the author. While the first chapter deals with the geographical features of the land, a terrain largely influenced by the rivers Ganges and Brahmaputra, the second deals with tracing the race, customs and traditions of the people.

It is interesting to note that their ancestors who lived on the banks of the Ganges made famous supple muslin and other fine textiles and sold them to the west long before the birth of Christ. Their ships held sway over the Indian Ocean and they had flourishing trade with the entire South and South East Asia.

Further, the discovery of ancient artefacts and Stone Age tools in the Mainamati Lalmai hill range indicates the faltering footsteps of early Stone Age man in this region.

The writer summarises details of these findings with attractive photographs of the relics that stand as evidence, that the country's history dates back to the pre-historic period

Bangladesh's history is steeped in legend. Stories indicate that the people of the region showed fierce, heroic resistance to the Aryans and other invaders. "The invasion could not prevent them retaining what they valued most - their culture, language, arts and rituals."

Most interesting of them is the legend that is celebrated in many Sri Lankan epics such as the Mahavamsa. It tells the story of prince Vijaya who was sent into exile by his father King Sinhabahu .

With 700 followers he took a long sea voyage to Sri Lanka where he formed a kingdom known as Sinhala.

A number of Sinhalese scholars have apparently supported this view. Fifty percent of the words of classical Sinhala are identical with those of Bangali - this stands as further evidence of an ancient culture.

The many ancient Hindu temples and Buddhist monasteries in the country point to the various religious influences. Those periods (8th-12th centuries) saw the chiselling of some of the most charming images in stone. Glossy pictures of intricately carved panels in the Kantanagar temple are figures associated with the Krishna legend, Rama and Lakshman - planning how to cross over to Lanka, etc.

There is also a description of the two ancient cities, now in ruins - Pundranagar and Devaparbata that are mentioned in the great epic Mahabharatha.

"Sensuousness and grace were the strong points of the sculpture," the author reflects, pointing out the intricate details of the figurines. There are splendid pictures and descriptions of the terracotta treasures from the 1st century BC and the sculptured glories done in bronze and stone, representing Buddhist and Hindu gods and goddesses, which abound in Bangladesh.

There follows an interesting phase brought about by the overwhelming Muslim presence between the 13th and 17th centuries. The Muslim conquest of the region, in a commando-like operation was conducted by a daredevil group of just 18 soldiers than a battle proper.

Vivid descriptions of this battle, and a comprehensive account of others that followed, trace the historical developments in that period, their effect visible on literature, religion, culture and architecture.

"The Muslim Sultans built some exquisite mosques and were responsible for making education a universal phenomenon. The literature and language which Bangladeshis are so proud of got the most generous patronage of the independent Sultans."

By the descriptive accounts of the 8th century’s ancient universities like Somapura Vihara and Salban Vihara, which the author says were established a few hundred years before Oxford and Cambridge and details of Bangali scholars abroad, one can assume that the region was a great centre of learning.

The book also provides attractive glimpses of the present - bamboo rafts and boats, the only means of transport in certain areas during the monsoon, jute plants, tea girls and the large stretches of paddy fields with bullock drawn ploughs, still the chief mode of tilling the land.

The author has effectively portrayed Bangladesh's rich cultural heritage.

The recent discovery of huge gas reserves and the possibility of finding oil in the land and its offshore areas have focused the attention of the world on Bangladesh, the author writes. He thinks that the visits of potential investors will further dispel the misconceptions about Bangladesh.

Enayetullah Khan, a Master's Degree holder in Mass Communication and Journalism was a lecturer in the same department between 1979 and 1982. A successful entrepreneur of the Cosmos Group of Companies, he launched the first fully computerised wire service in South Asia. He has been the Chief Editor of the United News of Bangladesh since its inception and also the editor of Dhaka Courier, a national newsweekly that he founded in 1984.

The author has been actively involved in humanitarian and social welfare activities and has represented his country in several media and business related forums at the UN.

He is also a guest lecturer at the University of Columbia, NY in the US and is an alumnus of the Georgetown Leadership Programme.


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