The
YMCA owes a debt of gratitude
Boyd Isaac Perera
Boyd Isaac Perera succeeded R.O. Buell as the National General Secretary
of the National Council of YMCA and followed the footsteps of his
predecessor and carved his niche to serve the YMCA with dedication.
He
joined the YMCA leaving a lucrative job as a senior staffer of the
General Treasury, probably renouncing the plums of office which
he would have enjoyed later on. Much credit to his alma mater Richmond
College, Galle where he had been nurtured in rich ideals and talents
which he made use of to meet the challenges of running the YMCA.
Boyd's
particular genius was his ability to play the role of catalyst.
His skill was in marshalling the resources of many lay people who
gave freely of their time and talent to bring to fruition the many
projects initiated by him.
Boyd's
ability as a fund-raiser was exceptional. He led a team of young
laymen to victory in the "Buildings for brotherhood" campaign
in 1960 at the Moratuwa YMCA. Boyd was a Founder Member of the Moratuwa
YMCA who served as Social/Indoor Games Secretary, Director, Chairman
of the Executive Committee and Vice President. He also initiated
and organised a fund-raising project named "Lagoon Delights"
and the building of the Moratuwa YMCA is a testimony to his efforts
and the success of the project.
Other
projects included a project in 1995 for the Methodist Church of
Rawatawatte, Moratuwa to raise Rs. 5 million for a building project
to enhance the skills of youth through the establishment of a vocational
training centre and a special fund-raising project for NC/YMCAs
for a rehabilitation project in Trincomalee. He always walked the
extra mile. Even after retirement though not quite fit, Boyd went
to India with me as Chairman of SAFYR to initiate a finance campaign
conducted by India YMCAR, Sri Lanka and Bagladesh to step up the
SS/SS Fund of the World Alliance.
Boyd
was an exemplary leader to young YMCA secretaries. A good administrator,
he had his own style of doing things and could motivate people.
He never came late to office.
He
was always on time and went straight away to "Devotions"
to commence the day. Beginning the day with prayer gave him enthusiasm
and strength. While at work he hardly left anything for tomorrow.
He believed in the present.
He did not clamour for a higher pay. He was diligent, prudent and
kept his cool. The National Council building that is there today
is mainly due to Boyd's efforts. He was a much travelled man and
sought after public speaker and lecturer. He was singularly honoured
by being asked on a number of occasions to be the keynote speaker
at regional development workshops held in Uganda.
After
retirement, Boyd founded the Sri Lanka Fellowship of YMCA Retirees
affiliated to the World Fellowship and was its first President.
Later he was the Vice Chairperson for South/S.E. Asia of the WFYR
till the demise of his dearly beloved spouse, Trila who was a great
strength to him.
They
had three sons. It was on July 9, this year that he celebrated his
80th birthday at the Ranmal Holiday Resort, Moratuwa. However, by
October 3 he was stilled. Sad! indeed.
The
YMCA owes a debt of gratitude to a man whose love of God and the
YMCA exceeded all other passions. God worked through him. Many will
remember for a long time the chorus sung to the tune of the Jamaican
farewell at his birthday celebrations.
"He's
Mr. Boyd Perera, a family man,
He played chess, tennis, he praised the Lord,
YMCA man, who travelled the world,
We thank the Lord, he is eighty now."
May he Rest in Peace!
Dr.
Herbert W. Tillekeratne
An
exemplary teacher and social worker
M.U.H. Dhanapala Wanasinghe
M.U.H. Dhanapala Wanasinghe, J.P., retired principal from Maussagolla,
a picturesque hamlet overlooking the Namunukula range in Badulla
District, passed away at the ripe old age of 95.
He
had his early education at Bibilegama School and at the tender age
of 16, after successfully completing the School Leaving Certificate
Examination, he secured an appointment as a pupil teacher at the
Boys' School in Welimada. His capabilities, devotion for duty and
hard work paid dividends with promotions coming his way in quick
succession.
He
served in 12 schools in urban and remote educational divisions as
assistant teacher, headmaster and principal till his retirement
in 1970. He had been in active government service for more than
42 years. During his career, there were numerous occasions he had
volunteered to work for school building projects, attending to renovations
and organizing the supply of furniture for such needy schools.
Till
his death, he served society in numerous ways. He was a member of
17 social service organizations, to which he offered his advice,
guidance and patronage. He treated everyone with love, kindness
and humaneness. To those who sought his help and advice, he was
readily available.
Mr.
Wanasinghe moulded his character in accordance with Buddhist philosophy.
He was a strict disciplinarian, teetotaller and vegetarian throughout
his life. A remarkable characteristic in his lifestyle was his conspicuous
politeness, affection and dedication to the cause of the needy.
Simplicity was the hallmark of his unblemished character and he
genuinely cared for others much more than he did for himself.
Mr.
Wanasinghe was an affable person and popular among friends, colleagues
and relatives. The large gathering present at his funeral bore ample
and eloquent testimony to his popularity.
His
demise will be felt not only by his family members but also by those
who closely associated him. He is survived by his wife, a retired
teacher, three daughters and five sons, most of whom are teachers
by profession. Two of them are principals of leading schools. May
the blessings of the noble Triple Gem be bestowed on him in his
journey through Sansara.
Thilak
Palliyaguruge
A devoted
and dedicated doctor
Dr. Priashanta Visvalingam
October 5 brought vivid and treasured memories of a precious beloved
son. He was born in Kurunegala where his father Dr. Philip Visvalingam
was a popular private medical practitioner for thirty years. Ratmalana
was his boyhood home and he attended S. Thomas' College, Mt. Lavinia
together with his two elder brothers. Due to unrest in Colombo,
he joined St. John's College, Jaffna in the A-Level forms winning
the gold medal for general excellence and prize for best outgoing
student of 1981.
The
Christian Medical College, Vellore in South India admitted him in
July 1983 for medical studies and he graduated with honours in 1987,
winning the Reeves H. Betts Gold medal for the best sportsman in
the final year. He also won the Ida Scubber Prize for the best paper
on medical care of the sick and suffering in the medical world of
today. On his return he worked at the Green Memorial Hospital in
Jaffna during the IPKF days.
In
1992 he passed the Australian AMEC exam and worked as senior resident
medical officer in the Wooden Valley Hospital, Canberra during 1993.
At Westmead Hospital, Sydney he started his training in 1994 for
the Fellowship in Obstetrics and Gynaecology and was made a Fellow
of RANZCOG in January 2001. He also won the prestigious crown gold
medal for his research paper and best registrar presentation at
the RANZCOG annual sessions at Noosa in Queensland. He then worked
as a Fellow at the Royal North Shore Hospital, Sydney in the menopause
clinic and endoscopic surgery unit. He also obtained the Fellowship
in Gynaecology - FICS - in January 2001. Dr. Visvalingam was a member
of the NSW regional committee of RANZCOG and Chairman of the Education
Subcommittee in which role he was responsible for launching the
Mentor Scheme for NSW trainees.
He
was also an examiner for the Australian Medical Council, Canberra.
Shan was a keen teacher and delivered many lectures and papers in
Sydney and abroad. He was invited to lecture at the scientific sessions
of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynaecology in Chicago
USA in May 2001 and was a guest speaker at the World Menopause Conference
in Berlin and Frankfurt in April 2002.
Shan
was considered a great colleague by co-workers and was a key member
of the Gevin research unit based at the Royal North Shore Hospital
doing pioneer research work in menopause.
Shan
had a cheerful personality ever ready to help anyone. He had an
extensive practice and his patients found him to be a wonderful
doctor who provided devoted care ante-natally and during delivery.
He was also a warm person, one of life’s real angels who touched
many hearts. In addition to all his professional responsibilities
he found time to play cricket regularly with S. Thomas' College,
OBA, Sydney and the Christian Medical College, Vellore Alumni Association
of Sydney.
Such
a devoted and dedicated doctor, he lost his life suddenly in the
twinkling of an eye at the prime of his life and pinnacle of his
illustrious medical career in a car accident while crossing the
road at Waroonga. He is survived by Arvin, Anjali, Anika and his
wife. May the Lord comfort and sustain them and bless them always.
Living
he helped countless people and dying he magnanimously donated his
healthy organs to others desperately in need and gave eight of them
a second chance to live healthy, happy lives with bright futures,
through the Australian Red Cross organ donation scheme called Life-link.
Vathani
A poem
written by Allan Morrow, a lung recipient who competed in the World
Transplant games in Nancy - France in July 2003.
The Gift
It was not my birthday
But I did receive one.
The
difference it’s made to my life.
Is hard to believe,
I could hardly eat
Sometimes could hardly walk
Then there were other times
I couldn't even talk
Then along came a stranger
With the best gift one could give
A new set of lungs
And now I can really live.
I feel
for the family
The sorrow they must bear
Their sadness I will share
The rest of my life
They all now play a part
And for this I say thank you
From the bottom of my heart.
A beacon
of light to everyone around her
Kuma Ratnayake (nee Tennekoon)
Kuma aunty (that's how we addressed her) passed away peacefully
on July 7, this year after a long illness, coinciding with her 76th
birthday. She hailed from a distinguished family in Katugampola
Hathpattuwa. Her father, the late R.S. Tennekoon, was a member of
the State Council and Deputy Chairman of Committees.
Her
mother, Tissy Tennekoon, was dedicated to social service and once
a chairperson of the Kuliyapitiya Town Council. The late Roland
Tennekoon, her only brother, was a leading lawyer in Kuliyapitiya.
She
was married to the late R.B. Ratnayake, Divisional Revenue Officer,
who was the younger brother of the late A. Ratnayake, the President
of the Senate.
Born
and bred in Colombo, she moved in high society, yet she did not
forget the rural folk. She was an ardent social worker, a trait
she had inherited from her parents. She practised loving kindness
and her generosity was boundless. She was a beacon of light to everyone
around her.
She
never changed her attire with the changing fashions. She was a typical
Kandyan beauty sans the present day beauty culture and so are her
two daughters Luxmi and Siriyani. Her demise is a great blow to
her family, as well as to a host of friends and relations. Aunty
dear, we miss you. May God grant her soul eternal rest!
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