She
was loved for her gentle and affable ways
Ranee Atapattu
It was a poignant moment in my life when I was asked to be a pall-bearer
at the funeral of my dear cousin and friend, Ranee Atapattu, who
departed this life on February 15, this year at the age of 89. She
lived a full life and had no complications till about six months
ago when she was afflicted with some breathing problems and had
to be rushed to a private nursing home. However, she fought back
with great courage and returned home on every occasion in good health.
Just
a day prior to her final collapse, Ranee had been in excellent spirits
and joined in the singing of her favourite hymns with family members
and Rev. Paul, the English Pastor of St. Paul's Church, Kandy, who
was accustomed to administer holy communion to her regularly every
month. So it was indeed a great shock when we learned that she had
passed away.
Ranee
hailed from a well-known aristocratic family in Tangalle where her
father, John Senanayake (a first cousin of our first Prime Minister
D. S. Senanayake) was the Deputy Fiscal and her mother was Cornelia
Obeyesekere, kinswoman of Sir Christoffel Obeyesekere. From her
early childhood, Ranee was nurtured in family traditions and graces,
and grew up to be a strikingly beautiful young woman.
She
married Douglas Atappattu, Commissioner of Excise and was an exemplary
wife, mother and housewife. She endeared herself to everybody by
the concern and care she displayed for the impoverished and marginalised
segments of the community. Hers was an open house to those in need,
those who sought her advice and assistance. Ranee was a devoted
and dedicated Christian who was loved for her gentle and affable
ways. She ministered to those in need and gave generously of her
time and resources. She solicited my prayers too for any project
she had in mind.
I will
miss that familiar ring on the telephone when she would speak to
me and inquire if I was also in prayer for what she had in mind.
After the sudden demise of her husband, Douglas, she had many problems
in bringing up her young family of a son and two daughters single-handedly,
but she handled every situation with great skill and courage, inspired
by her steadfast faith in God. Her elder daughter Ranjini, wife
of Dr. Asoka Siriwardane and her sisters Iris Attygalle and Neeta
Samarakkody, predeceased her while son, Ranjit, is domiciled in
Sweden.
Ranee
spent most of her time in the beautiful home of her younger daughter,
Vijayalakshmi, married to Prof. George Dissanaike of the University
of Peradeniya, both of whom lavished their love and unceasing care
on their beloved mother and provided her with every comfort. Ranee's
cup of joy overflowed when her grandson, Gishan and wife Padmika
became the parents of two lovely twins and made her the proud great-grandmother
at an early age.
And
so, we bade our last farewell to a gracious lady as we tenderly
lowered her down to her final resting place to the strains of her
favourite hymn. "Swift to its close ebbs out life's little
day; Change and decay in all around I see:
O thou who changest not, abide with me". We are assured that
Ranee has earned her place in the Heavenly abode of the Lord whom
she loved and worshipped.
A
Cousin
Criminals
feared him and colleagues revered him
Ebert
Egodapitiya
Retired Senior Superintendent of Police, Ebert Egodapitiya passed
away at the ripe age of 80 years and his funeral was held on February
2 at the General Cemetery Borella before a distinguished gathering
of Police Officers and members of the public. I was sad that I was
unable to pay my respects to him as I was away in the USA.
I worked
with him as a young Sub Inspector when he was Officer-in- Charge
of Maradana Police, when Maradana was like the Wild West infested
with criminals, pimps, prostitutes, pick-pockets, illicit liquor
dens and brothels.
Egodapitiya
was a tough cop who controlled the area with an iron fist like a
Sheriff. His deputies were Inspectors Lal Mendis, H. Y. De Silva
and Sub Inspectors John Jayasinghe, I.K. Samarasinghe, Tassie Seneviratne,
Sarath Borelessa, Sivasubramaniam and yours truly to name a few.
He not only kept the criminals in check, but also his subordinates,
who were also tough. He always looked after his subordinates.
"Choppe"
Dharmadas and "Madavi" Somapala were two notorious thugs
who terrorised Maradana and they met their "Waterloo"
in Egodapitiya. There were also other underworld characters such
as Seeni Malli and Avandale Jamis who were bootleggers, Chuti Mahattaya,
a violent extortonist, Uda Balung, a prostitute who ruled Junction
Bridge, Maradana by night, who was feared by everyone and Letchumi,
a provider of prostitues down Pitchers Lane. They were all kept
in check by Egodapitiya who knew his Law and Police Orders like
the palm of his hand.
Egodapitiya
was a product of Trinity College, Kandy and was a lover of sports.
He excelled in soccer and cricket and was a keen rugby fan who never
missed a Police match when I played and captained the Police rugby
team. He was a source of inspiration. When he was HQI. Kalutara,
he was a member of the Kalutara Division Cricket team which won
the J R Jayewardene Trophy captained by Anton Joachim, a former
Peterite cricketer, in the Police Inter-Division Cricket Tournament.
During
the period he was HQI Chilaw, HQI Kalutara, OIC Maradana and OIC
Colombo Fort, he earned a reputation as a good administrator and
a fair cop who was respected by the members of public and feared
by the criminals.
Politicians never interested him and he never went after them, but
performed his duties to the best of his ability. He was honest in
his dealings and discharged his duties impartially. He was always
God- fearing. It is a pity that we do not have Police officers of
his calibre today.
His
wife predeceased him and he leaves behind his only daughter and
family. Bernie Wijesekera, the well known sports scribe is married
to one of his sisters and was very close to him till death... May
he rest in peace.
S. Sivendran
Retd Senior Supdt
of Police
His
sterling qualities and thoughtful acts will not be forgotten
William Thurairatnam
Thurai to his loving wife, dad to his children, athan to some and
annan to most of us, bade a final good-bye to all his loved ones,
relatives, and friends on March 22, 2005. Although he was confined
to his home for sometime due to his sickness, he always looked cheerful.
His
ever-caring wife was always by his side, sharing his pain and anguish
and the children called from abroad every now and then to hear of
his progress. On two occasions he steered through. However on the
last occasion he had to bow down to God's will, his Creator and
Redeemer, whom he faithfully followed through life.
Though
he is no more, his sterling qualities and affable manners cannot
be forgotten by all those who knew him. He hailed from a family
of educationists, he himself being a product of Trinity College,
Kandy and a coloursman in Rugby. Completing his secondary education
he joined the Colombo Municipal Council and retired as Assistant
Assessor, having completed thirty years of service.
The
Church at St. Mary's Dehiwela that he frequented day after day will
bear testimony to the life that he lived. On the day of his funeral
the Pastor of St. Mary's dwelt in brief on his humble contributions
to the various sodalities and religious organizations he was closely
associated with.
A man
of moderate habits, drinking and smoking were never in his agenda,
however he relished good food and tasty dishes with a bottle of
coke or ice cream soda.
On
this the first anniversary of his death family members and friends
would say, Thank you Lord for all what you have been to him and
thank you Lord for all what he has been to us.
Lazarus
Gunayagam
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