Sounding good
By Nedra Wickremasinghe
"Mend your speech a little
Lest you may mar your fortunes" -
Shakespeare, (King Lear)
A person's success in the public arena can, to a certain extent, be
attributed to the quality of voice he or she possesses. It is important
for people in public life, like politicians, religious leaders, business
leaders and actors to have a good voice.
A good voice, no doubt, enhances your professional image. It helps to
get the attention of the audience-but a bad voice is a complete turn-off
and the rest of the image that you worked so hard on may go unnoticed.
Your voice creates an impression on other people, and can reveal your
personality. It can also indicate the mood of the moment, for others can
gauge from your tone whether you are annoyed, excited or depressed.
Research has revealed that your voice and how you speak (the pitch,
expressiveness and clarity) amounts to 38 per cent of the impression you
make on people, (seven per cent consists of what you are saying and the
balance 55 per cent is made up on how you look and behave). This does not
mean that you can get away by speaking unintelligently just because you
look good and sound good. After all in business, at work and in politics,
what you say matters and you must know what you are talking about.
But to succeed in your business or in public life there is more to it
than knowing your subject - it is the ability to sell the message. It is
only when you are able to sell your ideas that - you can succeed in your
mission. For this, a good voice is an added advantage. It is a well known
fact that famous personalities such as Nazi leader Adolf Hitler and our
very own SWRD Bandaranaike, who won fame as a great speaker in his Oxford
days, could hold a crowd spell- bound.
In modern times, Tony Blair, Nelson Mandela and Bill Clinton have a
crowd-pleasing charisma which complements their equally well-toned, energetic
and convincing voices. It only goes to prove that their voices are an integral
part of their suave personality.
But if you are unhappy with the way you sound-don't for a minute think
that you are condemned for life with a poor voice.
There are speech therapists to help you to improve your voice. But,
before you enlist their help, get some friends and family members to assess
your speech on richness, clarity or even confidence. Then record your voice
and do short speeches and pretend interviews and keep trying to sound better.
Little green, lots of imagination
By Ruwanthi Herat Gunaratne
Imagine your dream garden: a velvety green expanse of lawn, fringed by
a riotous burst of flowering plants and a few shade trees. A dream, you
sigh, because, due to overcrowding and overpopulation, you have just a
pocket-sized patch to call your own. Yes, the maximum amount of garden
space available in a modern city home would most probably be a measly four
feet across. So the idea of a beautiful garden should be forgotten - or
so we think.
A colourful wall to brighten up your garden
The Landscapists Association of Sri Lanka (LASL) at their recent exhibition
took pride displaying small gardens. And it seemed miraculous as to what
one can achieve in a limited space. "What is most important is to visualize
exactly what kind of look you'd like to achieve," says Aravinda Fernando
- the owner of 'Dramatic - The Art of the Unexpected', a landscaping firm.
"Once you've decided that, everything starts panning out in front of you."
Aravinda and his wife Harshini have been working in this field for over
one and a half years on a professional basis. Look for your assets first,
they advise. For example, a large tree or even an old tree stump could
be the centre of your landscape. Then you've simply got to let your imagination
go.
Once you've decided on that centre point, try to work out a plan in
your mind's eye as to how you'd like the finished product to look. Using
plants of the same family enhances the natural effect since the plants
almost seem to blend into each other.
If your small garden is in a shady area, don't despair. It may be impossible
to grow grass but who needs grass? It requires a lot of maintenance. Pebbles
are 'in' at the moment. One can pick up river pebbles from vendors down
Pamankada way at around Rs. 140 per 'thachchiya'. And a pebbled garden
is so easy to maintain.
Artistic
corner with pebbles and plants
"This is what I refer to as stonescaping," says Aravinda. "I have a
stonescaped garden myself and all I need do is water the plants daily and
pick up the fallen leaves - if there are any."
It is important especially if you have a very small garden not to overcrowd
it, says Ms. Dushyanthi Baptist, the Asst. Secretary of the LASL. "You
can try other techniques, like filling your centre spaces with river sand.
That's a Japanese art form where, once you strew sand in the garden, and
moisten it. After that, you draw a design on it, using a rake (preferably
out of wood). This is somewhat similar to what our monks do in temple.
You can draw designs like a river bed and arrange your plants accordingly
- it gives quite a unique effect especially to small gardens."
Another modern reality in these days of limited space is that the builders
usually place the sewerage pit right in the middle of the already small
garden. "I like to create cesspit sculptures," joked Aravinda. "Once you
have something like that in the middle of the garden, it ruins all your
hard work. So I advise covering the area with pebbles and then using flat
pots to create a small picture on that slab of concrete - it covers up
the pit and gives the garden an artistic touch."
What is the answer to dark areas? Lighting plays a vital role in small
gardens so change the colour of the backdrop, advises Aravinda. Instead
of that mundane white or green garden wall, try a burst of colour in the
form of a bright yellow, a gulf blue or even a pinkish salsa to enhance
and project the beauty of your garden.
Bonsai anyone? Definitely yes. But what about the hard work that goes
into preparing such a plant? Aravinda and his wife have a different perception
of this Japanese art form. "Plants can only grow on the space that you've
already provided for them. We've taken slightly grown plants and simply
potted them. The plant never grows any taller but just spreads out its
branches a bit more. After that it's a simple case of pruning.
Most people like to finish off their gardens with a water feature. So
that would mean that you'd need to get a contractor down to laying out
your pond, right? Think again. "Simply dig a hole in proportion to the
size of your garden and line it with thick black polythene to make it watertight.
The size and shape should blend in with the rest of your garden. Once the
polythene is laid out, place rocks or paving stones or even soil dug out
from the hole to keep the polythene in place," said Ira Jansz, President
of the LASL.
The ultimate factor is that - even a little burst of green can do wonders
for your soul, so don't sit back waiting for acres and acres: that little
piece of garden is potential paradise!
Do:
Keep the design simple
Use your plats to soften and enclose or to frame and focus attention
on views that lie beyond your boundary
Run out design lines and axes from centre of doorways and windows. Make
a definite choice between harmony and drama
(Landscapists Asso-ciation of Sri Lanka)
Try to avoid ponds without fish - stagnant water increases the potential
of mosquitoes and we definitely do not need any more of those.
Don't:
Overcrowd - it ruins the effect and is difficult to maintain
Expect too much. Plants take time to grow.
Keep taller plants in front of small ones |