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Dear
Coz
Build
a strong relationship
Dear Coz,
I'm a 24-year-old girl who's never had a love affair. A few months
ago a boy who's working with me said he loved me. He wanted to come
home and ask for my parents' permission. I'm scared to agree to
his proposal because of a previous affair he had with another girl
in office.
He told me they
broke up due to horoscope differences. She too is planning to get
married and he seems to be sad about it, which shows he's still
thinking about her. What if he starts to think of her again once
we are married . I don't think I could bear that. Please help.
Syththi
Dear
Syththi,
It's not just him, any man or for that matter, woman, can betray
the person they've married. It all depends on the individual and
the strength of their marriage. If not him your parents would wish
you to marry someone soon.
You
can't hide yourself inside a shell forever because you fear such
a heart break. Life is a gamble with no guarantees.
If
you have a strong relationship he's definitely not going to go back
to her. Take things slow and give him a chance. You'll never know
until you do.
Height
isn't a barrier
Dear
In Love,
There are no magic potions to make a person short or tall. I understand
how you feel but if she's not bothered, why worry? If the two of
you love each other why let a simple thing like height become a
barrier. In a relationship there are more important things to consider
like trust, understanding and faithfulness. If you feel strongly
about this you could wear shoes with a large heel and maybe she
might consider wearing flats. Before turning this into an issue
wait till you meet her in person before you decide if she is the
one for you.
Helping
hand
Dear Coz,
There is a girl who's my best friend. She loves a boy but she never
tells him about her love. I know the boy loves her too but even
he's not making a move. Can you please give them some advice?
Bishra
Dear
Bishra,
Much as you care for your friend it's better to leave them to solve
this on their own. But if you feel you must give them a helping
hand, you could ask this guy if he needs any help approaching your
friend if he truly loves her. He maybe shy or afraid of rejection
so tell your friend to give him a little encouragement and do her
part. Because as a girl your friend may not want to make the first
move. If after all that he's not bold enough to take the initiative
she'll be better off without someone like him. Good luck!
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