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Dear Coz

Act mature
Dear Coz,
I'm a 16-year old boy from Raddolugama. I have a girl friend who's of the same age. She is not allowed to come to our place for tuition ever since our parents got to know of our affair. We love each other very much but we don't get a chance to meet each other now. Every time I call her, her father answers the phone. This problem is driving me crazy. Please help!
143 D.J PLS

Dear 143 D.J PLS,
Obviously your parents think you are too young. Act mature and prove them wrong. Give it time. Concentrate on your studies and get good grades. Things are bound to simmer down within a couple of months. Be patient until then. Get a girl cousin or a girl you trust to contact your girl friend. That way you can still keep in touch.

See if you can attend some other class she's going to. Don't rush things. You'll have plenty of time for love. Patience is the key!

Be bold
Dear Coz,
I'm a 15-year old boy. I've fallen in love with a girl who travels in my van. I think she also likes me. Please tell me what to do.
Kevin A

Dear Kevin A,
Hmmm, if she has also given you the green light what are you waiting for? Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you believe she's the girl of your dreams go for it. Be friends. Get to know each other. Good Luck!

Get to know him first
Dear Complicated Mind, (letter withheld on request)

You're 15. You're not really serious about this. Why ask for trouble? Start talking to him. Be friends, at least until you figure out whether you want to start a serious relationship with someone like him. It's just not worth inviting trouble and complicating your life.

Especially if it's only for a bit of fun that might blow up in your own face.


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