Appreciations

 

She lived life to the fullest
Evelyn Kumari Kapuwatte
The passing away of Evelyn Kumari Kapuwatte was so sudden that all who knew her are unable to understand the will of God. She was vivacious, exuberant and ever willing to take part in any activity organized by her friends.

She was independent and lived separately, never inconveniencing her six children who are comfortably settled in life. However, her children were ever concerned and watchful.

Widowed nearly 15 years ago, she lavished love and care on her children.
The responsibility of bringing up her children made her strong, but it did not take the fun out of life. She insisted that all get-togethers should end with a sing-song.
She passed away during a get-together with friends.

The vast crowd that paid homage to her at the funeral is testimony to her being accepted as a special friend.

Walter Fernando


He took one day at a time
Nanda Senewiratna
November 10, marked one year since Uncle Nanda reached a higher plane of eternal life. We lesser mortals are still struggling to survive. My picture of Uncle Nanda will always be that of one clad in a sarong, pipe in mouth (which was most of the time not lit), glass in hand, narrating wild and dramatic stories. His ability to make his point heard in a mild and simple manner used to amaze me.

In the local political scenario prevailing today, he would have been in his element. He was a diehard green-man, politically and environmentally. He was close to nature and close to people. His attitude towards people with problems was God-like. He would calmly reassure anyone of us confronted with a problem and ease us of our burden. I have never heard him complaining about his own needs or wants. His needs and wants would be on behalf of others. He never dwelt on the past, never spoke of material losses, but always lived one day at a time .

He had a way with children. I remember how he gave my son a pipe to puff on, when he used to imitate him. He was a pillar of strength to his family and I wondered how Aunty Clare, Viraj and Akki would manage without him. I was amazed how his strength had a trickle-down effect that enabled them to sort out life's trials and tribulations single-handedly.

Uncle Nanda, to me, you have been a source of strength and encouragement. Though you were born a Buddhist, and I a Christian, to me you were more of a Christian than I am.

Thishan


An outstanding teacher
Maruthappah Rajendra
The death of Maruthappah Rajendra a few weeks ago leaves a void in his family and community. Educated at Trinity College, Kandy, Maruthappah graduated from Ohio University in America. Later he returned to Sri Lanka and worked for CARE and other aid organisations.

After retirement, he met Maharishi Yogi, which opened a door to spiritual life. He became a master of meditative development, its theory and practice and was in great demand as a teacher and lecturer. He travelled to Geneva and Kenya and worked with zeal. Many youth trained by him are now on scholarships abroad. In recognition of his excellent work he was appointed Regional Director by Maharishi Yogi.

A noble soul, affable and open-hearted, he was an outstanding teacher, who will be missed by many. If the first half of life was achievement and the second half the search for inner power, then here was a man who was an integrated human being, an example to others. May he be blessed with Moksha!

Pavalam
Gnanasekaram


An unsung DRO hero
Lal Jayatunga
Lal Jayatunga was one of the best DROs in the island, who served many years but never became an AGA or a GA. In Lal, we found a gentleman. He distributed land but did not have a house or land of his own. He loved birds, animals, books and papers. He would read late into the night but get up the next day with the call of the birds to go on circuit to a far off place.

Though he never engaged in politics, many were the politicians he associated with. But he did not ask or beg for any favours for himself.

The likes of Dudley Senanayake, M.D. Banda, Charley Kannangara, Victor Ratnayake, Shirley Corea were his contemporaries. The Rev. Buddharakkhitha with Wimala Wijewardena visited him often at the Mirigama official bungalow for a meal, which his blind sister used to put on the table so well prepared.

He dedicated his life to looking after his sister who he believed became blind due to his folly while playing in the yard when they were small. The planters of Deniyaya remember him for his loud laughter at the club. He was no sportsman of repute but would never miss a good rugby, cricket or tennis match. He hated the din of big matches.

His family was once horrified to find that he had gone for the Havelocks-CR match from the Barney Raymond's Parlour during the funeral of his father. That was Lal.
Many young DROs and GSs came to him for advice.

In his young days at Trinity, winning the Nel Prize for Literature, he boxed the ears of E.L. Senanayake who later became Mayor, politician and senior minister. M.D.H. Jayawardena was a contemporary of his who came to his rented house to ask for votes, only to be told that he had not voted for anyone in his life. Then they would both have a chat about the old days at Trinity.

Working as a clerical hand at the Foreign Office during the British era, he came first in the Civil Service Examination and became the youngest DRO. At University College he participated in the first ever campus strike but ended up with an Honours Degree from London and assisted others too in their studies.

It was no surprise to see Lal, clad in khaki shorts, socks and hat, directing operations to rescue an elephant stuck in the mud at the Weeravila tank.

Be it at the Wildlife Protection Society, the Space Study Club, the Automobile Association or Ole Simion's Press Club those days, he was the livewire at many discussions.

Serving in Hakmana, a dangerous area then frequented by thugs, he assisted the police to bring to book many a crook. He died unsung at the Akuressa Hospital.May he have eternal rest.

Sunil Jayatunga


A comet glittered in our family
Soma Kumarihamy Pilapitiya
Born in Kandy,
Brought fame to Sabaragamuwa
You were like a
Comet in our,
Family circle.

Led a graceful life,
Bringing up leaders, governors,
And planters
You never lost the common touch
Though you lived in a palace.

Three years back,
On a gloomy morning,
You diminished,
Showing us the uncertainty of life
At your ancestral place,
Generations will get-together and
Invoke blessings
For you to attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana!

Hemamala Sangakkara


In memory of a loving father
D.A. Wijesekara
Dear father, you passed away 10 years ago on November 2, 1993, after a fruitful 90 years. I remember how you shared my joys and cheered me up when I was sad and advised me and my colleagues when there was a problem. I will never forget how you got involved to settle a misunderstanding between the Principal and the staff in my school, talking to both parties, making them understand that such a rift would affect the good name of the school and the education of the students.

Your courage and devotion was exemplary. I still think of the wonderful time we shared, talking and laughing. At times I hear your deep voice chanting Sathipattana sutra at the crack of dawn. Often your chanting was the alarm for us to start a new day.

Sometimes you were like a mischievous schoolboy, befriending anyone, in any age group and talking and arguing with anybody. You helped the poor and the sick.

- Loving Daughter


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