A
fearless loss of femininity
By Carlton Samarajiwa
The word ‘fearless’ to describe a fashion show has more
to it than meets the eye. The epithet holds the prospect of revealing
not only the salient parts of the female figure but also the loss
of lajja bhaya in what the advertisements referred to as an "electrifying
show". It's all part of a cult in which fashion has to be sexy
and sexiness fashionable.
Our
understanding of femininity has been bruised by the onslaught of
TV commercials, magazine and newspaper advertisements, posters and
billboards of images that turn the feminine figure into a clumsy
sex object. They assail us hour-by-hour, morning after morning,
from one bus stop to another, depicting partial nudity as a powerful
selling tool.
About
fifty years ago eyebrows were raised at the advent of the bikini
and the mini. Now, fifty years later, what is there left to raise,
when female breasts are bared, uncorsetted, and only the tits are
hidden from sight but only just -titillatingly? Incidentally, the
brassiere industry is certain to bust as models, of whom there are
now quite a few attractive young women, shed the inner garment that
used to conceal their breasts. What eyebrows are there left to raise
when thighs are bared almost right up to what Eve covered with a
fig leaf? Not much clothing seems to be on in these times of garment
factories that have given employment to thousands of languishing
rural girls, who, in contrast, appear decently clothed -though not
decently fed.
In
the old days...
I am not being priggish. Who wants to be so? But we are only contemplating
in our declining years -naively, though- over what has happened
to the Sri Lankan woman, and her passion for fashion. She was known
down the centuries for her modesty and passivity. She wore cloth
and jacket and saree decorously, and young girls wore the lamaa
sariya with a manthe as part of the blouse in front and a neriya
at the back of the saree; they had a a functional importance - the
manthe to provide extra cover for the breasts and the neriya, the
posterior. And, at the village well, women wore the diya redda,
the nearest to revealing the contours of the female figure. (The
diya redda, incidentally, worn by his mother as she bathed, is reported
in a Sinhala short story of yore to have been the sight that first
stirred a young man's passion.)
Today,
modesty has been replaced by a blatant vulgarity in dress, passivity
by a ferocious aggressiveness in fashion. Change in mores and change
in dress are too drastic to absorb when such change hits you in
the eye in the streets and pavements, shopping malls and at workplaces,
at bus halts and railways stations and inside crowded buses and
trains, and not just at late night parties in five-star hotels and
at discotheques and binges in karaoke bars and other such exclusive
resorts of the rich.
How
low can waistlines and hemlines and necklines get? How wide can
the midriff get? How short can the distance between crotch and waist
get? How higher can slits in skirts grow - on the side, at the back
and in front? How tight can women's dresses get? In other words,
how low can women go? Is there a law about sexually provocative
exposure?
Food
for thought
On one of those rare occasions that we hired a cab, the friendly
but garrulous elderly driver went on and on without ceasing right
up to our destination, making his salacious remarks and perceptive
observations on what women are wearing nowadays. He not only spoke
but also gestured gleefully with his hands and forced us to look
at the bare-all-dare-all sights he was ogling along Galle Road -
Sri Lankan women of all shapes and sizes dressed in clothes that
hardly merited the name because to clothe is to cover one's nakedness.
We
were shown Sri Lankan women in Colombo wearing hipsters. There are,
according to an article by Rebecca Tyrrel in The Telegraph, three
types of hipsters: "skimmers" which skim the hips, the
"so lows" which come just below the hips, and the "way
lows", which show as much as you can possibly get away with.
There
is also a range of jeans called "Bum Couture", which exposes
bum cleavage, just as the low neckline exposes breast cleavage.
Lee Cooper, the UK jeans label, is reported to have launched a range
called "hipothesis" that exposes the hip because, according
to fashion research, this is the most sensual part of the female
torso. The traditional knickers will not help and have been replaced
by the G-string and the thong. In France, teachers are trying to
deal with a fashion craze among teenagers to expose their midriffs
and wear thongs designed to peek out above low-cut trousers. Paradoxically,
France is also protesting the headdress worn by Muslim women.
Unhealthy situations
One wonders how women squeeze into clothes that are so
tight. They pose a health hazard. According to Dr.William Dickey,
a gastroenterologist, tight clothes have led to a new condition
among women known as "designer dyspepsia" because they
increase pressure on the abdomen. That creates a problem in getting
rid of acid and increases the tendency for the stomach contents
to go backwards into the gullet. Constraining trousers, Lycra shorts,
constricting belts and "hold-in" underwear and tights
are all to blame for indigestion, trapped wind, belching and heartburn.
Posing
along the catwalk and walking the streets in states of semi nudity
must be giving our girls a sense of empowerment and assuredness,
as a former employee of the disgraced Enron empire said after posing
naked for Playboy, along with other girls who had lost their prestigious
Enron jobs. "I did this Playboy shoot as a payoff to myself,"
she said.
The
question is why do our Sri Lankan girls take the catwalk wearing
nothing more than a nine-inch wide wrap around to cover their femininity?
A subject for anthropological research, maybe. Yves Saint Laurent,
the prince of French haute couture, designed clothes for women for
forty illustrious years to make them radiant with beauty and elegance.
"I have enabled women to gain access to a world which had been
banned to them…I wanted to place myself in the service of
women, to serve their bodies, their gestures, their attitudes and
their lives," he said at his final fashion show in 2002, which
marked his retirement from the industry. "The new world of
fashion which is now only "design" is alien to me. Elegance
and beauty have been banished," he lamented.
What
some of our Sri Lankan women are wearing nowadays -"packaging"
themselves for consumption - never became a burning issue for fundamentalist
protest. But it should have been, alongside the protests against
"unethical conversions" at least because something there
is that is unethical in the outrageous attire of these women; it
is a kind of unethical conversion from traditional attire to seductively
low-cut and provocatively high-slit attire, enough to knock the
socks off the guardians of our indigenous mores!
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