A
shining example of truth
Anton Puvimanasinghe
Group Captain Anton Puvimanasinghe was educated at St. Joseph's
College, Colombo, where he won the Open General Science Prize. Thereafter
he entered the University of Colombo where he did a degree in science.
Subsequently
he joined the Sri Lanka Air Force and was sent to the UK for training
with the Royal Air Force. There he followed a course in logistics
and was trained in explosives and fuels. He passed this course with
distinction and was placed first by order of merit, beating the
other officers, by a big margin.
Returning
to Sri Lanka, he was posted as Chief Equipment Officer of the Maintenance
Unit, Katunayake. A few years later, he was promoted as Commanding
Officer of the Unit where he served for about 10 years.
Thereafter
he was sent to the Royal Air Force Staff College in Andover, UK
from where he passed out with distinction. He was the winner of
the Staff College Prize for the best thesis. The Editorial Board
of the R.A.F. Staff College Journal at Bracknell selected his essay
for publication in that year’s journal. It's the only essay
from an overseas student that has been accepted for publication.
Group
Captain Puvimanasinghe's superiors at Staff College held him in
high esteem. He was a confident and effective speaker, expressing
himself clearly and with conviction. He was a capable and dedicated
officer of high professional ability and fine personal qualities.
On
his return to Sri Lanka, he was appointed Director of Logistics,
SLAF and continued in this post until he retired voluntarily in
1977. Thereafter he functioned as General Manager and Director/Sales
of two leading hotels in Colombo being qualified in Hotel Management.
He had also been aide-de-camp to the Governor General in 1960 and
1961 and also to the President of Sri Lanka from 1975 to 1977.
A
member of the Institute of Purchasing Supply, England and Sri Lanka,
he was Fellow of the Institute of Supply and Materials Management.
He was also the President of the Sri Lanka Institute of Supply and
Materials Management for three years and conducted lectures at the
Institute.
A
keen sportsman, he played tennis and hockey at the university and
Staff College, UK and won colours at both places. In a world of
corruption, deceit, dishonesty and greed, Group Captain Anton Puvimanasinghe
was a shining example of truth, justice, fairplay, honesty and integrity.
He was a real officer and gentleman, par excellence. May he rest
in peace and gain his eternal reward for his well-spent beautiful
life.
A dear friend and
colleague
He
did not get caught up in the rat race
Sudharma Dhanapala
Sudharma Dhanapala's absence is still deeply felt by us. He passed
away on November 11, last year at the age of 62 leaving us grieving
for a simple, charming, generous and high-minded personality.
Sudharma
was born on July 12, 1941, to a well-connected Kandyan Buddhist
family from Harispattutuwa. His late father, Rambanda Dhanapala,
rtd. Inspector of Police excelled in sports in the early ’50s
at national level. His mother, the late Punchimenike, a deeply religious
lady from Annathugoda Walawwa, in Harispattuwa was the pillar behind
his success.
Sudharma
who received his formal education as a hosteller at St. Anthony's
College, was a scholarly product of the school, excelling in English
and Latin. He continued to keep close links with his alma mater
and his old friends
Sudharma successfully completed his LLB and became an Advocate at
the Colombo Law College in the early 70's.
After
joining the Kandy Bar under the guidance of the late Tissa Kapukotuwa,
a good friend of his late father, Sudharma never betrayed professional
ethics for cheap personal gain, but practised his profession with
dignity.
I
can still recollect his words that "what has happened to most
of our people is greed and running the rat-race, thereby losing
their identity." He believed in the simplicity of life.
His
virtues were extolled by judges, lawyers, clergy, clerks and the
poor clients who had benefited much from his services. Sudharma
was an avid reader who had a broad knowledge of many different subjects,
which he loved to share with others. He loved nature and was also
keen on horticulture.
In
the small garden around his house at Hantane one could see various
plants which he had planted himself during his leisure. According
to him this was a small project he had undertaken for the sake of
co-existence with nature.
Absolutely
straight in his dealings, he was disciplined and quite happy to
appear for a couple of cases a day and then rush to the Technical
College where he conducted lectures in law and banking for the poorer,
lower middle class students.
He
had an idyllic life with his affectionate wife Padma, and only daughter
Sriyangani, a brilliant student. There is much to say about his
virtues but in conclusion I would like to quote a Latin maxim; "Mortui
Vivos Docent" - The dead teach the living.
Sarath
Dhanapala
He
never hurt anyone by word or deed
H.P. Gooneratne
My father Pushpa Gooneratne, known to many as Fred passed away on
December 9, last year at the age of 73, after a brief illness. He
had told one of his close friends who visited him a few days before
he died, "I have lived my life well and as a true Buddhist
I now accept old age, disease and death" . Such was his attitude
to life.
He
was a wonderful example to my mother, two elder brothers and me.
Ours was a home full of happiness, love, warmth and togetherness.
My father had a wide circle of friends and he loved to entertain
and our house used to be the venue of many get-togethers and parties.
The numerous family outings with friends and relations are memorable
experiences etched in my mind. I know my father did all this to
keep family unity and happiness. My two brothers and I have lovely
memories of our childhood, thanks to my father and mother. We learnt
the beauty of marriage and bliss of family life from them.
My
father ensured that the three of us had the best education he could
have afforded, enabling us to stand up in society with confidence.
He was a wonderful husband to my mother and a great father to us.
When the three of us got married, it was natural for him to consider
our partners as his own children showing no difference. He adored
his four grandchildren. He was happiest when his family was around
him.
Each
time he went overseas even on very short trips it used to give him
so much pleasure to come home with a suitcase full of gifts for
his wife, children and grandchildren (often forgetting to purchase
anything at all for himself).
He
was a devout Buddhist and was actively involved in social service
for more than 25 years up to the time of his death. He was so proud
of the organisation he founded - HelpAge Sri Lanka, tirelessly working
and lovingly watching it grow from strength to strength each successive
year.
On
the 7th day of bana and alms-giving held in his memory, the priest
in his sermon mentioned that since my father led such a good life
he did not need merit to be bestowed on him, but that this offering
of alms could be taken as a duty performed in memory of an exemplary
husband and father. Thaththi practised loving kindness to all beings
and did not wilfully hurt anyone by word or deed. I admired him
for this quality. He used to advise us: "Even if anyone speaks
disparagingly of you never retaliate or wish him ill, as this would
only make you the unwise and add to your unwholesome karma."
All that is left behind of him now are the beautiful memories of
a life well spent.
Ishani
Epitome
of kindness
Nalin Totamune
It is with profound sadness that I write this tribute to my brother-in-law
Nalin Totamune, whose sudden death on November 1 has left an unfillable
void in the hearts of all those near and dear to him.
The
outpouring of grief by such a large number of mourners at the funeral
was an indication of how much he was loved and respected. Although
much involved in his business as a proprietor planter, he was a
family man. He was close to his wife Thaksala, his three daughters
and his grand-daughter.
His
caring and large heartedness especially towards the less fortunate
was just one of his beautiful qualities. He will be missed by all
those who worked with him and those who remember him as a real gentleman,
who was always there when needed.
Nalin
loved life and was ever ready to go out on a trip, play a game of
badminton or arrange a group dinner with his friends. To these friends
it is still unbelievable that Nalin is no more.
I
can only recollect and marvel at his simplicity, kindness and generosity.
He installed a turbine in a mini-hydro project on his estate, providing
free electricity to some needy families in the area. He also donated
land to a nearby school.
Nalin
is no more. But beautiful memories of him will always linger. May
he attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana.
Gamini
Wijepura
A magnanimous
person who wielded influence
Simlie W.Fernando
Simlie W. Fernando a well-known figure in Moratuwa passed away shortly
before Christmas having completed more than the Biblical three score
years and ten.
Simlie
was born on November 25, 1920 and died on December 21, last year.
Simlie aiya, as we used to fondly call him, was my best friend's
eldest brother. Hailing from a respected family in Moratuwa, he
entered St. Sebastian's College at a time when it was taboo for
Anglicans to seek admission there. He was the very first non-Catholic
pupil of this illustrious institution. He joined the primary in
1926 and left only after his matriculation in 1939, to join the
Public Service, which was prestigious in the good old days.
He
was very active in the Old Boys' Union and a member of the legendary
33 Circle, which included the best brains. He served as Asst. Secretary
of the OBA and also was Asst. Secretary of the La Sallian Federation
for 18 years. He received many an accolade from the Christian Brothers
from time to time and Rev. Bro. Baptist Croos hailed him as a gentle,
cheerful and magnanimous person who wielded much influence.
Simlie
was in government service till his retirement at the age of 59.
By then he had served in the Treasury, Labour Department and Ministry
of Industries and Scientific Affairs. Simlie held many responsible
posts like Asst. Commissioner of National Housing and Administrative
Officer, UNDP/TAO Agricultural Diversification Project. He had the
distinction of being the first non-legal OA to the Legal Draughtsman
in which post he retired.
He
was an active member of the Moratuwa Friend-in-Need Society, Moratuwa
Cancer Society and also of the Home for Elders, Moratuwa. After
retirement, he did a seven-year stint at L.B. Finance. He was a
keen writer and many have read his interesting articles in the Catholic
Messenger and other magazines.
He
leaves behind two daughters and a son. Simlie had many friends and
one of them, the Rt. Rev. Dr. Marius Peiris, the Auxiliary Bishop
of Colombo, also a past pupil of St. Sebastian's conducted his obsequies.
May Simlie rest in peace.
Lenard
R.
Mahaarachchi
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