Planning
your second lifetime
By Nilooka Dissanayake
I must be arriving at some halfway mark in life. Everywhere I turn,
I see references to it. The concept is simple. Expected average
lifetimes are lengthening. We can expect to live longer than our
ancestors. But, since our biological functions and productivity
do not change, the only difference will be in how we spend that
extra bonus time during the latter part of our lives.
Have
you thought about it? I have been compelled to by coincidences.
One such is a chapter titled “The Second Half of Your Life”
in The Essential Drucker, a collection of 60 years of Peter Druckers
writings on management. Drucker, is well suited to talk about this
second lifetime with authority. He started writing at the age of
30. And at 95, he is the greatest guru of management the world has
ever seen.
This
is his take on the second part of your life. The world of work is
changing. The knowledge economies that he predicted long ago are
becoming a reality. As a result, most of us have become knowledge
workers. Others are well on their way towards it. We no longer toil
with our bodies and limbs. We toil with our gray matter.
We
work with ideas, not materials. As appropriate industries and technologies
replace the old, these in turn compel us to change along with them.
Our work patterns will also change. One key observation is that
the knowledge workers of today will no longer work in the same organisation
throughout his or her lifetime.
That
is not so alarming to us as it would have sounded to our grandfathers.
What is alarming is that we may have to change our professions or
vocations as well. Drucker observes that most people who manage
to live productively during the second half of their lives successfully
begin long before they reach the second half.
He
quotes examples of young executives who begin working with charities
and managing fund raising activities in their spare time. When they
retire, they can go into fund raising as a full time job or start
their own business. He speaks of office workers who study law after
their kids go off to college and end up with their own law practices.
The need of the era is flexibility; of attitudes, ideas and transferable
skills. What are you today? What will you do when you are no longer
having kids to support and making money at a regular job simply
becomes a bore? Often, those who retire want to play golf or just
relax at home with family. There is a limit to playing golf.
The
family has grown up and will be busy with its own lives. Your brain
will soon start to feel the need for stimulation, especially if
your mind has been very active. I feel uncomfortable when people
announce their retirements. I feel sorry because when I ask what
their plans are, most have nothing solid to say. They have not planned
the second half of their life.
My
father is an exception. For fifteen-years before he retired, he
started planning a project to start a business magazine in Sinhala.
The day after he retired from the private sector, he started a new
office and went back to work.
I
probably got the same quality in my genes. I started with biology
to become a veterinary surgeon. Then, abandoned all ideas of university
because the universities were closed around the time I qualified
to enter. I started on a course in Management Accountancy. After
seven years, I turned to journalism. I also became an entrepreneur
by default. I have shifted track so often, I am very comfortable
with it. Right now I am also dabbling with the electronic media.
I have taken up training seriously.
Even
I do not know what I will be doing in 10 years. And I don’t
think I am old enough to have reached my second lifetime! Now, this
ability to shift track was natural to me. But most people are inflexible.
One thing that used to annoy me soon after I decided to do accountancy
were comments like these: “How can you do accountancy after
doing bio science for A/ Levels?” And I used to retort, “Two
years out of 18 years do not make me a specialist.” Most of
you will have to forget the habits of a lifetime in order to be
happy in the second part of your lives. How much have you planned
for it? If you have not given it thought, shouldn’t you? Have
you realised the truth seen by the writer of this poem?
“Time
is not yet slow
enough
for me to notice her
moving feet.
Along diverse
avenues she
rushes onward;
A fleeting force
She must slow down
sometime.
Then only will I feel
her move forward at a
slumbering pace.
Then only will I know
What it is to count the
passing moments
on my finger tips.”
Often,
while we may be paid well in our jobs, we may not be able to achieve
our personal aspirations through it. Seniority and other administrative
ceilings will be holding you back. If you do not wish to leave Sri
Lanka, you may be stuck in a dead end job. How about planning other
activities to achieve the satisfaction missing in your regular job?
How about early retirement? How about getting into business on your
own? I see this trend among many people I meet. Successful executives,
men crossing the 40-age line start thinking about their own business.
Why not work for myself rather than for someone else? They ask.
Now that I have put this thought of a second lifetime into your
head, why not plan for it from today?
If
you did not have much fun during the first lifetime, plan for it
during the second. Age is only a number, so have fun! Please let
us know what topics you like us to touch upon in the future.
You
can contact us on ft@sundaytimes.wnl.lk or on 5-552524 The writer
is the Managing Editor of Athwela Vyaparika Sangarawa (Athwela Business
Journal), the only Sinhala management monthly targeting the small
and medium enterprises and its English version, Small Business International
magazine. |