Bravely
battling a deadly disease
N. Dilshath Banu meets the Munasinghe
family as Sukumari , a wife and mother of two young children, faces
the nightmare of leukaemia.
It was January 21, 2004- just another working
day for Harsha Munasinghe, a lecturer at the Computer Centre of
Sri Jayawardenapura University, except that his wife, Sukumari Kalukottege,
a development officer at the Ministry of Urban Development and Water
Supply, and their four-year-old son and three-year-old daughter,
were ill.
Late
in the evening Sukumari's condition worsened. When Harsha consulted
Dr. Anil Gunathilake, a senior lecturer at the university and a
close friend of their’s , he insisted that she be admitted
to hospital immediately. The next morning Dr. Gunathilake explained
to Harsha that he suspected leukaemia.
The
report of Sukumari's bone marrow test confirmed that she had Chronic
Granulocytic Leukaemia. "She didn't show any kind of early
symptoms, but lost weight," said Harsha, struggling to contain
his emotions. "I didn't want to tell her about her condition.
But she knew."As this kind of leukaemia is not the most serious
form of the disease, Harsha hoped that she could be cured.
For
nearly two months, 37-year-old Sukumari carried on with her life
as a wife and mother continuing to work. She was prescribed medicine,
which cost Rs. 9,200 per day and seemed to respond very well. "
She was full of courage and did everything at home, including the
cooking," said Harsha, remembering the happy times together.
But
this happiness lasted only for a few months. In May, Sukumari's
condition worsened. Her disease had transformed into Acute Myeloid
Leukaemia.
On
May 9, Sukumari left for a Singapore on the advice of her physician
at the Cancer Hospital , Maharagama, leaving behind her family.
The first time she went through chemotherapy her condition got worse.
But the second time, she responded well," explained Harsha.
Now she's awaiting a donor for a bone marrow transplant.
Sukumari's
room in the Singapore National Hospital is filled with photographs
of her two kids Vihanga and Sayumi. Back home, the family’s
apartment in the University of Sri Jayawardenapura is forlorn. But
Harsha says he can sense Sukumari's presence all the time. His two
children play by his side, not knowing the gravity of their mother's
disease.
Harsha
and Sukumari's 7th wedding anniversary fell on July 24th. Last year
they had exchanged gifts and treasured every moment together. Turning
the pages of his wedding album, Harsha recalls how his love for
Sukumari began." We both studied in the same university and
I knew her family very well," he said.
The
cost of treatment in Singapore is an estimated US $ 100,000. Having
so far raised a little more than Rs.1 million from the family, Harsha
has managed to pay part of it. But now Harsha and the family alone
cannot bear the cost. "We really need public assistance to
save her life," says Harsha.
Account
number 0120-01443961-101 of H.K.Munasinghe has been opened at Seylan
Bank, Nugegoda for any contributions from kind donors to help this
young mother in her battle for life. |