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Nightingale of yesteryear
Marisa de Silva speaks to Farida Macan Markar about
her wartime memories and nursing days
She can well recall the days of World War II, the time of food rations,
clothing coupons, air raids and no chocolate. While living a full
life in Sri Lanka, Farida Macan Markar's memories of wartime Britain
are still vivid in her mind.
Joan
Fromant, as she was then, met Alavi Macan Markar for the first time
in 1939 when he came to Cambridge to read for a degree in Economics.
The following year when she was just 20 the world changed. On September
3, 1940 came the breaking news that Britain had declared war on
Germany. "We thought that we were doomed as Hitler had already
taken over most of the Scandinavian countries, so we were quite
alone, it seemed," she recalled.
Since
she was in the first age group to be called up to either join the
forces or help with war related work, she joined Pye Radio, to help
produce 50 radios a day to be used in tanks.
Mrs.
Macan Markar also joined the Volunteer Detachment of the British
Red Cross, where she had to do nursing when British troops in France
were brought back to London. "We even learnt how to extinguish
fire bombs," she said.
Life
in wartine Britain was not easy. During the entire duration of the
war they were each given 26 clothing coupons per year, she recalls.
On rare occasions, there would be an announcement of a sale of shoes.
Immediately a queue about a mile long would form but, unfortunately
only the first 100 would be lucky.
Only
people living in the countryside could rear and therefore indulge
in eating chicken, said Mrs. Macan Markar. All other food was rationed.
"Although it sounds like we led quite a dreary existence, we
lived quite happily," she smiles.
As
Alavi had been a cadet when he was a student at Royal College, Colombo,
he had a knowledge of weapons and army training and was hence appointed
to teach at the Volunteer Aid Detachment of the British Red Cross.This
detachment consisted mainly of soldiers over and under age to join
the National Forces, who were meant to protect each little town
by fighting the enemy, until reinforcements were sent. "Alavi
was supposed to give them some training as some of them hadn't even
touched a rifle in their lives," she said.
Having
moved in with her cousin in Epping, she recalls how they had been
sitting, reading the paper in the garden when the Germans had bombed
right up the River Thames the first time. They had seen the whole
of London in flames. From this day on, Germany had bombed England
every day for several months.
She
also recalls the German POW camps run by the American allies, and
provided with American rations. "Many POW's would trade chocolates
for cigarettes with the English children outside the camp, as chocolate
wasn't freely available.”
Joan
Fromant married Alavi Macan Markar in 1941 and though both their
families initially disapproved, they soon came around. In 1945,
Sir Mohamed Macan Markar (Alavi’s father) booked their passage
to Ceylon.With only two weeks to prepare for their departure, the
young couple boarded the 'City of Exeter', which was to be their
first passenger ship to Ceylon. "It was a very slow and tedious
journey, because we were being escorted by a convoy of destroyers
to protect the passengers from Japanese submarines,” added
Mrs.Macan Markar.They finally arrived in the island by ferry in
June, three months after their departure from England. Then, taking
a train down to the Maradana station, they were met by many of Alavi's
brothers and brothers-in-law. "I was a bit nervous to meet
my in-laws for the first time”, but, taken to her father-in-law's
residence, (where she lives still), she was greeted by the women
of her extended family who welcomed her warmly.
Gradually
feeling quite comfortable amidst the Macan Markars, she was soon
renamed Farida, after the wife of King Farouk of Egypt. Even with
the passing away of her husband six years ago, Mrs. Macan Markar
was content to stay on here as she is quite accustomed to the local
way of life.
Having
raised two sons and two daughters, who are currently living abroad,
she's also the proud grandmother of five grandchildren and two great-grand
children. |