He
always wore a crown of humility
Lakshman Wijewardena
Tecci for short;
for long Don Lakshman Maliyadeva Hulugalle Wijewardena, departed
this life after a steady span of more than three score years and
ten. He was born and nurtured in an expansive environment which
comprised Laurinda - the sprawling mansion stretching from the Galle
Road down to the sea which is now home to the Bambalpitiya Police
Station. A scion of noble lineage, Tecci was a portly personality
not only physically with a perpetually expansive smile to match
but also in his general outlook. There was absolutely nothing narrow
or mean about him.
His
father was the well-known business magnate, Don Philip Alexander
Wijewardena, a national hero of the Freedom Movement along with
his famous brothers and honoured by the Philatelic Bureau in 1890.
His mother Matilda Jayatilleka Hulugalle was the sister of the famed
H.A.J. Hulugalle, journalist and diplomat. Tecci had his early education
at Royal College and S Thomas', Mount Lavinia where his assiduous
care for his text books earned him the sobriquet, Tecci.
He
then went on to Law College and Lincoln's Inn, London. Having passed
out as a Barrister, he won a Smith Mundt scholarship which took
him to New York University where he obtained a Master's degree in
International Law. While in New York he lived in the prestigious
International House and as an active member of the Students’
Organisation, he met and interacted with prominent personalities
like Earl Warren, the then Chief Justice of USA, Eleanor Roosevelt
and John D. Rockefeller - to name a few.
Tecci
had wide interests especially on the intellectual level and enjoyed
the company of those intellectually inclined. He took delight in
organising synposia in his hospitable home.
A true-blue
aristocrat he did not give himself any airs but rather put on humility
as his crown. He made no secret of his appreciation of the good
in the friends around him. A devout Buddhist he was at one time
the Chief Trustee and Basnayake Nilame of the Kelaniya Rajamaha
Viharaya; he was on the Dayake Sabhas of many temples including
Gangaramaya and Wellawatte Vijayaramaya.
He
was adorned with many a virtue and if there were any faults they
were venial and leaned to virtue's side. Tecci leaves behind his
gracious wife, Vasanthi (nee Maralande), daughter Shalini, and son
Haritha. Goodbye, my friend, may blissful peace be with you for
ever and for ever.
Xenelphon
Alive
in our hearts
Ruby Fernando
Ruby Fernando, our mother passed away peacefully
on September 5, this year. Fate brought my father and mother together
and inspite of many obstacles, love prevailed and they married at
a young age. In all my father's deliberations she was his greatest
supporter.
As
the years passed by they were blessed with two daughters and four
sons. Father was a self-made man and the building trade was his
profession. Mother managed the entire household with efficiency
and enthusiasm.
She
loved sewing and all my clothes were sewn by her. These were always
admired by my relatives and friends. Many relations, friends and
less fortunate girls were dressed as brides by my mother.
In
style and designing her ideas were well advanced. All this started
with her childhood hobby of dressing up dolls. I too inherited the
love for sewing from her and remember having won the Middle School
Needlework Prize during my schooldays at Visakha.
My
mother was very young when I was born so we grew up more like sisters.
In the eighties she was the one who influenced me to do a Montessori
Diploma as I had a great love for children.
When
I left for Lesotho, a landlocked country, I started the first Montessori
there. I was fortunate to get her down for a holiday where she was
able to see my success in a foreign land.
During her wanderings in Sansara, may she meet father and be united
once again.
Indrani
de Silva
He
lived up to his name
Basil Emmanuel
He was christened Arasanayagam Basil Constantine,
ABC - to his friends. His father was the well-known Muhandiram C.A.
Emmanuel J.P. whose home "Blossom", on Kandy Road was
the social centrepoint of Kurunegala town at that time.
Did
Basil live up to his name? The answer is Yes and No. His name, Basil,
comes from the Greek 'basileus' meaning 'King'. If the question
is, 'Did he strut around our world's narrow stage pompously giving
himself airs? "The answer is a resounding "No." Did
he go about his business wearing a kingly crown studded not with
precious gems but with shining virtues, the answer is "Yes:Yes:Yes"
- Virtues of being humble; of being loyal in friendship, of being
God-fearing and pious; of being unquestionably honest; of being
patient etc - but why go on gilding refined gold?
My
first meeting with Basil was when I managed to find employment in
the Income Tax Department in 1951. On the very first day of my employment
Basil who had joined the Department a few years earlier, sought
me out and informed me that my uncle, the parish priest in Kurunegala
had admonished him to take me under his wing and see that I keep
to the straight and narrow road and this - jokingly of course -
on pain of not getting absolution for his sins at the confessional!
So started a fruitful friendship which lasted throughout 53 years
without a single hiccup.
From
Basil, I learned many valuable lessons - chief among them was kindness
to taxpayers however errant they be - not to press down upon their
heads a crown of thorns. Basil was all too well known among colleagues
and accountants alike for this humane quality. After working for
almost 30 years in our Tax Department, Basil left it as an Assistant
Commissioner and accepted a similar job with the Tax Office in Zambia
- going there to spread his light on that part of the continent.
After
several years with the Zambian Government he joined a private sector
firm also in Zambia, the internationally famed firm of accountants,
Price Waterhouse. Later, finding the call of his motherland too
hard to ignore, Basil returned to Sri Lanka and, like a duck to
water, slid naturally into tax consultancy. Fortunately or unfortunately,
most of his clients were close friends and therefore his services
were given pro deo (gratis) and for nothing 'summa' as Basil would
say.
This
'summa' reminds me that Basil had the habit of introducing vernacular
words in casual talk - two examples spring to mind -'pom parippu'
and 'paccha thanni' to express his disapproval of some object or
situation.
An
ace raconteur he had many gather round him at parties to enjoy his
humorous tales told without acrimonious slings and arrows. His amiable
nature was such that he had many friends round him. True friends
are gifts you give yourself, he used to say - and without them life
is a mistake.
I am sure Basil would like me to mention here a fact that is not
well known. He was an avid athlete - a superb sprinter winning many
a prize at school sports meets - St Michael's, Batticaloa and St
Anne's, Kurunegala and later at the Colombo University. In fact
some 'varsity' mates used to remark that Basil runs like Hercules
a furlong in a breath!
May the turf lie lightly over Basil
Xenelphon
A
generous and compassionate man
Gamini Abeysekara
Dr. Gamini Abeysekara passed away in Bangkok a month ago where he
served as UNICEF Resident Representative until the early part of
this year. He would have been no doubt looking forward to returning
to Sri Lanka in a few months, to a more relaxed life style among
his many friends and relations. However, this was not to be.
The
news of Gamini's sudden demise was not only shocking but also most
unexpected. It was more so to a few of us who happened to meet up
with him one evening just two months ago at the Mt. Lavinia Hotel
at a dinner hosted by a mutual friend in his honour whilst he was
on a brief visit to Colombo.
As
usual, he narrated with abundant exuberance his recent experiences
in Bangkok both professionally and socially, not to mention his
insightful analysis of the political-economy of Thailand. In passing,
however, he mentioned prophetically "at the moment I have absolutely
no plans for the future."
Gamini
hailed from the well known Abeysekara family in Colombo 10, of eight
brothers and two sisters, the eldest and the most famous being late
Karunaratna Abeysekara who mesmerized the Sri Lankan public in the
pre-television era through the air waves of Radio Ceylon.
Gamini
having completed his primary and secondary education in Nalanda
and Ananda where he excelled in his studies, joined the University
of Peradeniya in 1964 and graduated in Economics in 1968 with Second
Class (Upper Division) Honours.
I
met Gamini in 1969 when he joined the Central Bank as an economist,
one of the most sought after positions by young graduates in that
era. However, I soon lost touch with him having proceeded to U.K.
on my post-graduate studies in late 1969. When I returned in 1973
I found that Gamini too had left for post-graduate studies at the
University of Wisconsin in the United States. In due course, I believe
it was 1976, he returned to the Central Bank having completed his
doctoral studies. Ever since we were able to develop not only a
cordial professional relationship but also a close and lasting personal
relationship.
In
the Central Bank, Gamini performed with great distinction holding
a number of important positions in the Economic Research Department.
He belonged to the first generation of bilingual economists who
joined the Central Bank after 1965. He was equally proficient in
both Sinhala and English and was manifestly comfortable before both
Sinhala and English speaking audiences. With appropriate blending
of globalized thinking with the local psyche, he was able to bring
to bear international developments to local requirements in policy
formulation.
Since
returning from post-graduate studies, Gamini soon acquired the necessary
skills to be a highly proficient officer in the Central Bank. An
area of particular interest to Gamini was economic growth and income
distribution, on which subject he produced a number of research
papers and addressed many seminars. He was firmly of the view that
countries should not only grow income-wise but that growth should
be more equitably distributed.
Gamini
was able to combine his intellectual prowess with his excellent
communication abilities to dazzle in any job entrusted to him and
his services were much sought after by his superiors in many specialized
jobs. He was never hesitant to undertake any challenging task entrusted
to him and performed them with distinction and sheer dedication.
Thus, he was one time Secretary of the Society for International
Development (Sri Lanka Chapter), when late Dr. Warnasena Rasaputram
was its President. He was also a founder member of Sri Lanka Economic
Association. Coming from a strong Buddhist background, he was the
President of the Central Bank Buddhist Association for a number
of years running.
In
the mid-1980s, Gamini was hand-picked to serve in the Ministry of
Finance where he functioned as the Additional Director of Economic
Affairs. The then Minister of Finance appointed him as the Chairman,
National Savings Bank in 1986 at the relatively young age of 40.
Our acquaintances in the NSB still recall with great admiration
Gamini's contribution to the NSB in putting 'its house in order'
which was in somewhat disarray at the time of his appointment. Because
of his friendly and modest disposition, Gamini was a much liked
Chairman at the NSB. With his youthful exuberance, he had grand
designs for the NSB in diversifying its activities particularly
on the lending side. However, this was not to be and political appointments
being as they are, Gamini soon found himself back in the Central
Bank.
Back
in the Central Bank in 1987 Gamini found himself in a frustratingly
ambiguous position. Designated Special Officer in Banking Development,
he felt that he was in no man's land. The Central Bank was not in
position to offer him a position of responsibility in keeping with
his talents and experience. He did not hesitate to say that he was
getting 'karapincha treatment' from his superiors. Unfortunately,
until very recently, the overriding criterion for promotions in
the Central Bank was seniority and queuing was the order of the
day irrespective of one's talents or qualifications. The dilemma
he was faced with indeed was a turning point in his professional
career when he decided to pack his bags up for an international
career after nearly 20 years of service in the Bank. His destination
was UNICEF, the United Nations Agency dealing with the welfare of
children.
Gamini's
first appointment in UNICEF was as the Program Planner in the UNICEF
office in Lagos. Thereafter, he served in UNICEF offices in Khartoum
and Jerusalem. His last posting was as UNICEF Resident Representative
in Bangkok, in which post he served for over 4 years before taking
premature retirement a few months back. It was his exceptional abilities
and dedication and commitment to duty that took him up the ladder
in the UNICEF service within a relatively short period. Gamini was
a very popular and much respected international civil servant in
Bangkok and after his severance from UNICEF he was invited to be
a Special Adviser at the Office of the Prime Minister of Thailand.
Gamini
had a large heart. He was ever ready to lend a helping hand to anyone
who sought his assistance and was deeply committed to the welfare
of his much extended family. He even kept some of his not so well
off friends at his residence in Sirimal Uyana, Ratmalana, a distinguishing
character of a generous and compassionate human being. Even though
living outside the country for some 15 years, he always kept in
touch with his friends and relations and visited the country as
frequently as he possibly could. Gamini's popularity was manifested
by the large crowd which gathered at Kanatta on October 18 to bid
farewell to him.
It
is with nostalgic memories I recall the many evenings I spent at
his residence over the years, not to mention the many holidays we
spent together in the hill country with our families. Interacting
with him was always a very rewarding experience. Gamini's sudden
demise only reminds us of the ephemeral nature of life, as enshrined
in the celebrated Buddhist text 'Lovada Sangarawa' - life is akin
to morning dew on top of grass.
We
offer our deepest condolences to his wife Neetha and the three sons,
Sahan, Chamath and Suran who would no doubt be wondering as to why
death has snatched away so quickly the life of their beloved one.
So, my dear friend it is adieu from me but memories of you will
linger in our minds for many years to come.
Dr.
Wimal
Hettiarachchi
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