Boundless
compassion: Our individual path to dharmishta society
I asked several devout Buddhists whether the "boundless compassion
towards all sentient beings" preached by the Buddha, includes
Hindus, Christians and Muslims. According to the Dhamma, the answer
should have been a straight "yes", but the answers I received
were vague and evasive. These devout souls were either confused,
or did not quite know their Dhamma.
Religious
devotion does tend to intensify one's feelings and harden one's
attitude against other beliefs. But the Dhamma preaches exactly
the opposite - that we try to develop equanimity of mind - that
is, progressively reduce the intensity of our feelings. Devotion
has its place, but too much of it may actually hinder the practice
of the Dhamma - it may even lead to militancy, which is quite out
of line with the Dhamma.
Someone
asked me whether it is "all right" for a Buddhist to kill
cockroaches. He told me he had asked this question from learned
Buddhists but had not received a proper answer. The answer of course,
in terms of the Dhamma, is a straight "no". But life is
a compromise, and so too is the Dhamma to a lay Buddhist. His decision
will depend on the degree of his commitment to the Dhamma compared
with how much he values health and hygiene, and on the severity
of the cockroach infestation in his home. He must consider karmic
repercussions - the act is deliberate and repeated over and over
again. He has to decide this the way he decides problems at his
workplace.
I
too had a cockroach problem - a deep-seated aversion towards the
creature that I could not overcome through reasoning. Metta meditation
(boundless compassion) helped me reduce this. Metta is the simplest
of the many types of meditations. It is only a sort of half-meditation,
but is surprisingly effective. With practice, one becomes more accommodating
towards others, and their responses naturally become more positive.
Both help relieve stress and find calmer waters.
The
Dhamma, which my nephew aptly calls the science of living, was what
the Buddha described as "the way it is". He gave it to
us as the route map to Nirvana, but it is no easy route and it is
up to us whether or not we take it. The Buddha said the only way
(ekagmagga) to fully understand the Dhamma, is through meditation
- one cannot grasp core concepts like "impermanence" through
the intellect, but one realizes these experientally through sustained
meditation.
To
fully practise the Dhamma, one has to step aside from society and
seek the isolation of some forest abode - this will be the fast
track to Nirvana. Lay Buddhists with job and family commitments
are on the slow track, but we can nevertheless still practise the
Dhamma consciously, and as fully as we can, within the limits set
by our social obligations. We can achieve much by doing that.
It
was said to me, jokingly, that if everyone practised the Dhamma
fully, we would all die of dengue fever, and it will be the end
of our society. What we must understand, is that the Dhamma is a
prescription for the individual and not for society. Not many can
take that fast track, but if as many of us consciously practise
the Dhamma to the fullest extent possible within the restraints
of our lay life, society will benefit enormously. We can all practise
boundless compassion (metta), which other religions also advocate
- I know Christianity does.
If
our politicians and just twenty percent of the rest of us practise
metta daily, we may actually realize the dharmishta society that
J.R. Jayewardene thought he had given us years ago.
Chula
Ratnatunga
Beddegana
Ouch,
now they are hurting!
The recent recommendation of the ICC Bowling Committee has
put to shame most of those so-called 'cricketing greats’ (past
and present), whom we respected as 'gentlemen cricketers'!
By
most, I refer to those cricketers who have, after their illustrious
careers, continued to be involved in the game in some capacity or
other. Such cricketers, whose comments and opinions were accepted
as the last word on the subject, should bury their heads in the
sand or give up their jobs or better still keep their mouths shut
on the subject of the bowling controversy.
A
section of the cricket community, in countries such as England,
Australia, South Africa, India and the West Indies went after Muttiah
Muralitharan and labelled him as a 'chucker'. This gave confidence
to even amateurs like John Howard of Australia to also join the
bandwagon of 'Murali-bashing'. Yet, all the time, there existed
in the laws of the game, the degrees of flexion permitted for the
different categories of bowlers of which either these cricketers
knew about and didn't reveal to the public in their comments, or
they were totally ignorant of. The revelations of the ICC committee
have now proved that most of the present day bowlers are chucking
(as per existing laws) and most of their flexion far exceeds that
of Murali.
This
means that the recommendation to permit flexion up to 15 degrees
simply would not only enable Murali to bowl his 'doosra' but also
all these other 'chuckers' (more than 20 of them) bowl their stock
balls which are reported to be measured well over the permitted
mark! Murali can now feel vindicated after all the flak he received
from professionals, amateurs and idiots and he can rightly afford
to question the actions of most of today's bowlers.
Suddenly
everyone is hurt. Some of the Aussie players are hurt. They say
Murali will lose friends. The pundits are also hurt. The Smiths,
the Boycotts and the likes are hurt because they find it so hard
to accept scientific facts which prove that their kind chucked or
still chucks! None of them however is hurt over the bashing Murali
received from all over. What a hypocritical world we live in!
Frank
Gunasekera
NawalaIt's
our hearts that should be lit up not the streets
Once again, Christmas is around the corner. Is it the birth of Jesus
Christ we are remembering or is it the tinsel, goodies, and all
the merriment that goes along with it that are important to us?
There is a suggestion to light up the city of Colombo as was done
by the previous regime.
There
may be a few Christians who feel the lights coming up in Colombo
will, bring to mind, among the non-Christians that there is a saviour
by the name of Jesus Christ. But there are also some who feel that
all the tinsel and decorations are put up by these commercial establishments,
as their best sales targets are achieved during this time.
Let
me remind those who may be ignorant about the situation in the country
that 60% or more of the people in Sri Lanka live below the poverty
line. I am not referring to the urban poor, but the poorest of the
poor villagers who have been completely forgotten, namely those
in the Badulla - Moneragala Districts.
Poverty
remains high, school enrolment, access to drinking water and basic
health facilities, and accessible roads remain well below national
averages. The agriculture base which provides the main livelihood
to the people is vulnerable to severe drought and other climatic
conditions. They have poor infrastructure facilities and hence no
jobs are available to the masses. There are children, who due to
lack of roads, have to cross rivers by foot, and when they get to
their respective schools situated in cadjan huts have to sit on
the ground to do their school work.
During
heavy rains, parents do not send the children to school as crossing
the river is dangerous. There are many more people living in similar
conditions right round the island, and in the light of all this
suffering and misery for just the basic amenities, is it correct
on the part of us Christians to promote, condone, or approve such
colossal waste on lighting up Colombo for Christmas?
God
does not need lights to illuminate him, or revelry or carnivals.
He is a God of compassion and mercy especially for the downtrodden.
The ministry of Jesus Christ was for the poor, the downtrodden and
the lost. If anyone wants to promote some business let him do it,
without bringing in the birth of Christ into it.
We
don't need the lights in Colombo to remind anyone of the birth of
Christ. Let there be the light of Jesus in our hearts which will
be seen by those who do not know him. God will see the heart not
the lights.
Tara de Silva
Ratmalana
One
govt. department that works
If there is a government department in this country with
courteous, efficient and dedicated officers, I would say without
any hesitation that it is the Department of Pensions headed by its
genial Director K.A. Tilakaratne.
As
a pensioner, I had a problem which was referred by me to the Director
Mr. Tilakaratne and he set the machinery in motion. With the able
assistance of the chief accountant, Indrani Cooray, who is efficient
and kind, the problem was solved to my satisfaction. The officers
in the Department of Pensions are working under trying conditions
with only a few staff members. I hope other departments will adopt
it as a model .
R.
Unamboowe
Kandy
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