When
kevum, kokis smell divine…
By Vidushi Seneviratne
Auspicious times, fire crackers, the kavum, kokis
and the pongal… yes, you guessed right, the Sinhala and Hindu
New Year is just around the corner. With the biggest celebration
in the Sri Lankan calendar approaching, both young and old are getting
prepared to greet the New Year in style.
Though
we celebrate January 1 as the dawn of a new year, culturally, Sri
Lankans are more familiar with celebrating the Sinhala and Hindu
New Year on April 13 and 14, with it being the highlight of the
April holidays for most school children because of the time spent
in the company of family and relatives.
Beginning
with the offerings to various gods, the Sinhala and Hindu New Year
is in one way a method of warding off evil spirits and misfortunes
brought about by different planetary positions. By performing the
many rituals and pujas, mental tranquility is achieved and hope
of success is implanted in the mind. This, to most, is a positive
beginning of a new year. In preparation of the new year, numerous
practices are observed by both communities, but most importantly,
everything is done according to the auspicious time, also known
as the subha mohotha or subha neram.
According
to Hindu customs, “maruthu neer” or clean water boiled
with various herbs, selected flowers and leaves, milk, saffron and
other ingredients, is applied on the heads of all family members
whilst “Punku”’ leaves are placed on the head
and fig leaves under the feet and bathe. Then new clothes are recommended
according to the colours mentioned in the almanac. The Sinhalese
customs are similar, with people having herbal baths for the passing
year. Next comes the nonekata time, which is the transitional period
in the planetary movement and considered to be inauspicious to start
any propitious work. Therefore, this time is set apart for religious
observances. Here again, the almanac tells you what colours to wear
and which direction to look towards when doing what is prescribed,
so that you would not do anything inauspicious or unlucky.
“Usually
new year is a really nice time when we go to our grandmother’s
house and meet all our aunts, uncles and cousins. We get a chance
to get involved in all the traditional things and it makes you connect
with your family,” says Ashani (21). “Of course the
part where we have to go around distributing food to the neighbors
isn’t exactly fun!”
For
19-year-old Abhirami, new year involves a process that she enjoys
very much. “We wake up quite early, have a bath and get dressed
in the colours that we have been asked to wear. Next we prepare
the pongal, go to the kovil and later visit relatives. One of the
main rituals is the kai vishesham, which is an exchange of money
at an auspicious time. Usually the father in each family gives money
to his wife and children and this is a symbol that all will be well
financially.”
“This
ceremony enhances our cultural roots and the best part about it
is that you don’t have to be Sinhala Buddhist or Tamil Hindu
to celebrate it. I come from a culturally mixed background with
my father being a Colombo Chetty Catholic and my mother being a
Sinhala Buddhist, so we thoroughly enjoy the fact that my mother
goes out of her way to make all the kavum and kokis for the new
year!” says Natalie (22).
Commenting
on whether this celebration should be another reason for the two
communities to get along, she agrees, adding that the very fact
that both communities celebrate their new years on the same day,
is indeed a point to ponder on.
For
18-year-old Rathnakala too, April 13 and 14 are very significant
days. “We usually wake up early morning and bathe with the
Muruthu neer which we have got from the temple the previous day,”
she says. Going onto talk about customs of the new year, she explained
what the Nirkudam was, describing it as another classic symbol of
the Hindu new year. “You keep plantain leaves on a stool,
sprinkle it with rice grains, keep an ever-silver pot filled with
water and place a coconut on it. Then you surround it with mango
leaves. You leave this in front of the house and it’s considered
to be lucky, where the filled pot symbolises a filled or complete
household.” Sharing her thoughts on this day being significant
to both communities in any way, she agrees that it is a symbol that
the fighting needs to stop. “Ironically, the auspicious times
in the readings of both communities are also very similar. I think
this is a very clear symbol that we shouldn’t have any differences.”
But
there are some who don’t feel that the Sinhala and Hindu should
be used as a reason or excuse for the two communities to get along.
Anushka (21), says, “We don’t have to turn such a simple
thing into a big issue. Instead we should just enjoy the new year
as just another day, with some sort of importance in it and celebrate
it for what it is.”
Dharshinie
(23), shares his sentiments. “As far as the similarities go,
both communities have the same ‘boiling’ the rice custom
but the difference is that ours is sweet rice and not kiri bath.
New clothes, going to the temple, doing all this according to the
auspicious times and the money exchanging ritual are all quite similar.…and
so we can clearly claim this as a ‘truly’ Sri Lankan
festival!
So
should the Sinhala and Hindu new year be a reason for the two communities
to get along? “I firmly believe that we don’t need a
‘reason’, to get along. It’s a genuine feeling
that needs to come from the bottom of the heart, irrespective of
whether you are Sinhalese or Tamil. It’s as simple as that.
I think we all took our first step after boxing day. Irrespective
of who the victims of the disaster were, we were all there for them
together (at least for the first few days!).
Amesh
(22) agrees. “Surely this festival does integrate both societies
in the sense that you can relate to each other’s customs since
they are pretty much the same but I don’t think that having
a similar festival should be seen as a reason for us to get along
with each other. We shouldn’t need one in the first place.
Belonging to the same country is a good enough reason!”
“I
don’t think this day “fell’ on the same day. I
believe that long long time ago, when living in the jungles with
the animals, we chose this day to be ‘our festival’,
together! I don’t think both communities should try and think
of reasons to get along with each other when we already have a very
clear answer to the question!” says Dhanya (24). “Though
we are Hindu, my mum gets someone to make all the kavum and kokis
for us or our neighbours pass it on to us! I think it was my mum’s
way of teaching me (obviously as a kid) to accept and appreciate
the custom (and it’s even better that they are scrumptious!).
I feel that it’s the small things like this that make a difference
in attitudes.”
Another
Sinhala and Hindu new year will come and go... and both communities
will celebrate their extremely similar but different customs. Should
this event be celebrated as two culturally defined ceremonies, or
should they be accepted and merged together as one? So while your
eating your juicy kavum, kokis and laddus this year, just give it
a thought. |