A
gentleman to his fingertips
A. Joseph Thambinayagam
Thirty years have gone by since the death of A. Joseph Thambinayagam.
This is a tribute to an upright man of spartan simplicity, devoid
of pride or prejudice. He was in the true sense of the word, a gentleman
to his finger tips. He was the epitome of kindness and decorum.
His pleasing amiable ways and exuberant character endeared him to
a large coterie of friends, relatives and also to many in his business
circles.
He
started his career at G.C. Roche & Co. Ltd and thereafter joined
K. Gunaratnam in establishing Cinemas Ltd., before starting his
own company, 'Heladiva Traders' Ltd, who were well known importers
of the Morjan canned fish, fresh fruits and commodity items.
Mr.
Thambinayagam was a philanthropist, ardent church worker and unassuming
man lovingly called Thamby. He was the Vice Patron of his Alma Mater,
St. Anthony's College, Kayts. He was generous with his money, and
helped various colleges, churches, Homes for the Elders and other
charitable institutions. Every year during the annual feast of May
and Corpus Christi processions he took the sole responsibility to
illuminate and decorate Mayfield Road, Kotahena where he lived.
He
earned respect, love and affection from all he knew. He was a great
angler and active member of the Ceylon Anglers’ Club, taking
part in competitions and winning many awards at the breakwater in
Colombo and in Trincomalee.
His
late wife Rosemary was a tower of strength to him in building up
a strong, closely knit family. Joseph and Rosemary celebrated the
silver jubilee of their wedding in a modest way at the Shrine of
Our Lady of Madhu, with close family members. Theirs was an open
house for friends, relatives and clergy.
I
still remember travelling with him in his car on many enjoyable
trips with my cousins the late J.E. Benedict and the late Edward
Benedict to Jaffna and Madhu. On the way it used to be a hunting
trip and we would stop for a long lunch break with his dear friend
Rev. Fr. T.A.J. Mathuranayagam who was Rector of St. Joseph's College,
Anuradhapura.
I
always recall the many functions Thamby used to organize. One was
for his brother the late Rev. Fr. Victor Rajanayagam of the Kandy
Diocese and another the reception given to the present Bishop of
Jaffna Rt. Rev. Dr. Thomas Savundaranayagam when he was ordained
a priest in Kayts too.
Bonjean
Thampoe
Your
memory won’t fade
Lt. Col. D.S.B. Sangakkara
Just like the rough sea waves
Took everything away
You were taken from us
By the cruel war
Leaving a black mark
In my memory
****
Forty years back in 1965
you were born on Vesak day
Memorable thoughts linger
No tears remain to shed
I see your portrait
Shining always happily.
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You lived thirty short years
But did so much good
Though you are no more
The light you gave us
Will never fade away.
Hemamala
Sangakkara
What
mattered to him was the cause not the person
M. Shariff
Al-Haj Mohammed Shariff of Akurana passed away at the age of 78
on April 22. He was buried within a few hours at Kurugoda Mohieddin
Jummah Mosque burial grounds.
Mr.
Shariff was the son of Seyyad Lebbe of Kurundugolla and Mrs. Latifa
Umma of Telumbugahawatte. He had his early education at Akurana
Government School (Azhar) and entered the Peradeniya Campus in 1953
from Zahira College, Colombo after a short period at St. Anthony's
College, Kandy.
At
the Akurana school, in the late 1940s he was the star pupil of my
late father, Headmaster T.M.S. Hamid. He married Fareeda, the beautiful
daughter of my uncle T.M.M. Ismail, the Village Headman of Kurugoda.
He has six children who were all doing well in life.
After
graduation Mr. Shariff joined the Education Department. His first
posting as Inspector of Schools was at Kegalle. Thereafter he went
successively to Matale, Gampola, Nuwara-Eliya, Galle and then Kandy
in the 1970s. During this time he underwent a short period of field
training in the United Kingdom. After 1977, from Kandy he was shifted
in quick succession to Vavuniya, Mannar, Trincomalee and then to
Batticaloa in 1982 where he served as Director of Education. 1982
became a turning point in his long and distinguished career in the
Department of Education.
When
a jealous politician in Kandy attempted to humiliate him, he was
forced to retire prematurely. But he continued to serve the community
with even greater zeal from the non-governmental sector.
Mr.
Shariff joined the legendary benefactor Naleem Hajiar of Beruwela
and served as his adviser on education in the Islamic Renaissance
Movement. This movement’s quiet and solid service encompassed
the Muslim areas around the country. Mr. Shariff's over 30 years
in the Department of Education and the Islamic Renaissance Movement
shone as an example of willing and selfless service with legendary
dedication.
He
was also a livewire of the Ceylon Society for Justice in Palestine
(CSJP) that was established in Akurana following the burning of
the Al Aqsa Mosque in 1968 in Jerusalem. Mr. Shariff was instrumental
in leading the Society's delegations from mosque to mosque in many
parts of the country on Fridays and getting resolutions passed by
the congregation requesting the government to sever diplomatic relations
with Israel. The campaign snowballed into a powerful movement and
the new government of May 1970 closed down the Israeli Embassy in
September that year.
During
the latter part of Mr. Shariff's life his main commitment and efforts
went towards the Ceylon Bailthul Mal Fund. In later years when his
health started failing he did not retire to inactivity but concentrated
his work within the Kandy District. Some of his projects in Kan
dy
include the establishment of a woodwork training centre in Batupitiya
in Udunuwara where Muslim carpenters are trained and the provision
of stipends to more than 30 students monthly at the university,
including a few tsunami affected students.
What
mattered to Mr. Shariff was the cause and not the persons. In the
final stages of his life his doctors had warned the family that
Mr. Shariff was in the terminal stages of 'hepato-renal syndrome'.
He took the news with equanimity in his usual style neither moaning
nor groaning. His wife had just enough time to inform her four sons
who were abroad at the time in Botswana, Saudi Arabia and Japan.
Every one of his six children were present when he breathed his
last.
May almightly Allah grant him Jennathul Firdouse.
Dr. H.M. Mauroof
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