Birth,
offerings, death and after
By Upali Salgado
Every day, every moment, there is said to be born on this great
good earth, many thousands of babies. At the same time, due to natural
causes a number of people die of old age and sickness. Birth (Rebirth
- (Jathi) in terms of Buddhist thought) occurs in samsara, i.e.
- the cycle of births and deaths and is propelled with a load of
Kusala and Akusala Kamma. (The Buddhist Law of Causation).
The
operation of kamma and its fruit, the round of karma and the round
of fruit, and the manner of their happening is predetermined at
birth.
All
children cry at the moment of birth, not with joy but in pain. The
babe would not know the difference between pain and joy. The cries
of the newborn bring tears of joy to the mother, but it is the infant
with pain, who perhaps will, in later life, grasp the realities
of life, and be a Bodhisattva in the making. There can be no birth
and living thereafter without suffering on earth. Pain, sickness
(some of a terminal nature), physical handicaps, hunger, despair,
loss of wealth, loss of fame, loss of the means to acquire mundane
comforts, loss of expectations and gains, grief are a few of the
facets of suffering, humans face and undergo.
Root
of all evil
The Buddha has pointed out the part played by sensuous
feelings such as smell, hearing, taste and sight that would cause
craving, which is the root of evil and of suffering. The recognition
of the illusion of Self is another obstacle to one's progress and
happiness. The conquest of self was Prince Siddhartha's great battle
as a Bodhisattva, before gaining Enlightenment. As a Bodhisattva
he conquered himself with great perseverance and courage and with
numerous forms of dana (gifts and sacrifices of wealth for others’
benefit), Sila (morality) and Bhavana (meditation).
As
dana is of prime importance, the subject needs elucidation, being
a foreshadow to death. The Buddha gave importance to dana as it
manifests kindness, love, compassion and similar human virtues.
The virtue of Samvibhaga (sharing) the Buddha advocated to the wealthy.
The
purpose of offering a dana (food or gifts) to the Bhikkhus (Buddhist
monks) is to rid oneself gradually of attachment to wealth and greed,
whilst helping the needy. This should be done ungrudgingly with
great joy to oneself. It will at the same time, if made known bring
Muditha i.e. joy to others as well. A dana of food should not be
given to people selectively, and in competition as a show of wealth,
in society. Sadhdha in the giver has to be present when offering
a dana.
The
Buddha has stated that there are eight major or important forms
of dana that accrue merit to those who give. When offering a dana
the source must not be ill-gotten wealth.
Forms
of dhana
The eight great danas are (1) offering of a Buddha image
with an image house (Budu Ge) for common worship, (2) Offer of a
Sanghavasa (Residence for monks), (3) Offer of toilets for the Maha
Sangha, (4) Offer of a Katina Cheevara, (5) Offer of a Atapirikara,
(6) Offer of a Dharma-Dana (Writing of Buddhist scriptures, publishing
them etc), and (7) a Sanghika dhana, to monks who have received
Upasampada (Higher Ordination).
The
Buddha has divided the giving of dana into two main groups. Gifts
or dana given to individuals (Puggalika dana), and dhana given to
the Maha Sangha (the Bhikkhu order). The merit gained by giving
a dana to a Samma Buddha is very great as a Buddha appears in this
world very rarely. Also, a dana given to an Arahant is considered
to gain great merit. A Sangika dana brings much merit, as many people
contribute towards the offerings, and also because it is the Maha
Sangha who carry forward the teachings of the Buddha from generation
to generation. There can be in the congregation, a monk who is not
that virtuous (in his seela), but the giver of the alms should not
be disturbed in mind, as it is a Sanghika dana, given not to any
particular priest but to the Arya Puggala Maha Sangha, (the Bhikkhu
Order).
Sakyamuni
Gotama Buddha has stated that there are several kinds of dana. What
are they? A dhana given to a guest monk (Aganthuka dana). Next,
a dhana given to a monk who is about to leave on a journey (Gamika
dana). The third is a dana given to a sick monk (Gilanu-paceya dana).
The fourth is a dhana given at a time of a famine (A Dubbhika or
Kala dana), a pindapatha dana and the last one is dana given at
harvesting time. When giving a dhana, what is most important is
the mind thought (chitta) that should be pure, and the giver should
not hope for or expect a "return" (such as more wealth),
but be happy that the gift or dhana was given, as it was necessary.
The purity of the thoughts is what is most important.
Death
the leveller
Buddhism emphasises that all component matter is impermanent
(annichaya). Life is short. Death is common to all people and is
a social leveller. The body that, was once beautiful with make-up
and at times perfumed, lies when clinically dead with sweat, and
discharges of smelly urine. This onetime walking showpiece, has
within itself neatly concealed, bile, phlegm, a bag of urine and
a tube of human discharge. From the Buddhist point of view, death
is inevitable, and as Buddhists accept and believe in rebirth (or
is it rebecoming?) they can prepare themselves, to live with the
Master's teaching and face death with a courageous smile. One can
think (or be reminded of) of past good and great meritorious deeds
done and with calmness of mind, pass beyond the gates, knowing he
will come back to serve mankind better.
Uncontrolled
sorrow over the demise of a loved one shows lack of understanding
of life as a Buddhist. What one can possibly do in such a situation
is to offer dhana (food and clothing) in memory of the departed.
Thoughts of bygone times when the family as a whole partook in a
meritorious act will bring mental solace to the rest of the family.
Dhana
In Sri Lanka dhana is also offered to the Maha Sangha
on the seventh day after the demise; again on the 90th day after
the death, and finally, at the end of one year. Mahayana Buddhists
offer dhana on the 45th day after death, as well. This is an age-old
custom followed by Hindus and Jains too.
Theravada
Buddhists believe that the dead will be reborn (1) in the deva kingdom,
(2) in the human world, (3) in the animal kingdom, and (4) in purgatory
or hell, (5) as Petas in the world of shades, haunting houses and
cross roads and canals. In the Atanatiya Sutta the Petas are described
as brigands, thieves, cheats and evils doers. Buddhists offer food
and clothing to Petas who are in a woeful state. This practice is
done by a kinsman to show gratitude and make the departed if born
into the Peta world as comfortable as possible. Also to mentally
satisfy a relative or householder that, had there been any shortcomings
in their relationship with the dead, such faulty conduct could be
erased.
Transference
of merit to the dead
Transference of merit after a dana to commemorate the
dead on a specific date, is an age-old Brahaminic custom, which
had over the years crept into Buddhist behaviour. Whilst this practice
gained ground in Sri Lanka, some Buddhist intellectuals have doubted
the genuineness of this practice, and the idea behind it, as it
appears to go against the grain of teachings of Kamma. Further in
the Khuddaka Nipata there is a passage where the Buddha states that
Punya (merit) is private and is non shareable with others. The Dhammapada
states thus "By oneself evil is done, By oneself one becomes
pure (in thought, word, deed); Purity (merit) and impurity (demerit)
are acquired by oneself. No one can purify another. From that standpoint,
the transference of merit to the dead after a Sanghika dana goes
against the grain of the great Master's Teaching.
In
the Tirokudda Sutta, it is clearly stated that the dead benefit
from specific offerings made to the Maha Sangha (especially items
of food that the dead relished to have) by relatives. An important
point made by Prof. P.D. Premasiri MA (Cantab), Ph.D (Hawaii) is
that Petas do benefit not by merit acquired by relatives being transferred
to them, in which case it would contradict the doctrine of Kamma,
but by rejoicing in the good deeds by others in remembering them.
(P 158 "Buddhist Thought and Ritual").
Reading
through this article one may conclude that, Buddhism is a pessimistic
religion. The Buddha Dhama is pragmatic in outlook. Revelations
and miracles play no part in shaping the life of a good Buddhist.
He does not accept the position of a powerful creator God either.
His concern is to follow the Great Master's teachings to end all
suffering in samsara. Nibbana is his goal. Nibbana is the extinction
of the fire of craving and lust that leads to suffering. When one
looks everywhere there is suffering in its many faceted forms.
In
such a scenario, accepting the truth that there is suffering is
better than self-deception. Buddhism teaches that there is suffering
because always there is cause for suffering. The Noble Gotama Buddha
showed us a way to follow his dhamma and to end suffering. No Messiah
or divine person is required for us to achieve human happiness.
These then are the realities of life. To have a better life now
and after, let us live in the Buddha's way. That is the only path
to freedom.
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