Escape
from death
Sri Lankan society seems caught in a deadly web of violence.
Murder, rape, abduction, theft...we read about such incidents everyday...but
never think that we may be the next victim. Here is the true-life
account of one courageous young woman's chilling encounter with
an armed assailant, in her own words.
We
are unaware of how precious life is until death stares us in the
face. I faced death in the midst of my robust, healthy young life
and it left me stunned, shaken and deeply grateful for the beauty
and simplicity of an ordinary life.
At
24, my life was full and interesting — my husband and I had
just moved into our new home in Ratmalana, we had a nine-month-old
baby, and I was on my way to completing a Master’s in English.
Yet, like so many others, I often had a vaguely dissatisfied feeling
about life, a yearning for the greener pastures on the other side.
The
day that changed everything began like any other. My husband left
for work as usual and I began my daily routine of caring for our
baby. We had a maid who arrived daily to help with the housework
and when there was a knock at the gate, I assumed it to be her.
Standing
there, was a young, casually dressed man, who smiled in a friendly
manner, and asked if my husband was at home. He was a plumber, he
said, and my husband had asked him to install a water tank in our
house. Could he just come in and take the measurements? I politely
told him that my husband had left for work and could he please come
during the weekend? After some thought, he agreed and went away.
Wondering why he hadn't told me about the tank, I went in, leaving
the front door open.
By
this time my baby was awake and whimpering for his breakfast. Tucking
him under one arm, I called my mother, as I did almost everyday.
As I was chatting with her, I heard a slight sound, and turned to
see a shadow pass by the bedroom door. Hardly hearing what my mother
was saying, I wondered why the maid had gone in without speaking
to me. With a chill of fear, I remembered that I had locked the
gate; therefore, it couldn't have been her.
Moving
slowly as though in a dream, I said goodbye to my mother, hung up
and walked into the hall. By now I could hear someone moving about
in the kitchen, the clink of pots and pans. Clutching the baby,
who was also quiet now, I walked quickly to the door, only to find
it locked and the key missing! From that moment, everything happened
at once, a terrifying medley of horrors.
I
turned around to see the same young man that I had spoken to come
rushing at me with a knife. My voice stuck in my throat and my arms
gripped my baby frantically. With no word of warning he stabbed
me, and as I turned away to protect the baby, the knife landed on
my forehead. Only one thought rang clearly in my mind — I
had to protect my baby.
Flinging
him, now screaming at the top of his tiny lungs, onto the ground,
I turned and began to grapple with the man, who continued to aim
stabs at me. Shouting for help, I grabbed at the pointed end of
the knife, slicing my fingers... amazingly, the knife came into
my hands!
Still
yelling, I tried to stab my attacker, who now seemed possessed by
a demonic fury. Still not saying a word, he grabbed me by the neck
and slammed my bleeding head into the wall. Again and again, punching
and pummelling me, he threw me against the wall. Still, I screamed,
when suddenly he closed his fingers around my neck and began to
squeeze.
Despairing
of human aid, I gasped, "Oh God, God!" An amazing thing
then happened. Amid the chaos, I felt a sudden surge of strength
and peace. I felt a calming presence, and the thought that death
was after all, not such a terrible thing.
At
that moment, the man suddenly let go and ran inside the house. I
became aware of the neighbours knocking and shouting at the gate.
Several men had jumped over the wall and were banging on the door.
Terrified that he would return, I grabbed the baby and tried to
hand him through the narrow window grills to the men outside, but
he was too big to pass through.
Panicking
I turned and looked about, only to see the keys lying on the floor.
With trembling hands I unlocked the door and stumbled outside, gasping
out my story. Several people ran into the house, only to find that
my attacker had escaped through the back door.
I
felt something warm dripping down my face. As I wiped it, my hand
came away wet with blood. The neighbours immediately rushed me to
the Kalubowila Hospital, where, thanks to the prompt treatment at
the accident ward, my life was saved. Miraculously, the baby came
through the ordeal unhurt. My husband and the rest of my family
arrived at the hospital within minutes, unable to believe that such
an unimaginable thing had really happened.
I
spent over two weeks in hospital recovering from my injuries, several
stab wounds on my neck and back. In the midst of my agony, I was
overwhelmed by the outpouring of love from family and friends. It
was my strength in those long, painful days. My mother and sister
took care of my baby, while others took it in turns to stay with
me.
The
police were unable and perhaps uninterested in tracing my attacker,
which still gives me many dark moments. I wish I could at least
know the reason behind his mad attack. What could prompt someone
to attack a young woman, with a baby in her arms? Perhaps I shall
never know.
So
often we complain of petty, little things, spoiling the joy in life
for ourselves and for those around us. It often takes a calamity
to bring us to our senses, to make us realize that the truly great
things in life are those that we already possess. When I now spend
those incredibly sweet moments with my baby, I wonder how I could
have ever taken them for granted. Now I face life with a completely
different perspective.
If
we were to die tomorrow, what would matter most today? It is this
choice that will determine the quality of your life.
Crime
fighting report shelved?
Only 1% of all crimes end in convictions. So how can the
common man feel safe and secure in his home and neighbourhood? What
steps should the government take to stem the dangerous tide of violence
that threatens to engulf our society?
Perhaps
realizing the urgent need for action and reform of the key law enforcement
agencies, in May 2003 the then Cabinet appointed a committee to
advise the government and the police on formulating a plan to curb
crime and ensure the effective implementation of that plan. In October
2003, this high-level committee which comprised M.N. Junaid, Secretary,
Ministry of Interior and Christian Affairs, Rudra Rajasingham, Retd.
Inspector General of Police, Dhara Wijayatilake, Secretary, Ministry
of Justice, Law Reform and National Integration, T. E. Anandaraja,
Inspector General of Police, Jayantha Gunasekera, P.C. (nominee
of the Organisation of Professional Associations) and Deva Rodrigo,
Senior Partner, Pricewaterhouse Coopers of Sri Lanka (nominee of
the Joint Business Council) presented its findings to the then government.
President's
Counsel Jayantha Gunasekera also presented an additional report
on a Co-ordinated Action Plan to Curb Crime. Among those who assisted
the committee were present IGP Chandra Fernando, D.S.C. Kombalavithana,
DIG and Sirisena Herath, DIG. Additional Secretary, Ministry of
Interior and Christian Affairs S. Wirithamulla, now Secretary, Ministry
of Trade functioned as the secretary to the committee. Many months
have lapsed and the government has changed but the Report of The
Committee Appointed by Cabinet to formulate an Action Plan to Curb
incidence of Crime remains in cold storage.
What
were the recommendations contained in this 13-page report? The Sunday
Times learns the Committee identified the following areas of concern
as being the primary causes leading to the current situation:
A)Absence of an effective strategy to combat serious crime
B)De-motivation in the Police Force
C)Inefficiency and ineffectiveness of the criminal justice process
D)Absence of an effective crime prevention strategy
E)Lack of effective rehabilitation of convicted persons
F)Indiscipline in society
Pointing
out the violence in crime and the impunity with which such crimes
are committed, the report recorded that the Inspector General of
Police himself had stated that there are about 30 organized crime
groups. "Urgent and immediate action should be taken to locate
offenders and bring them to justice. The high priority targets should
be organized gangs, hired assassins, masterminds of hired assassins
and deserters from the armed forces. Police officers and the general
public may be offered attractive rewards for information leading
to arrests…," the report stated.
The
report highlighted that since deserters from the armed services
are suspected of playing a key role in the commission of serious
and organized crime, the issue of apprehending them should be accorded
the highest priority. "The recovery of unauthorized firearms
said to be in the possession of deserters is absolutely essential."
Underworld
crime has proliferated, the report said, stressing the urgent need
to capture wanted criminals "….lest unscrupulous elements
make use of the environment of lawlessness to unleash violence and
crime in the guise of other causes. A situation such as that which
resulted in 1971 and 1989 may result and be exploited by activists.
Recent reports of robberies, collection of firearms and attacks
on religious institutions are all seen as possible pointers to such
an attempt”.
Turning
the searchlight on the Police Force, the report recognised that
Police officers should be intelligent, motivated and independent
in order to provide an efficient service. Adequate training and
skills enhancement, provision of adequate resources, exposure to
advanced methodologies, improving their professionalism and language
proficiency were recommended.
It
also pointed out that police officers should have:
*adequate promotional opportunities and salaries;
*recognition and acceptance that the Police Force performs special
tasks and should therefore not be equated to other public officers
in the determination of salaries and other facilities. It was
recommended that a special Salaries and Cadres Commission be appointed
for the Police Service as an urgent measure.
The
report also mentioned the general perception that the political
leadership is largely responsible for the lawlessness in the country
by its support and encouragement of criminals and criminal activities
and called for the immediate removal of all political interference
and zero tolerance of any such attempts.
Another
section of the report dealt with the Criminal Justice process and
pointed out the weaknesses in the system such as delays in investigations,
abuse of procedure, slow court process, lack of adequate equipment
in courts and police stations and corruption in courts and the Police.
Pointing
out that a large number of crimes remain unsolved, the report recommended
the appointment of a District Attorney to each district. "District
Attorneys should be recruited from lawyers of a high degree of intelligence,
who are persons of independent financial background. Salaries commensurate
with their skills should be paid to attract suitable candidates.
These appointments will be in addition to State Counsel and Non
Summary Counsel.
DAs
themselves will participate at every stage of the investigation,
including the arrest and detention of the culprits and will direct
the manner in which investigations are conducted. The DAs will direct
the investigations from the point of commission of the crime to
the filing of plaint, Mr. Gunasekera explains in his report.
A
recommendation was also made that new laws and amendments dealing
with issues such as serious crime, organized crime, cyber crime,
domestic violence and child abuse etc be proceeded with expeditiously.
Drawing
attention to the growing problem of indiscipline in society as a
serious trend that needs to be arrested, the report stated that
there is a need to inspire a greater respect for religious teachings
and for a more meaningful role to be played by religious bodies.
Special
mention is made of the need to discipline motorists and road users
with deterrent punishment advocated for errant under age drivers
as well as their parents who should be held vicariously responsible
and for drunk and negligent drivers.
“The
reforming of man is the first step towards the making of a Nation,”
the report stated, commending this thinking to the political leadership.
The wide-ranging report ends with specific recommendations on the
various issues that have a bearing on crime and violence; combating
serious crime, de-motivation in the Police Force, the inefficient
criminal justice process, crime prevention strategy, rehabilitation
of convicts and indiscipline in society.
Plenty
of food for thought and grounds for action? Why then is nothing
being done, more than 1 ½ years after? |