Drinking
life away
Underage drinking has become one
of most dreaded issues threatening the younger generation. How does
it happen? Who is responsible? Marisa de Silva and Smriti Daniel
take a closer look
They
stagger out into the street, just in time to catch a glimpse of
the sunrise. Disoriented and bleary eyed, they have more than being
drunk in common - they’re underage.
Young
kids all over the city have discovered that they are no longer confined
to the local ice cream parlours; instead, the doors of Colombo’s
many nightclubs and pubs are open to them and they are literally
going to town.
“My liver, my life, my money. Who are all of you to say what
I should do with it all?” More and more young people today
seem to adopt this reckless attitude, using it to justify a very
unhealthy lifestyle. What they are conveniently blind to is that
it’s not just ‘their life’ that is ultimately
disrupted or even destroyed as a result of this careless attitude,
but the lives of all those around them - such as their families,
friends or even the occasional stranger in the wrong place at the
wrong time.
So
what exactly is wrong with underage drinking? What differentiates
it from ‘overage’ drinking, which in society’s
eyes is deemed acceptable?
While it is one thing to sit back with an occasional drink at 25,
it’s a completely different story when the context involves
teenagers who can’t get their homework done owing to a night
of unlimited alcohol consumption. And most minors find themselves
completely unprepared - financially, physically or emotionally,
as the case may be - to deal with the consequences of any rash behaviour;
after all, it’s quite easy to be short-sighted when you have
no inhibitions to hold you back. The rush you get out of gorging
yourself on the forbidden fruit is unfortunately rather short-lived
when reality bites. You’re not ready for it - not in any way
- and it’s not fun anymore.
For
many teenagers most of the appeal of drinking lies in the thrill
of flouting the rules. It goes hand in hand with projecting the
illusion of being ‘cool’ and ‘with it,’
especially amongst those who have plenty of money to throw around,
as ‘living the life’ is not the cheapest of affairs.
“I
am 16 and have experienced many Friday nights, for the past few
years, drunk. I’ve stopped drinking now, but my friends still
drink excessively and I pity them. They should realise when to grow
up. I think for things to change, teenagers need more places to
go and things to do,” says Jamie*.
They
may be under 18 and still in school, but the nightclubs are not
out of bounds; in fact the majority of these clubs are patronised
largely by underage kids. According to the law, serving underage
kids alcohol is considered illegal. Why then aren’t the clubs
taking more stringent action to prevent minors from entering their
premises? “Well, if most clubs kept us out, then they would
lose most of their clientele,” says Dinesh* (17) breezily.
Can these youngsters actually hold owners of popular hangouts to
ransom?
Some
of the most frequented clubs in the city deny knowledge of any underage
drinking on their premises, and are satisfied with their monitoring
procedures. These ‘monitoring procedures’ consist largely
of ‘random checks’ carried out entirely at the discretion
of the management. The supposed criteria for a spot check is if
the individual in question ‘looks’ under 18. It’s
a premise that is questionable, given the disturbing reality that
once in their glad rags most 18-year-olds today look much older,
and the only people these checks are going to keep out are the 10-year-olds.
Ironically, all these clubs place a lot of emphasis on dress codes.
However, while they do not hesitate to turn away men wearing sandals,
they have no compunction in allowing minors admittance, as long
as they are decked to the nines.
Take
for instance the Blue Elephant, one of the more popular nightclubs
in town. Known for painstakingly body-searching all male patrons
and inspecting every single handbag that goes into the club, the
Blue finds it impractical to check for IDs.
One
of the hotel’s managers said they have a higher minimum age
limit (21 and above) than most other clubs. For a night haunt that
prides itself on being an exclusively ‘members only club’
(that lets in the occasional couple), the Blue plays host to a surprisingly
high number of the city’s young ‘party-goers.’
“I love to hang out at the Blue, because it’s a great
place to party. They’ve always let me in without a question,”
says Sonali* (16). How did a 16-year-old stay out so late at night?
How did she make it into a club without any questions asked? How
has it become a habit? Certainly, some food for thought.
A
lot of the younger crowd also flock to other night spots such as
the Nawam Mawatha ‘hotspot,’ the White Horse. The manager
of the pub frankly expresses his view that these teenagers’
parents must shoulder some of the responsibility by keeping their
offspring in check. “Colombo society has become increasingly
westernised,” he says, adding that “clubbing”
has become quite a regular feature on the agenda. When questioned
about the Department of Excise regulations, he says that although
still in use, the regulations haven’t been updated since 1938.
This leads one to question the effectiveness of a law, which seems
to exist only on paper.
My
Kind Of Place (MKOP) restricts their clientele to ‘18 and
above’ with a ‘couples only’ policy. They too
subscribe to the ‘random checks’ method based on the
same criteria as the Blue Elephant. Rehana (15) says that she has
been to many of the popular night spots in town, including MKOP,
and has never had any problems getting in. “Anyway when I’m
all dressed up, no one can tell I’m underage. As for drinking
inside the club, I don’t usually go get it myself, but the
few times I have, I’ve managed to get it over the counter.”
Perhaps the need of the moment is being more alert all round.
This
dangerous trend of underage drinking by no means implies that the
rest of society has accepted it as the norm, resigning themselves
to the inevitable fate of today’s youth. Far from it actually.
Many are those that are quite vocal in their opposition to underage
drinking, particularly as they are not just a hazard to the individual,
but also to the society they live in.
The most effective way to explain the ills of underage drinking
is through the ‘monkey with the blade’ theory, says
Hanz (31) explaining, when you give someone who is unaware of how
to use something properly, he/she will end up abusing it rather
than using it.
“One
of the primary reasons why underage drinking occurs in our country
is because parents and the elders of society have created a taboo
around talking about such habits,” says Hanz. If parents were
more open and receptive to their children, and explained the adverse
effects of drinking to them, half of the battle would be won. Rather
than forbidding them from drinking, which only leads to heightening
their curiosity, they should discuss how it’s better to wait
till they’re old enough before they start experimenting with
alcohol. And, he adds, even when they are old enough, they should
always consume liquor within reasonable limits, so as to not be
a burden on others. By parents adopting a more approachable stance,
they would also be more aware of their children’s lifestyle
and be better equipped to guide them accordingly.
Mario’s
(24) insight on the topic leans more towards the teenage mindset,
especially as they are made to face many difficult and possibly
life-altering decisions at a relatively young and impressionable
age. He explains that most teen problems are caused by wrong or
spontaneous decisions on their part, and that the consumption of
alcohol could only result in clouding their already hazy minds further.
Therefore, drinking can only make a bad situation worse, he says.
However, most teens tend to follow the bandwagon, as it seems to
be the ‘hype’ and ‘happening’ thing to do.
The
moment tragedy strikes though, the entire community comes alive
by openly voicing their sorrow or horror at the incident, and after
some time it inevitably dies down and is forgotten. “There’s
no point in crying over spilt milk,” says Mario adding that,
“we must do everything we can for those whom we can before
it’s too late.”
As
a mother of three Mrs. Fernando (47)* says that she’s totally
against unsupervised underage drinking. Her objection stems from
the premise that minors may not be fully able to know when to draw
the line, and thus get themselves into a lot of trouble. Also, addictions
to drinking too can also be a result of drinking from an early age.
Due
to the huge generation gap parents nowadays are faced with, they
should try their best to bridge this gap by being closer to their
children, and getting to know who they really are and what they
have to face in everyday life.
With whom does the responsibility lie?
The
parents - for not taking enough interest in their children’s
lives? The clubs - for turning a blind eye to their obviously underage
clientele? The Department of Excise - for not updating, implementing
and monitoring their laws? The State - for not dealing with this
rapidly growing issue and not finding alternative means of entertainment
for teens?
Or
is it the teens themselves, for not being able to draw the fine
line between fun and danger? Maybe it’s a combination of all
of the above factors, and maybe the only way we can make a change
is if we all take a stand and maybe it’s time we did.
(* Names have been changed)
The law enforcers say…
The Excise Commissioner, Parakrama B. Ekanayake, states that the
current excise law prohibits all those below the age of 18 from
being served liquor in any authorised establishment. This is inclusive
of nightclubs, pubs, bars, karaoke lounges, etc., who are holders
of legitimate liquor licences.
The
Department personnel are instructed to visit all clubs at least
once every three months. Such visits are meant to ascertain whether
the laws are being observed by the aforementioned establishments.
Each group of staff has a set number of places to visit by the end
of the year. Authorised establishment found violating the laws will
be subject to fines (which will be determined by the department),
while unauthorised ones will be raided and taken action against.
When
questioned regarding the procedures that clubs should adopt to deal
with the problem of underage drinking, he says that there is no
set procedure to follow. Furthermore, the methods are left to the
discretion of each respective club, to do as they see fit. “Thus
far, we have not come across any such violations or received any
complaints regarding this problem,” he emphasises. |