Learning
to live again
By Dhanuusha Pathirana
The devastation which years of conflict has etched on the lives
of the children of Jaffna, is slowly receding. Destroyed by the
shelling of 2000, the Madduvil Chandrapura Skandavirodaya Madhya
Maha Vidyalaya in Chavakachcheri is gradually being rebuilt to provide
much needed education to a new generation in the area.
Based
on their experiences in the Balkans and the Middle East, the Danish
Red Cross, in association with the Sri Lanka Red Cross Society and
funded by the European Union is also implementing a psychosocial
programme for conflict-affected children in Jaffna.
“Some
students were not talking to each other or with the teachers. Now
they are,” says teacher Sooriyan Ganeshethurai. “Such
activities are good because they give children more relief than
they get at home. Now they come and tell us about their problems.”
The
Danish Red Cross’ Programme Consultant Karin Erikson says,
“Having been displaced by the war and having lost family members,
half the students are not attending school, which indicates that
the future of half of the community has been affected by the conflict.”
“We
need to increase the confidence of the kids to speak their hearts,
and make them realize that they are not the only ones who have lost
someone in the family or experienced the brutality of war.”
To
date 85 teachers from 19 schools have been given basic psychosocial
and health training, and have learnt how to use play therapy, art
therapy, dancing and traditional exercises with the children. A
total of 1, 729 children and 3, 000 parents in Jaffna are taking
part in the activities.
Teachers
and parents are positive about the Red Cross effort and say that
the children’s behaviour has improved since the programme
started. In some schools, attendance has gone up and the number
of drop-outs has decreased as a result of the programme.
Low
attendance is common due to several reasons such as the students
being needed to work on farming the available land. In families
where parents are separated and which have lost the father the children
have to contribute to the family income.
Alcohol
abuse and illegal toddy brewing is common in the area, often leading
to domestic problems and disagreements within the community. This
also affects the upbringing of the children as some parents lose
interest in raising their children.
The
children are often without food in the morning, as their parents
go to work early mostly for farming and fishing. The parents spend
very little time with the children as they are burdened with the
main concern of daily survival.
“Adjusting is always difficult,” says Kohila Mahendran,
the Deputy Director of Education in the Valikamam Zone. “In
addition, alcoholism in the family affects a lot of children in
Jaffna. Many adults suffer from post-traumatic stress disorders
and the parents’ problems spill over to the children. We ask
the parents not to talk about violence in front of the children.”
Mrs.
Mahendran said that one third of Jaffna’s children have been
affected psychologically by the conflict and 96% of the children
have witnessed the bloodshed of war. Nineteen students in the Madduvil
Chandrapura Skandavirodaya School have lost either one parent or
both due to war and other reasons.
Karin
Erikson said that the main aim of the psychosocial programme is
to build a new generation who are capable of facing the challenges
the future holds for them.
Principal
of the Madduvil Chandrapura Skandavirodaya Madhya Maha Vidyalaya
M. Balasubramanium who was also a past pupil of the school relates
how in 2003 when they returned to the school after the Cease Fire
Agreement, the area was completely covered with shrubs and bushes
as no human activity had taken place in the vicinity. “The
Army was generous enough to come and clear the land for us so that
we could recommence the work of the school,”he said.
Before
the destruction, 1, 000 students attended the school, but now only
452 students are on the roll as only part of the former community
has returned to the area, the rest still being displaced. Madduvil
was the main area of conflict during 2000 and as a result most of
the community moved to Vadamarachchi where they sought refuge in
the homes of relatives or in camps.
Mr.
Balasubramaniam said that the school now conducts classes from grade
one to thirteen and there are 54 students who are studying in the
Advanced Level classes in Arts and Commerce.
“NECOT
and the GTZ helped us by providing desks and chairs. The Education
Department has built two temporary blocks of open classrooms in
which the school functions. Now two new permanent blocks of classrooms
have been completed by G.T.Z and the Government and a third block
is being completed with the help of the World Bank,” Mr. Balasubramanium
said.
“Before
the war, every District sports meet was held in our school ground
as it was the ground with the best facilities in Jaffna,”he
added. Last week, 42 Grade six children in white and blue school
uniforms, sat on straw mats on the floor in their new temporary
building. They were having lunch, laughing happily between mouthfuls
of rice and curry. A stranger to the place would notice the ruins
of the school’s former buildings but for 12-year- old Sanuri,
the remnants of the shelled Science lab serve merely as a play area.
“Close
your eyes and think about the feelings that you go through during
a day. Draw the one feeling that you can’t forget,”
teacher and Vice Principal V. Pragasam instructs them. Some children
draw happy faces. Many draw faces that express anger, or have tears
running down them.
Before
finishing for the day, the children are asked to make clay figures.
Some make figures of animals or household objects. Sanuri’s
little figure has one arm and a leg. “It is a landmine victim,”
she explains. Her sister was injured by a landmine while playing
in their neighbourhood.
Sharing
her feelings with her classmates and teachers, Sanuri is applauded
by the other children. She has made a small step forward. With time,
it is hoped that Sanuri and the other children will not bear the
scars of war. |