YOU
WERE OUR HERO
Malinga H. Gunaratne reflects on the loss of a close
friend
He
was a young lawyer in the prime of life. Polished, persuasive, impeccably
attired. Refreshingly unassuming and gentle. I was a young planter
exuberant, a little reckless, and sometimes, irreverent. As unlike,
as the two of us were, we established a firm friendship that lasted
almost 40 years.
Lakshman
Kadirgamar and I used to meet at our homes, at the many plantation
clubs that he visited after his day’s work was done. It was
here, that I was taken almost unknowingly to a different world.
A world of quiet analysis. Of delving gently, and with delicacy,
into the fallibilities and foibles of humankind. A world of philosophy,
not difficult to understand, with Lakshman analyzing the strengths
and frailties of the human condition. A master of the spoken word,
with a deep understanding of the workings of the mind of judges,
of opposing lawyers, he was always courteous and indulgent with
those like me, who were inclined to fixed positions. It was from
him that I learnt, that there was nothing in the field of human
conflict, that could not be resolved by the presentation of the
truth, with tolerance and patience, and in non-confrontational manner.
He
was proud of being a product of Manipay, the Colombo 7 of Jaffna,
that great cradle of learning and independence. He was a free spirit
who could not come to terms with coercion, compulsion and terror.
And that is why he opposed the actions of the LTTE. Lakshman had
no perception of fear. He did not understand fear.
Today
some of the elitist Tamils in Colombo are vicariously happy that
an assassin felled this human icon from our midst. He did not oppose
the LTTE because he was a traitor to the Tamils, he did so, because
he could not permit his proud, and free people, to be subjugated
by terror and brutality.
He
could never accept the recruitment of child soldiers, and unleashing
them as human bombs. He loved children too much to let this happen.
He watched the people of Jaffna being deprived of their land, their
possessions, sometimes even a lifetime’s savings, all in the
name of liberating them from oppression. He saw his Jaffna, a seat
of vigorous democracy, being deprived of electing the people of
their choice.
Lakshman
did not, like some men, wear his courage like a badge on his coat.
But he was an extremely brave man who had to do what was right.
Always. He also was too much of a human being to make speeches,
and announce to the world, why he was doing the right thing. It
had to be done, and he just went ahead and did it.
To
his liberal mind the slaying of those Tamil people holding opposing
views and exercising the freedom of speech, that Jaffna was famous
for, was almost sacrilege. Debate, persuasion, and the gentle art
of winning over the opposition, with measured submissions was the
very essence of his life. Though possessed of extreme physical courage,
his only weapon, was his mesmerizing ability to persuade.
Lakshman
lived most of his adult life with, and among the Sinhalese. He knew
they had many faults, but he was firm, in his assertion that they
were not racists. He knew that there was no discrimination in the
south, of a magnitude that required a separate state for the Tamil
people to live in safety. The quintessential Lakshman Kadirgamar,
he was neither frightened nor reluctant to say it loudly and clearly
for the whole world to hear, ‘That if you cannot live with
the Sinhalese you cannot live with anyone else, anywhere else’.
Unlike some leading Tamils in Colombo, who have earned rich rewards
in the south, no doubt by dint of hard work, but, never being the
victims of any form of discrimination.
It
is they, who now indulge and practise every act of deception and
duplicity to destroy the very Sovereign State that gave them life.
It is they, who seemed to rejoice, at the assassination of Lakshman
Kadirgamar. They will soon have to make the choice. Are you going
to live in the south and do everything, other than carry a gun in
the support of a separate state? Or are you going to join the fight
to keep Sri Lanka a Sovereign Nation.
Harbouring
the enemy, giving them money and resources, providing information,
giving safe houses, will have to be brought under the microscope
of the state agencies fighting terrorism. It is the powerful enemy
within that must be dealt with. They cannot be permitted to hunt
with the Tiger and run with the state. There must be special units
monitoring their movements. After all, they are the enemy within.
Everybody
knows who they are.
Lakshman then, was not only the most accomplished spokesman that
Sri Lanka ever had. His, was the lone voice that articulated the
real tragedy under the jackboot of the Fascist dictator in the north.
He saw many historical precedents, where a people were defiled at
the bar of world opinion, for their conspiracies and compliance
by silence.
An
international lawyer, he had memories of the Nuremburg trials where
Hitler’s henchmen were brought to account for the atrocities
committed against mankind. In the name of the Fatherland. Eelam,
Fatherland, Hitler, Prabakaran, what difference is there?
The
German people are even today, atoning for the crimes of the Fuhrer.
The Museum of the Holocaust bears mute testimony, to this dark era
in human history.
Field
Marshal Erwin Rommel was the most daring General in the history
of Germany. The Desert Fox, he was called, because he ran rings
round the British forces. He along with Generals Erwin Von Witzleben,
Gustav Von Zielberg rose up against this scourge of God. They eventually
went to their deaths, at the hands of Hitler. But they rid the world
of this monster. The whole Prussian officer corps, participated
in this move to rid the German people of this menace. Today history
records Hitler as the tyrant and the oppressor, and those who rose
against him, as the true patriots and friends of the German people.
What place will history hold for the Tamils who conspire by their
silence? Make the choice now before it is too late.
Lakshman
Kadirgamar was such a patriot, not only to the Tamil people but
to the entire land of his birth. His liberal intellect transcended
ethnicity in the name of which, the most dastardly crimes are being
committed. Like some Colombo Tamils he had no need to assume a superiority
complex.
He,
in his own way, understood that his Maker, had endowed him with
so many virtues, attributes and abilities that made him walk easily
with Kings, almost like a King himself, but without a crown made
by the hand of man. Lakshman was more divinely bestowed, with a
commanding stature, a soothing voice (which keeps reverberating
in my ears), outstanding integrity, and high intellect, which must
have made him know that he would go out this way, but he refused
to compromise. And there, lies his greatness; he refused to compromise
even in the face of death.
Sri
Lanka has become a servile nation. Our leaders are echoing chorus
after chorus, of plaudits and platitudes to those who are working
overtime to destroy our land. Lakshman, almost alone, fought these
forces. His weapons were the weapons of civilized man. Properly
marshalled reasoning, uncompromising rectitude and irrefutable logic.
The advocate addressed the world.
What
Tamil, what Sinhalese, what Muslim, which Sri Lankan can refuse
to be proud of this most precious man, who was the best among equals,
wherever he went. On July 12, he was the Chief Guest at the launch
of my book ‘The Tortured Island’. There, he made a statement
for the record.
I
quote ‘Let me close, Herman by saying to you, and by saying
to everybody in this room, as loudly and as clearly as I can, and
I wish to be quoted on this point, that I remain totally committed
to the Sovereign State of Sri Lanka.’ Unquote. After the launch
he joined us at the Royal Colombo Golf Club for dinner. He stayed
almost till the end 2 a.m., captivating all those who spoke to him
with his charm and simplicity.
When
he was leaving my two sons Maithri and Uchi accompanied him to the
car. He got into his car, and got out again, for a final word with
Maithri. “Maithri,” he said, “your father is a
very old friend of mine, you must look after him.” With tears
in his eyes, Maithri related this story to me, when he heard of
his assassination.
This
nation could not look after you. You gave so much, so silently,
so that we were free, sovereign and independent. Sleep well, gentle
Prince, sleep well. You have entered the land that knows no pain,
no suffering, and no sorrow.
You are a hero, not in a man-made gallery of heroes, but in the
eternal hearts and souls of the people whom you served so well.
And, heroes will always be the children of history.
I
mourn the loss of courage and the future of my country
Frankfurt, August 15, 5.15 p.m: They bid farewell to our Foreign
Minister today. It was a solemn ceremony as well as a grand ceremony,
befitting of this great man. They had the ritual gun salute. I always
wonder about this “gun-salute”. Today it seemed all
the more incongruous, for a man felled by the gun.
In
any case it was a solemn and grand ceremony. His son and nephew
lit the pyre. His son looked dashing - as always, and I wonder how
he felt at this awkward moment of fame. Maybe he would have preferred
other occasions for the world to view him. Not least because of
his feelings for his father.
The sky was cloudy. It’s inter-monsoon. In Sri Lanka it’s
either monsoon or inter-monsoon. Today the sky was cloudy. Faces
were sombre. Unashamed tears welled in many a celebrity, political
and otherwise.
Of
course this is how I imagined it to be. I did not see it. I was
far away, in the windowless room at the internet café. I
was, however, too early to catch glimpses or images of the ceremony.
But I imagine this is how it must be. I will see tomorrow if I imagined
correctly.
How
does one say goodbye to someone one never knew? Or is it sufficient
to know someone through his work? Or through his friends? Or by
watching him on the television? Or by reading about him in the newspapers?
How can one feel such loss for someone that one only knew of? Maybe
it is possible to know someone without actually knowing him.
I
wore black today. It’s not unusual here to wear black. It’s
quite fashionable, so no one would think anything amiss. Not that
I know anyone who would make this observance. That is apart from
my husband, who is my sole soul-mate here. I was at the Zeil, and
at the square there was a larger gathering of the group that I like
to believe are Tamil asylum seekers. Was it my imagination or were
there more of them gathered today and were they more drunk and louder
than usual. I hope they noticed that I wore black. Probably not.
I
said goodbye to him over the internet. I mourned for the man. For
his wife. For those close to him. But as every Sri Lankan with,
dare I say ‘patriotic’ feelings, I mourned for my country.
I mourned for the loss of a man who won the verbal battle against
the Tamil Tigers, near single-handedly. As others I mourned the
loss of a principled politician in the crass of muck that paints
our political landscape.
I
mourn the loss of intellect. I mourn the loss of vision. I mourn
the loss of fairplay. I mourn the loss of courage. I mourn the loss
of a father, husband and friend. And I mourn the loss of a future
for my country. |