Adolescent
angst
Shehan is a mystery to his parents. He’s just turned 14 and
barely talks to them anymore. He’s moody, unpredictable and
spends a lot of time away from home. His parents know that he has
begun to smoke, but any attempt to talk him out of it does not seem
to work.
There
are 3.7 million adolescents in Sri Lanka, comprising nearly one-fifth
the total population of the island. These 3.7 million children are
all going through what is by any standards a difficult time –
one in which the growing child is faced with the ‘real’
world.
In
a ground-breaking report released this month, UNICEF interviewed
40,000 Sri Lankan adolescents in an attempt to identify some of
the problem areas. In the ‘National Survey on Emerging Issues
among Adolescents in Sri Lanka” young people were asked questions
regarding substance abuse, intimate relationships, knowledge of
reproductive health and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), and
the incidence of sexual abuse among other things. The results are
being used to build, strengthen and expand national youth services.
“Today’s
adolescents face many challenges that their predecessors did not.
This is due to rapid socio-economic changes that Sri Lanka has experienced
over the years. Terrorism, migration, disintegration of extended
families, social isolation, uncensored media exposure, lack of accurate
information, unemployment and limited resources could make Sri Lanka’s
young people vulnerable to many risks associated with adolescence,”
said Ranjith Maligaspe, Secretary of the Ministry of Healthcare,
Nutrition and Uva Wellassa Development in a message. The risks are
both mental and physical, including suicides, social unrest, teenage
pregnancy and abortions.
“We
consider those between the ages of 1 and 18 children,” said
Dr. Hiranthi Wijemanne, Chairperson of the National Child Protection
Authority (NCPA). “We pay a lot of attention to the care of
the little ones,” she said “but all that effort is entirely
wasted if we do not work with the adolescents as well.”
Dr. Wijemanne identified adolescents as children between the ages
of 10 and 18 and went on to explain that the hormonal changes that
adolescents experienced were particularly difficult for both themselves
and those around them to cope with.
The
situation is made worse by everyone’s reluctance to actually
talk about issues such as reproduction and sexual abuse. While substance
abuse is dealt with in a more direct manner, it does not always
help as “many children know what is right and wrong, but are
unable to stand up to peer pressure”, said Dr. Wijemanne,
adding that the only remedy is to nurture life skills in our young
people. “The ability to say ‘no’, even in the
face of peer pressure is a life skill,” she said, “as
is the ability to cope with problems.” In a country where
adolescents have been known to commit suicide over minor issues,
the ability to problem solve and to put things in perspective is
critical.
Worryingly,
many young people’s only source of information is their sometimes
equally ignorant friends, revealed Dr. Wijemanne, emphasising the
urgent need for more youth friendly information services. “The
media now acts as the third parent,” she said explaining that
the way issues such as sex or smoking are portrayed in popular media
may distort the way young people view such things. They must at
the very least be equipped with the data that allows them to make
informed decisions, before they make choices that will irreversibly
impact the rest of their lives.
“Sex
is not a crime,” said Dr. Wijemanne, adding that it was a
natural biological drive and should be treated as such. Young people
looking for information should not be stigmatized; that does not
solve the problem and instead isolates those most in need of help.
The
report recommended raising awareness among children and adolescents
on sexual abuse and increasing skills to avoid situations that may
result in abuse.
On the subject of smoking and alcohol abuse, an alarming fact that
emerged was that 60 % of adolescents felt that use of these substances
could be stopped at any time, indicating that they were unaware
of their addictive nature.
Key
findings
- Among
14-19 year olds in school, 6% reported having experienced heterosexual
intercourse, while 10% reported having homosexual relations.
- Heterosexual
relations were more common among those out of school (22%) and
12% of those reported having sex with commercial sex workers.
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Of those who had heterosexual experiences only 39% used condoms.
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Only 57% were aware of the existence of STDs in general. Less
than 20% were aware of the symptoms, signs and way of preventing
STDs.
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About 10% of early school going adolescents and 14% of mid and
late school-going adolescents admitted to having been sexually
abused. The most common perpetrators were family members and relatives
(38% and 27% respectively in early adolescence).
- Nearly
40% found it difficult to cope with academic pressure due to high
expectations of parents and the same number felt that their parents
were not supportive of their decisions.
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The majority of school-going adolescents perceived their families
as intimate and close (60%) and mothers were identified as the
most trusted persons irrespective of age, sex and socio-economic
status.
- Among
the boys, the prevalence of smoking increased from 14% among 14-16
year olds to 32% among the 17-19 year olds. On average, most adolescents
started smoking and using alcohol around 14-15 years of age.
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Nearly 70% of 10-13 year olds were unaware of the changes happening
within their bodies. Less than 50% were able to correctly answer
questions on reproduction and related issues.
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