He
was much more than Prince Charming of the Police
Rudra Rajasingham
He was Rudy, "Prince Charming of the Police". Yes. Yet
more, much, much more. We remember a great deed done to assist unemployed
youth and the De La Salle Brothers with land for a Vocational Training
Institute in Colombo North.
Would
senior bureaucrats garner super power, take full responsibility
and say "No" to a Minister or MP and "Yes" to
a well established NGO? Rudra would and did.
Politicians
respect those who do not shuffle thoughts and papers, especially
work of worth and immediate operational nature. But this is incompatible
in a country in which economic solutions are riddled with corruption.
Again Rudra was different. Absolutely honorable.
It
was 1970. A property at 25, Temple Road, Modera in this congested
slum area had been gifted to the De La Salle Brothers’ ‘Mission
for the poor’ giving bread once a week to the poor. The donor
of the property lived next door at No. 51, Watersmeet. He had died
and Watersmeet had fallen into complete disrepair and was now occupied
by some narcotics dealers, prostitutes and ‘kappam’
(extortionist) men.
A heritage
building, with a beautiful sea-front- vandalised. It faced the Hindu
temple and St. James Church was behind. Years later, I rang Rudra
who was then IGP. Within a week, the police raided No. 51 and took
everyone to the Police Station. The late owner’s daughter
resident in U.K. moved security in and finally sold it to the De
La Salle Brothers.
Directors
were appointed: Bro. Emmanuel, Bro. Marc, Dr. Brighty de Mel and
myself as Executive Director, a lawyer and accountant Hector Fernando.
An institution to give drop-outs, non schoolgoing children vocational
training with consumer knowledge for girls and women free was set
up. It was 'learn to earn' in Socially Useful Productive Work (SUPW).
They were trade tested by NAITA (National Apprentice and Industrial
Training Authority) and given a national certificate.
'Plenty
Canada' moved in for two years with soya and set up the Catering
Section. The Group of Five with V.L. Wirasinha and Ranil Senanayake
and the Back to Indigenous Food and Medicine programme was launched
as well.
Thousands of boys, girls, drop-outs, youth and housewives from this
congested urban area, say a big "thank you" to Rudra for
making the land available for this vital programme.
There
are more stories to tell, some sad, some hilarious. Rudra was SP,
Mannar and my husband Raine was G. A. Vavuniya. Both were Trinitians.
I recall the ’57 floods; tank bunds bursting, water often
20 feet high swept down the Malwathu Oya. It was a scene of total
destruction. Bishop Dr. Emallianus Pille was stranded in Madhu with
3000 refugees. An SOS to Raine and lorries packed with food and
jeeps with diesel fuel were despatched. There was not a word from
Rudra, so we went to Mannar.
He
was reading a book in bed. "Rudra for God’s sake, with
all this chaos what are you doing in bed"?
"What do you want me to do? No fuel. Your husband flying around
in a helicopter dropping food, dropped bags on my radio equipment
and knocked me out."
On
another week-end in Mannar, we accompanied him in his jeep inspecting
Police on the watch-out for illegal immigrants from India. Suddenly
a policeman rushed out from hiding "Get back Sir, Get back
Sir, we've spotted an illegal boat and are just about to shoot the
flares,” he said. The flares were shot too soon. The boatmen
pushed the women and children overboard and turning rushed away.
Eighteen bodies were washed ashore the next day. Aubrey Collette,
the famous cartoonist has illustrated this incident on Page 180
of my book,
"Just another Shade of Brown".
Again.
What
did upset Rudra was Police Operating Section 35 (b) would place
a 12-year-old child in the care of any fit person-- decent middle-class
families, and there were many. But now the hyperactive market of
false accusations keeps these people away. Where have all the good
people gone, was Rudra's comment.
Lorna
Wright
He
was both mentor and teacher
S.H.C.de Silva
The news of the sudden passing away of my friend caused me shock
and untold grief as his death was totally unexpected. He had enjoyed
good health with no known ailment. He had gone for his daily early
morning swim to Otters' where unbelievably he was drowned in the
pool. How this occurred cannot be understood or imagined as SHC
was a good swimmer.
His
death has left a deep void among his family and relatives and among
the larger number of his friends and colleagues in Sri Lanka and
abroad.
SHC received his primary and secondary education at Mahinda College,
Galle and Ananda College, Colombo respectively where he excelled
in his studies and gained admission to the Science Faculty of the
University of Ceylon in 1948. After completing the first year at
the University he opted to go to the U.K. to pursue Engineering
studies and successfully completed his Bachelor's degree in Engineering
at the University of London. He continued his studies and was awarded
a post-graduate diploma in hydraulic engineering. On his return
to Sri Lanka he joined the Irrigation Department (ID) where he performed
his duties with commitment, dedication and devotion. He never acted
against his conscience. He was an exemplary public servant. He was
sought after for his counsel and guidance, by officers of the Department
to whom he was both mentor and teacher.
He
retired in 1988 as Additional Director of Irrigation. After retirement
he continued to serve as Consultant to the ID for a further three
years. Thereafter he was employed as a consultant at "TEAMS"
and then was Director, Water Resources Board and Director ICTAD.
Even at the time of his death he was functioning as the Chairman
of the Lanka Rainwater Harvesting Forum.
He
was an active ex-co member of about 20 professional associations,
societies and NGOs. He served as the President of the Institute
of Engineers and was the President for over five years of the Association
of Franco-Ceylonese Technologies. Some of the Societies and Associations
were kept alive due to his untiring efforts and dedication. My heartfelt
condolences go to his wife Hema and children.
May
he attain the bliss of Nibbana
D.P.W. Karunatilleke
Anton
Joseph Alles
Here’s to those happiest days
of our lives
On July 1953, a group of eight people was selected as x-ray technicians
(later redefined as radiographers) by the Department of Health –
Anton Alles and I were in that group.
My
good friend Anton is no more. He died on March 7 this year. I grieve
his loss because he was a very quiet and lovable person in our batch.
Those were the happiest days in our lives when we joined the General
Hospital, Colombo, as trainee x-ray technicians.
We
were a carefree lot; we were just out of school and grew in our
working environment with utmost cordiality and friendship. I admired
Anton as he was humble and devoted to his work throughout his career.
It
was his real Catholic spirit and upbringing which gave him the strength
of his noble character and excellent moral integrity. He was the
Honoree Treasurer for our trade union, The Government X-ray Technical
Officers’ Association, for nearly 25 years. This is an unblemished
record of service for a single person to hold such a position for
so long.
He
served last as the Supdt. Radiographer, Chest Hospital, Welisara.
After his retirement he worked as radiographer at the Healthcare
Lab at Horton Place, Colombo, and at Glass House.
Anton
was a very good and practising Catholic. I am sure that in the true
Catholic spirit, Anton's family was a source of consolation to him
in the last lap of his life. Anton's much loved wife passed away
a few years before him, but his deep trust in his religion and in
the Heavenly Father must have given him the moral strength to face
all life’s trials and tribulations with courage.
Farewell Anton my good friend! May God grant you eternal rest!
Marshall Fernando
She
was a pillar of strength
Enid De Silva
She was called Eni mamma and Enid nanda, names dear and close to
all her nieces and nephews. Born and bred in Moratuwa, she hailed
from a respectable Catholic family of seven girls and two boys.
Her father was an intelligent, educated man, full of wit and tact.
Her mother was endowed with courage and great foresight. Fourth
in the family, Enid inherited these qualities.
She
was barely twenty when she left to Talawakelle to spend a holiday
in a tea estate where her elder sister lived with her family. Little
did she know, that fate would have her meet a handsome, cheerful
man from Kandy, who was employed on the same estate. Soon the Lord
paved the way and they tied the nuptial knot which lasted for 60
long years.
They
were blessed with two sons and two daughters. Twenty five years
they stayed on in Talawakelle to raise the family and educate the
children with good Christian values. Then they moved to Kandy to
spend the rest of their lives. Thirty five golden years they were
to be, which both of them dedicated to the service of the Lord and
the service of man. Their eldest daughter 'Mani' was sent to the
Convent to serve as a Franciscan Missionary of Mary. Their two sons
are holding responsible positions in prestigious institutions.
Enid
mamma was sensitive to the needs of her relatives and neighbours.
She touched their lives deeply. When any need arose, or there was
a function she would rush from Kandy to Moratuwa, do her maximum
and get back after a few days. She was a pillar of strength to her
sisters and brothers. She could admonish with great foresight and
was able to solve a problem very tactfully. She was talented in
embroidery and the culinary field. Every niece has at least one
item of beautiful embroidery which she gave them. She made cakes
for the weddings of some relatives and neighbours.
During
our memorable holidays with her in Talawakelle and Kandy she fed
us delicious meals. In August last year she clebrated her 60th wedding
anniversary.
The
gratitude of her neighbours in Kundasale was seen in the large gathering
that was present at her funeral.
The
Bishop of Kandy, 15 priests and several religious sisters and laity
were also present at the funeral service. The orations were touching.
So dear Eni mamma, the ministering angel, with hearts laden with
sorrow we say, "In that sweet by and by, we shall meet you
on that beautiful shore."
Berney
Fernando
A man
with a heart of gold
Charles. F. Grigson
I first got to know Charlie, as I always called him after I joined
Mackinnon Mackenzie & Co. in 1953 -the good old days when the
P&O Passenger ships frequently called in Colombo.
Charlie
was working in the Freight Dept. and did so until he retired.
He and his wife Phyllis then decided to emigrate to Australia to
be with their older son Roddy and wife Mena who had emigrated a
few years earlier and were living in Melbourne.
Charlie
has been a wonderful and caring friend to me and my family down
the years. He was always ever ready to help anyone who asked for
help be it big or small and no one would ever know he had. Charlie
was such an unassuming and humble person with a heart of gold.
Although
Charlie and family were living in Australia and my family and I
in Canada we always kept in touch. I met Charlie last in June 2004
when I visited Melbourne and stayed with him and Phyllis for a few
days. We then had the opportunity to reminisce about the good times
both families were fortunate enough to have shared.
Charlie
was always with a smile and nothing ever worried him. He was pleasant,
calm and collected at all times. That was his nature.
The last few years he had not been keeping too well but Phyllis
always beside him taking good care of him was a tower of strength.
He
was a wonderful husband to Phyllis and Dad to Roddy and Dirk and
a dear friend to many who will miss him.
Farewell Charlie......May you rest in peace.
Sheila Wijeratne
Hugs,
kisses at the gates of heaven
Ruth
Rajamalar
Heaven’s a place that’s good to be
And all of us would love to see
Pure love and grace for you to feel
Paradise; the place we’re bound to be …….
Yet
you were first and before us
But though in heaven you are this day
I have something special to say
Ruth dear! It’s your birthday today
Then there’s something that I should say
Happy Happy Happy Birthday
Dear we send you prayers & wishes
And open our hearts with hugs & kisses and
You’ll find them in bunches at the gates of heaven
Nelson,
Niron and Jennifer
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