Appreciations

It’s nearing the 8th month since you left us Appachchi and your powerful voice and tender care still remain as close to us as you were.

Every morning I awake and before I go to bed all I can think of is how much I miss you. I have learnt to appreciate all that is dear to me ever since you fell ill. It was a terrible thing to befall such a wonderful human being and caring and dear father, but you gave me the opportunity to appreciate every little word you spoke, every memory you shared with us and all the time we spent with you. That is the reason Appachchi, today I look back with no regret, I look back only with a smile on my face and still see you in everything I do and every step I take.

The wheel of samsara keeps rolling on and I find solace in the fact that you have come closer to nearing its end, for I believe that you were so noble and honorable, that the merits you have gathered will keep you safe and will pave the way for you to attain enlightenment.

Your son and daughter will walk your footsteps and make you proud. You were the greatest role model any son or daughter could have. You excelled in sport and you could draw the most beautiful pictures and carve intricate sculptures out of wood. All that wonderful art you created surrounds us and gives us comfort even today.

In the military you are still remembered and honoured as an honest officer, innovator and true gentleman. We look at your pictures today and wonderful memories and stories come flooding back, bringing smiles to our faces. You have done the greatest thing Appachchi, you left us with enough memories to last us a lifetime and keep you near and dear to us always. I am so thankful for that.

I still remember what you told me when you fell ill, “no matter what happens, no matter where I go, I will be with you’ll and be watching you”. I know that is true, because I feel your presence almost all the time.

This is life Appachchi, the end befalls everyone of us sooner or later. An individual can disappear forever, depending on what kind of life he lived. If he lived an honourable life, the more he is remembered and the longer his memory lasts. This is you Appachchi, a man who was honourable and gave the best years of your life to his country and family, this is why you will remain with us as lively, jolly, courageous and caring as you always were.

On your 58th b’day Appachchi, we all wish you the blessings of the Noble Triple Gem and may the path to Nirvana be paved for you with blossoms of merit.