You were our life and light

Rehan de silva

Golden memories and silver tears are all what is left with us after one year since you passed away. I can’t imagine that such a long time has elapsed; it was like yesterday when I got a call “Rehan has passed away”. There was only one Rehan, it could not be anyone else.

Even as I tried hard to absorb this sad piece of news I remembered thinking at that moment that his death could not have been health related. Untimely death usually provokes feelings such as "shock" and "disbelief". Shock and disbelief sooner or later give way to acceptance of death as inevitable; the grieving becomes less and less and then the dead are allowed with less and less frequency to disturb one’s memory.

I cannot convince myself that I too will allow the memory of this loving human being, my loving little cousin, to walk this traditional path to oblivion, for he was different in ways that I cannot describe. It is customary to say nice things about friends and family who have passed away, but I wouldn't be glossing over anything when I say that Rehan was loved by everyone, that he didn't have a single enemy.

He never spoke ill of anyone. He never held a grudge and would embrace without a shade of negativity even those who did him wrong. He was a passionate Sri Lankan, who cared for others, a man whose one passion was being with people, entertaining them and keeping them happy. He never carried the burden of ill-will or jealousy, never thought of himself and preferred the pursuit of companionship over accumulation of wealth.

He taught us the worth of being ourselves and to be there for people when they need you, unconditionally. He was full of fun, energy, he loved being with family and never wanting the party to be over! He always had time for his cousins. Yes I idolized him. Though he was younger than me he was like an older brother. Thank you for the memories of every time we’ve spent together.

Rehan left behind his parents, and his family who love him and miss him dearly. Rehan, I wish you were still here. I love you...my wrestling buddy. Rest in peace and I'll see you in Heaven one day.

"There is no death! The stars go down
To rise upon some fairer shore;
And bright in Heaven's jewelled crown
They shine forever more."

Although REHAN is no more his name will shine like a star in the hearts of all those who closely associated with him.

Always remembered by Christine Hettiarachchi (Ungini Akki)