Refreshing view

Of recent I've found myself intrigued by a new kind of being. A human 'being' of course; a man in fact, but, a more refined prototype so to speak… What is this brand new unique discovery you ask? Hmmm… well it's not so much new to the world as it is new to me actually. My thinking is this type of man has been in existence as long as any other sort of man, it's just that I haven't had any significant contact with the likes before…that is until now at least. (Drum roll….) Ahem… Ladies and Gentlemen… allow me to introduce you to the one, the only… new fangled phenomenon cum breath of fresh air, a.k.a. 'The Younger Man' (TYM)!

I can almost feel the sense of anti climax and confusion intermingled in the air. All that pomp and pageantry to unveil this? I bet you're wondering what the "catch" is huh? Well, I'm sorry to disappoint you there folks but, that's all there is. I want to talk to you about the refreshing new experience in my life…younger men.

Note: I'm not a older woman perving over some young hot-blooded hunk, neither am I admitting to possessing paedophilic tendencies. It's just that in my short experience of men (both platonic and not) either my age or a year or two older, I've come to conclude a few negative traits common to them all. Traits, that for some uncanny reason 'TYM' thankfully does not, or should I say thus far appears NOT to possess! Ah…. one cannot imagine the immense sense of relief and calm such a man can have on your person. I kid you not. Allow me to elaborate in random order.

Uncomplicated – What you see is what you get. This phrase could never be more true. There's absolutely no facade here. If what you see is a lovable, shy, hadda – then that's pretty much what you're getting. He's not prone to transform into a 'serial-player' or a paranoid, possessive freak of nature! When I say U-N-C-O-M-P-L-I-C-A-T-E-D, I really mean it. If 'TYM' asks me "What's wrong?" and I reply "Nothing. I'm fine," he will refrain from pursuing this line of questioning at once and promptly move to another topic, even though he knows I'm lying. His infinite wisdom (much beyond his years even, I must say) tells him that it would be much more productive to talk about whatever's bothering me whenever I feel comfortable talking about it (if at all), rather than aggravate my already volatile temperament.

If I decide to discuss what's on my mind with 'TYM,' he will listen intently and earnestly and say something only if he genuinely thinks it'll help, if not, he'd just listen, knowing very well that sometimes that's all you need. However, if you so decide not to discuss what's on your mind, well then, that's ok too! No questions asked, no offence taken. He's able to respect another's privacy without harbouring a grudge.

Who doesn't love to be loved unconditionally right? But, to be loved so completely, knowing there's no ulterior motive… now that's an amazing feeling. He will be ever dependable and faithful; a pillar of strength in your darkest hour, without taking advantage of your intense vulnerability. And oh…how 'TYM' will adore you. He will adore your every pore…bad temper, foul mouth, random hysteria and all! This, I find to be, 'TYM' most unique gift. One, I wish so much I could possess.

Don't misunderstand me here, I'm not blindly singing 'TYM' praises here. I'm very much aware that sometimes 'TYM' has wants and expectations from the party he adores, but, the beauty of it all is that his expectations and his adoration run side by side, never the two ends to meet. In short, he doesn't lend an ear or hand, expecting to 'get in the sack' at a later date!

Irrespective of whether or not he's had any previous girlfriend, he shows no sign it. He's as jaded and cynical as a new born babe and is unable to perceive the concept of "once bitten, twice shy". He's quite willing to take things at my pace and is wise enough to know when to give me space and when to instinctively override my request for space.

'TYM's inherent knowledge of the female psyche and its inner workings, never fails to astound me. Older men might want to take serious heed of the 'TYM's novel ability. He knows better than to dictate terms to you and will go with the flow as much as possible, whilst simultaneously ensuring that he doesn't become a 'pushover' in the process. He'll be assertive if and when the need arises but, will handle it with such delicateness and tact that it would comes across as more of a compromise than anything else.

Last but by no means least importantly is, 'TYM'S prowess at not being clingy and prone to sporadic bouts of insecurity and paranoia. All in all, in my opinion, 'TYM' is quite the preferable and refreshing option, be it for friendship or otherwise. "Age is nothing but a number after all…"