He set enviable standards

Elmo Wickramasinghe

The more I reflect on the untimely death of my beloved cousin Elmo Wickramasinghe, the famous words of George Santayana, “Life is not a spectacle or a feast, it is a predicament and a mystery”, seem to be a truism.

Manel the inconsolable wife, Lidiya and Achala, the daughter and son cared for and loved Elmo dearly. Relatives, friends and colleagues at J.F.&I Printers admired and respected him so much that they are unable to accept Elmo’s death.

His cousins particularly admired Elmo. He was a role model especially to the young. He set enviable standards, morals and ethics for emulation.

When eight years ago I suffered serious injuries in a car accident and was bedridden for a long time he was of tremendous help to my parents and me. Elmo was a guide, philosopher and comforter when we were enveloped in darkness and despair.

He continuously reaffirmed our faith, imploring us to place our trust in the Almighty. To me he appeared to be a perfect human being with admirable qualities. His exemplary ethical conduct, integrity and high moral values left an indelible impression on all who associated with him.

A keen sportsman, he represented the college and Tamil Union at cricket and was a good athlete. Above all he was a sportsman with the fine qualities of sportsmanship which he radiated both on and off the field.

Despite his business involvements at J. F. &I Printers that he pursued with dedication and zeal he was essentially a family man. He was happiest at home with his wife whom he adored, and children whom he loved dearly. He was proud of them, not so much of their academic success but their qualities.

During the last few years his health was deteriorating and causing much anxiety to his loved ones. Even when tormented by illness he did not sulk, instead he learnt to turn towards the sunshine.

By Roshantha