Dear
Coz
Explain
Dear Suffering Heart
(Letter withheld on request),
Well, the decision rests with her. If her guy couldn't stand
by her and help her through when she crashed her exam, I doubt whether
he'll stand by her through any other failures in life. Even if she
does go back to him, she can only count on him as long as things
go his way. Try to explain this to her. Tell her you are there for
her no matter what and leave it at that. You'll only confuse her
some more if you reveal your feelings for her now. She'll also stop
seeking you out for advice. Give her time to sort out her problems
first but if you feel that by telling her you can win her heart
- go ahead. Whatever she decides and however much it hurts, respect
her wishes.
All the best!
Take
the risk
Dear Coz,I'm an 18-year-old guy. There is a girl whom
I'm truly, madly and deeply in love with. My problem is that I don't
know a lot about her. The only thing I know about her is that she
goes to Good Shepherd Convent and that she lives in Hendala. She
also has a brother. She doesn't know me but she has seen me. From
the way she looks at me, I know that she loves me. So please help
me with my problem. I would do anything for her.
A.D
Dear
A.D,
Seems like you know enough to
do a bit of investigation. Where do you see her and with whom? You
could either approach her friends or speak to her when you see her.
Ask for the time or something trivial just to start a conversation
and then keep talking. Maybe you can pass her a letter or card to
convey your feelings. It's a risk but in life you'll never achieve
anything if you don't take a few risks. Remember, faint heart never
won fair lady or for that matter, anything.
Wait a while
Dear
Sumu (Letter withheld on request),
I'm sorry but I can't directly
correspond with you. Your affair will no doubt create endless trouble
for both of you. At 15, both of you are not in a position to handle
the kind of problems that will arise. It won't be easy. I can't
imagine two families of different races happily agreeing to this.
It's sad but true and you must face the facts. So before it goes
any further and before you fall more deeply in love, both of you
must decide. If this other guy means nothing to you, forget about
him and concentrate on the problem in hand. Why not make up your
minds to be friends until you are in a position to come to a decision
about this. If you truly love each other, then it will withstand
the test of time. Think about it and weigh the pros and cons carefully.
Hello
out there
My
ever loving Ross,
Please understand me and my love for you. You are the only
one in my heart. I love you so much. Be mine forever.
Your loving, crazy girl
Dear Anuradi,
Happy birthday. May all your dreams come true. Wish you a bright
future.
Love, Ruwan
My one and
only sweetheart Shanaka,
You are the only hope in my life. I am very lucky to have a
friend like you. Don't break my heart. I love you.
Keshika
My everloving
Asela,
You are always in my dreams, heart and soul. I want to share
my life with you. May all your dreams come true.
Udumbara
My loving
Isan,
You are the girl of my dreams. I need your love. I cannot forget
you. Wish you the best.
Your loving Nalin
To Bathiya
Aiya,
Wish you a very happy 25th birthday. May all your dreams come
true.
Nilu
Dear Romesh
D,
Wish you a wonderful, joyous, gorgeous, fulfilling new year.
Hope you will be a bit more sensible in future.
Guess who
My little
Ayangika,
You are the princess that I have fallen in love with. I care
for you and want a chance to prove my love for you.
Jayaneetha
Hi sweet
Pooh,
I love you more than anything in the world. However, I don't
think we have a wonderful future together. Please forget me. May
Allah bless you.
Your loving, R
Blitz
hits Colombo
Talent
spotting
Prasad Bidapa has an uncanny
instinct for spotting models with personality and potential, many
of his proteges having walked away with international beauty titles.
How does he do that? "There's nothing magical here. I look
for a tall, good body with a good bone structure." Besides,
they need to have a sound educational background - that will enable
them to think and speak well. "When I am able to spot that
person who has the fire, and the will to succeed, I am able to inspire
them."
How did he get into the fashion industry? Prasad's mother who was
interested in fashion subscribed to different fashion magazines
like Vogue, Harper's Bazaar, etc. Glancing through these, Prasad
developed an interest and college days saw him experimenting with
his ideas through fashion shows, not only in his college but also
in ladies colleges.
After graduation, Prasad went to the reputed National Institute
of Design, Ahmedabad, India and thereafter worked in an Ad agency.
Somehow, he got many fashion-based accounts that led him to training
and choreographing for them. Soon he was training teams, big time
and doing shows at Dubai, Singapore, Thailand, San Francisco, London
and Paris. He has also done shows for the Indian government.
Back in India Prasad Bidapa is also an image consultant, running
Prasad Bidapa Associates, a division of the Design and Print Group.
His production staff of 15 assists him in every aspect of work -
photography, choreography, sound, planning and design. He counts
many distinguished clients in India and overseas in his portfolio.
Considered one of the most influential style entrepreneurs, his
opinion is sought on various related subjects.
He has helped position several big international brands like Levis
jeans, Evian, Swarovski, etc. Prasad is also a family man. He derives
great pleasure from being with his children, aged 17 and 12.
"Sri Lanka has so much to offer - textiles, talent, culture
and cuisine. It is this that we want to promote and present to the
West and neighbouring countries"
By Esther Williams
Blitz Event Management Co. Limited
has been launched with a view to organizing high quality events
in Sri Lanka. The brainchild of - Charles Wijesundera, Managing
Director of the Dart Express Group and Shyamalee Tudawe, Managing
Director of Kalyx Boutique, Blitz aims to bring international entertainment
to Sri Lanka.
"Sri Lanka
lacks a professional outfit to organize events and the time is just
right for an organization of this sort to be created," says
Charles Wijesundera. The dawn of this new era of peace, he explains,
has awakened the economy, bringing with it new enthusiasm in the
country.
Blitz will
work in association with Prasad Bidapa, a well-known fashion personality
in India. Currently he is one of the leading event organizers in
India having nurtured the Indian fashion industry for the last 2
decades.
"Sri Lanka
has so much to offer - textiles, talent, culture and cuisine. It
is this that we want to promote and present to the West and neighbouring
countries," says he.
Having visited
Sri Lanka several times, he has been fascinated with Kandyan dancing,
the food and the music that form part of the Sri Lankan culture.
"Even with the conflict, there has always been an aura of peace
that comes, perhaps from the Buddhist philosophy in this island."
Blitz also
aims to bring international entertainers - the best the world has
to offer - such as leading fashion designers, theatre and a variety
of events to Sri Lanka, as they wish to promote not only tourist
interests but also business interests.
Taking on the
role as a foundation for Sri Lankan arts, Blitz would provide a
registration service for every talented singer, dancer, model, etc.
in the cultural/entertainment field and showcase the vibrant cultural
traditions of this country.
"We are
going to initiate a big talent search," Prasad Bidapa says.
If India could win the Miss World title seven times in the last
10 years, Sri Lanka, its closest neighbour, with people looking
very much the same as the Indians, can do it too!"
He further
explains that Blitz would take on the responsibility of finding
new talent, training and grooming them.
Training would
include choreography, hair, makeup, sound and lighting.
"It is
a platform for young Lankans to excel in what they dream of and
there is a market waiting out there," he enthuses. Experts
would be flown in for the different sections of the training programme.
Prasad Bidapa
is eager to train those with the talent and desire to win. He however
warns that there are many that prey on young unsuspecting individuals
and exploit them. "If any of them ask you to pay to make you
a model, regard that as a warning bell," he cautions.
Modelling,
he says is a good profession that one can stay in for close to 15
years.
Those aspiring
to become models just need to get the proper professional training
for around a year and it would be normal for them to take about
two years to establish themselves.
With India's
style guru Bidapa behind it, Blitz has a lot going for it. Bidapa
is now looking forward to working with Sri Lankan models. "My
priority is to take them to India - girls and boys and enable them
to participate in shows.
Blitz intends
to start operations in April. However, as they were asked to manage
the JD Fashion International Awards Show this month, and a theatrical
show next month, they are in business right now with many more events
in the pipeline for every month.
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