Appreciations
She made me feel that I was special
Kamala Samaraweera
I have lost a friend so dear, it is almost impossible to
put into words what her loss means to me. However, I shall try.
I first got
to know Kamala when I was in my mid-teens. She was a young graduate
who had just qualified with an English Honours degree from Peradeniya
and was teaching at Visakha. So my association with her goes back
more than 40 years. She would always admonish me when I mentioned
this in company. "They'll know how old we are," she'd
quip, and we'd laugh - as we so often did when we were together.
Kamala stayed
with us at Milagiriya Avenue (before she married Frank) for almost
two years. Those days are etched in my memory and I can clearly
see her even now, dressed in a striking cotton sari, opening her
umbrella before she left for school. We used to tease her about
her obsession with her umbrella and she earned nicknames like 'Aunty
Kuday' and 'Umbrella Lady'. Her forte being English, I remember
how much she helped me (during my O/Levels) with my précis
writing, grammar and those knotty problems I came across in my literature
texts.
After she and
Frank married, we still kept in touch. I would visit them almost
every Saturday at their little flat at Gunaratne Place (down Park
Road) for lunch. We would remember each other's birthdays, see films
together, meet at lunches, dinners, or just get together to have
a chat. We would also spend holidays together. We spent a most memorable
holiday with them in Nairobi, touring the game parks and lakes and
visiting other places of interest.
As always they
were the perfect hosts and Kamala went out of her way to take us
shopping and organize parties so that we could meet their friends
there. We have made many friends through Kamala, at the countless
lunches and dinners we attended at their home here in Sri Lanka.
Kamala's most
endearing quality was perhaps her genuine interest in people. She
always had the time and patience to listen to the problems friends
poured out to her, and made it a point to help them in whatever
way she could. In the same manner, she always had time for me. She
took a personal interest in everything I did. She never failed to
inquire after my family and shared joyfully in all our successes,
and stood firmly by us when we went through difficult times. My
children adored her, and later when they married, their respective
spouses also looked upon her as a favourite aunt.
I can think
of no other friend who encouraged me so much in my humble efforts
at writing fiction, as Kamala. She was ever willing to read my stories
and poems. She made me feel that I was special, and for that I will
always remember her. In recent years we took turns at visiting each
other every Tuesday for lunch. During these times we discussed a
variety of topics, but of course, we always dwelt on the common
bond we shared -- books and reading. We had many similar interests,
likes and dislikes, and always saw the funny side of a situation.
There is no
doubt that her family will miss her presence, for she was a loving
wife, doting mother and grandmother and caring sister. Simon, Sonali,
Dinesh, Dimitri, Sarah and I will also miss her immensely.
Thank you Kamala,
my dearest friend, for sharing your life with me, for always being
there for me, in good times and bad. Although you have left this
earthly form, the memory of your love, caring and loyalty will always
remain in our hearts.
Anthea Senaratna
You did not
die in vain
Ovitawithanage
Samantha
Forgive me son I meant to write
An epitaph to you -
But mine own troubles germinated
And grew and grew.
So weeks passed by and
Now three months and more have gone
And you lie beneath the sod
In silence - alone
But Samantha son, you did not die in vain
The hands that wielded knives and poles
Are covered with a warrior's innocent blood!
In every walk of life we see
The rot that has set in.
How few of us have the courage like you
To try to heal! To clean !
We call them scum
You find them everywhere
In the darkest recess of their souls
Their hate and envy hibernate and grow
A day of reckoning will come
Life will catch up with them
You did not die in vain Putha
Your murder gave you fame -
It stirred and woke the slumber lords
Who never seemed to care.
That those entrusted to their care
Be taught all moral values,
Of honesty, integrity, truthfulness
Caring and sharing.
***
I call you Putha - I call you son
Tho' I never met or saw you
But you represent all the boys
I've taught since 1967
I addressed them as putha/ baba/ son
God grant that none will die like you
- Pearline L. Withana
Lankas
first Professor of Animal Science
Professor
R.R. Appadurai
On February 3, we commemorated the 25th death anniversary
of eminent Sri Lankan scientist and scholar, Prof R.R. Appadurai.
He was the first Professor of Animal Science, former Head, Department
of Animal Science, Dean, Faculty of Agriculture and Founder Director
of the Post Graduate Institute of Agriculture, University of Peradeniya.
Prof. Appadurai,
or Reggie to his close friends, died on February 2, 1978 at the
age of 50.
Born in 1928
in Vadukkodai, Jaffna, he had his early education at Jaffna College
where he performed well in both studies and sports. His oratorical
capabilities won him a number of prizes for public speaking/elocution.
He entered
the University of Peradeniya in 1951 and graduated in 1954 topping
the batch with a First Class (Honours) degree in Agriculture. The
extraordinary academic record he kept was not broken for 14 years.
Having won a Fullbright travel grant and the Smith-Mundt scholarship
he went to Texas A&M University in the US in 1955 to pursue
an M.Sc degree in Agronomy.
On his return
to Sri Lanka a year later, he joined the staff of the Department
of Agriculture of the Faculty of Agriculture of the then University
of Ceylon. He was recruited to teach agronomy and selected agrostology
as his field of specialization. After a short spell of duty at the
faculty he proceeded to Wye College, University of London for his
Ph.D training. There he worked with Prof. Holmes, a distinguished
agrostologist and obtained his Ph.D in 1961.
In1968 he became
the first Professor of Animal Husbandry of the Faculty of Agriculture.
He also served as the Head, Department of Animal Husbandry from
1968 to 1975. In 1972, he was elected Dean of the Faculty of Agriculture
and the significant role he played in conceptualizing post-graduate
education in agriculture led to the creation of the Post Graduate
Institute of Agriculture. He became Founder Director in 1976.
Prof. Appadurai
was the first Sri Lankan scientist to be awarded the Sri George
Stapledon Memorial Fellowship instituted by the Stapledon Memorial
Trust and the Royal Agricultural Society of England.
He carried
out his post-doctoral research at the Grassland Research Institute,
Hurley and Hannah Dairy Research Institute, Ayr, UK.
As many would
say, he was a man of action. He was dynamic. He was an efficient
administrator and inspiring personality. He not only knew what needed
to be done but also knew how to get it done. But there was more
to him. He was friendly, caring and had a sense of humour.
Prof. Appadurai
authored many research papers in agriculture and has three important
books to his credit. The 'Field Crops of Ceylon', jointly authored
with Prof. S.T. Seneviratne in 1966, became a standard reference
textbook for all agriculturists in the country. 'Grassland Farming
in Ceylon' was a comprehensive treatise on the subject.
While being
with the university he served on numerous committees of ministries
and departments within the agriculture and education sectors. His
expertise in pasture agronomy gave him many opportunities to represent
Sri Lanka at many national and international conferences and seminars.
Prof. Appadurai
was my teacher, advisor, colleague and friend. He taught us not
only the science of agriculture but also discipline, honesty and
integrity. He was a gifted teacher. His students remember him as
a man who walked into the lecture theatre with hardly any notes
but would deliver the most interesting and informative lecture with
all the statistics and up-to-date information on the subject.
He was a loyal
family man, friend and leader with a vision. He served the university,
the PGIA and his country with dedication and distinction.
Dr. M.C.N. Jayasuriya
(A former student)
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