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Hello
out there
My
dearest Amma,
Happy Birthday. Every day I thank God above for giving me a
mother like you. You are my best friend and I love you.
Dilini, Thiwanka and Thaththa
Oh my beloved,
I hope you haven't forgotten me. I wish to conquer your heart
and mind. What is your next action to conquer me?
Jestin SA
Our dearest
friend Farwin
Happy 17th birthday. May Allah bless you.
Your loving friends Safra and Bianca
My darling
Buddika (AD),
I love you and think of you all the time. My eyes keep looking
for you. I miss you a lot. Please come soon.
Your ever-loving Malar (K)
Dear Fouzmina
(Galle),
Happy 20th birthday! May all your dreams come true. I really
love you.
SS ('02)
Loving friend
Achinthika,
Wish you a fantastic birthday. May the coming year bring what
you deserve so very much in your life.
Snoop cat and Dr. DRE Dynasty in Galle
My sweet
Pinki,
You are my heart, you are my soul. I am waiting for you because
you are the one in my dreams.
Haritha
To Kuliyapitiya
MM,
The boy who asked the meaning of the word Nano technology -
by passing a chit, was me. You saw me last Sunday at Kuliyapitiya
Library. Contact me through this page.
Your admirer Waseem Akram
To my little
lass Manoja,
A few years from now, I will be happy that I have been loving
a certain Manoja who cannot be mine. Though I am apart from you,
remember that whatever I do, you will be in my heart forever. Best
wishes for your A/Ls.
From Hoggish
Dear Nimi,
You know how much I love you, don't you? I haven't seen you
for ages.
Can you come to my place for the new year?
My mother also wants to see you. I am dying to see you. Please do
come.
You know who
'Kadawatha'
Dear
Coz
Think hard
Dear Coz,
I'm 22. Three years ago I met this gorgeous guy
who came to the store that I worked for. He was asking about me
from my co-workers. Since he wanted some upgrades to the products,
it was my duty to call him. Anyway he ended up by asking me to call
him whenever I wanted. So I did and he invited me for his sister's
birthday. I was not ready to go out with him since I hardly knew
him. After a few more calls he again asked me to go out with him
for tea. I told him that although I would really like to, I wanted
to first get to know him over the phone. I wanted to take things
slow, as my feelings for him were genuine. Next time when I called
him he was very rude and cut me short. I never called him again
and he never called me. I no longer work for that company but I
still think of him and care for him. Shall I approach him again?
Only my sister and friends know of this. They tell me to forget
him but I can't. Please help.
White
Shirt MW
Dear White Shirt MW,
I'm sorry but in this instance I believe your friends are right.
You gave him a great opening by saying you should get to know each
other before going out. If he truly loved you, he would have jumped
at the chance. He knew where you worked and he could easily have
contacted you. Looks like he was just looking for a good time. Is
that the kind of guy you want? I can't make up your mind for you.
It's up to you to decide whether you want him in your life or not.
Contact him if you wish but all he would want is to go out with
you. However, infatuated you are, I wouldn't advise you to do that.
You know next to nothing of him. Think long and hard. He may be
all charm but don't let him take you for a ride.
Improve
good qualities
Dear Coz,
I'm a 12-year-old boy who is the vice captain of
my class cricket team. I'm jealous of my friend because he's been
the captain of the team for a long time. I feel he's my enemy. When
I'm playing, I try to hurt him. Tell me how I can get rid of this
cruel idea.
Sachin
T
Dear Sachin T,
Look on the bright side. You're in the team and you're
the vice captain. You've got a whole heap of team mates who'd love
to be in your shoes. You wouldn't go very far if they all tried
to hurt you simply to get your position. Your friend may be the
captain because he's a team player, has talent and leadership skills.
Try to improve your skills instead of resenting his position. You
play as a team and your victory is not an individual effort. Where
are your priorities? To bring glory to the school or yourself? If
you don't learn the importance of team spirit, you'll never go far.
There is still time for you to improve yourself. Try helping younger
players. By teaching them you'll develop your own techniques, leadership
skills and learn to be unselfish. It won't be long before people
notice that you're a gentleman as well as a cricketer. Remember
it's not whether you win or lose but how you play the game.
Sort out
your feelings
Dear Coz,
I'm a boy of 16, studying for my A/Ls at a leading
school in Kotte. I had an affair with a girl in my school. But we
never understood each other. After that, I fell in love with another
girl in her class. I asked her what she thought of me and she told
me she would think about it. Then my first girlfriend told my friend
that she really loves me and she cannot think of anyone else. I
still love her and she's always on my mind. I can even see her in
my dreams. So please tell me what I should do.
M.A.R
Dear
M.A.R,
Well, first of all you must figure
out whom you're really dreaming of. You've just said you've fallen
in love with another girl and asked her out. Did you do all that
while you were dreaming about your first girlfriend? Why are you
trying to play with another girl's heart when you're still in love
with your former girl? What the two of you need to do is to have
a really good heart-to-heart chat and sort out your misunderstandings.
Next time you get the inclination to ask another girl out, find
out whether you're merely following an illusion or whether it's
the real thing. Yours is not the only heart that feels love, hurt
and pain.
Find out
for yourself
Dear Coz,
I'm a 17-year-old boy from Kandy. I'm faced with
a big problem. I saw the girl of my dreams speaking to a boy. I
think he is her boyfriend but I don't want to believe it. I feel
really sad and I can hardly eat anything. How can I forget her when
she has already stolen my heart? Please tell me what to do?
Sad face
Dear
Sad face,
Stop wallowing in self-pity. Don't
assume things, find out for yourself. Make some discreet inquiries
to verify whether he is really her boyfriend. If he isn't, you still
have a chance. If he is, it's tough luck but it's not the end of
the world. It'll hurt at first but there are plenty of fish in the
sea. The stolen heart, given time and chance will come back to you.
Let go of the past and look forward to the new. It's all a matter
of letting go.
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