Life
and times of Victor Lloyd Wirasinha
(Eulogy
delivered by Rajiv Goonetilleke on March 26 at St. Luke's Church,
Colombo. Today marks three months since Mr. Wirasinhas death)
I have
visited this church as a child with my grandparents Victor and Lilian
Wirasinha. As an adult I have come here to pick my grandfather up
on many a Sunday after service. Four short years ago I stood in
this very same place to remember my mother, and now I find myself
paying tribute to my grandfather, when he has moved on beyond sight
and sound and touch forever. A gentle reminder that time waits for
no man, that life is temporal and that God gives us but a few years
in which to make our lives as meaningful as my grandfather did.
For after all, we are judged and remembered for the content of our
character.
It
heartens me to see that he is remembered by so many of you today,
when most, if not all, his contemporaries have also passed on. Your
presence today serves to remind us that we are united not only in
our desire to pay our respects to a wonderful man but also of our
need to do so. For such was the extraordinary life of Victor Lloyd
Wirasinha, brilliant intellectual and classicist, upright, efficient
and outspoken civil servant, concerned and dutiful citizen, a committed
Christian, a simple and gentle man.
Born
in 1913, he was named Victor Lloyd by his father, after, Victor
Emmanuel, King of Italy and Lloyd George, Prime Minister of England.
Though he did not straddle the international stage like those two
gentlemen, he nevertheless, in his own way, made a significant impact
with his life, through his work, service to community and contribution
to political and social thinking.
He
was a man who not only searched for the truth, but also lived the
truth having fully realized that the truth is a glorious but hard
mistress, that never, consults, bargains or compromises. An anecdote
which he constantly retold us was that when he was a student at
Richmond College, Galle, the class he was in was given an essay
on the topic "Honesty is the best policy", and that the
boy who got full marks wrote just one line: "No. Honesty is
the only policy". That incident obviously had a lasting impact
on his life. For he was a man that would stand by what he thought
was right, whatever the consequences. He was a man who was never
afraid to speak the truth and served without fear or favour. He
was a man indeed who, as in Kiplings poem, kept his head when
all about him were losing theirs and sometimes blaming it on him.
The
beginning
Life
in Ceylon in 1913 would have been very different to the way we find
it today. There was no electricity, radio or other entertainment,
which we lose ourselves in. Books and musical instruments were the
pursuits of that time. So Victor Wirasinha, developed his love for
classical literature and classical music.
Having
excelled at Richmond College - he (and his brother Shelton who went
on to become principal of Richmond) carried away the Darrel Medal,
the highest honour a student at Richmond could get. By the age of
17 he had completed his Cambridge senior examination and having
studied the western classics at university, found himself a civil
servant at the tender age of 22. Those of you who have read his
memoirs would know of the spunk he had as a 22-year-old at the civil
service interview taking on the Chief Secretary of Ceylon and his
assistants in a no-nonsense manner.
It
is both amusing and amazing. A foretaste of what was to become the
hallmark of his career as a civil servant. I will indulge in one
anecdote to illustrate the strength of his character. At the age
of 38, he was the Commissioner of Parliamentary Elections. When
J. R. Jayewardene as Minister of Home Affairs called him my dear
man, he retorted that he was nobody's dear man except his wife's
and that if JR persisted in calling him that he would report him
to the Public Service Commission for trying to influence the Commissioner
of Elections. His major contribution in that office was suggesting
after the 1952 election that the Commissioner needs to be independent
and that elections need to be held on a single day -conditions that
have now been met.
All
the posts held by him are too numerous to mention. Suffice it to
say that as Commissioner of National Housing, Director of Commerce,
Secretary, Home Affairs, Secretary, Industries, Chairman of the
NIBM and Chairman of the Ceylon Chamber of Commerce, he made a substantial
contribution and set a standard of excellence, working independent
of political influence and patronage, doing his duty without fear
or favour, malice or ill-will to the best of his ability till the
setting down of his duty. This standard of independence set by him
made such an impact that it earned him a reputation as the bete
noir of the politicians and was talked about then and is even talked
of today, two generations after his time in office.
After
his retirement, and till very recently, he would often write to
the newspapers on some national or international issues, or criticize
the action or attitude of some person in office. The last article
he wrote was about a year ago, titled what we have witnessed on
April fools' day this time - it criticized US President George Bush's
decision to invade Iraq without a United Nations resolution.
At
one time in the early 90s, V.L. Wirasinha was almost a household
name, as his opinions on the issues of the day were published regularly.
We who were close to him would often wonder why he did such things
and wasted his time when with his vast knowledge and literary skills
he could have written a good book on the classics or even popular
literature like his colleague Colin De Silva did.
In
hindsight it is clear that he first regarded himself as citizen,
and, like the citizens of the Greek city-states, was duty bound
to be concerned and contribute to the issues of the day. He held
firm to the belief that all it took for evil to flourish was the
silence of the good men. Therefore in this public-spirited manner,
he contributed to public opinion and political thought. He did something
about the public issues he cared for, which is more than what most
of us can say for ourselves.
Books
constantly surrounded my grandfather. An image that I have of him
is that he would more often than not fall asleep with an open book
on his chest. He was very well read and could engage in conversation
on any topic ranging from astrophysics to xenophobia.
He
would tell me that some had asked him if there were any gaps in
his reading to which he would reply yes, I haven't read Hamlet.
And they would say, "what! Mr. Wirasinha you mean to say you
have not read Hamlet" - and he would answer, "yes, I haven't
read Hamlet for the 54th time. Such were his reading habits
that he would not be satisfied if he had not read all the great
works of literature at least once a year, belying the Latin phrase
ars longa vita brevis - the art so long, the life so short.
He
made short work of the long list of literature. He possessed a prodigious
memory and could quote reams of Shakespeare at any given time. He
also had a thorough knowledge of five languages; Sinhala, English,
Tamil, Latin and Greek and could read Spanish. It was for this reason
that even though he was not an academic or a Doctor of Letters,
the universities of Ceylon sometimes turned to him to correct their
postgraduate theses of the western classics.
His
favourite Greek play was the "Antigone" which he felt
had been inadequately translated from Greek to English even by the
expert translators. Just two years ago at the age of 88 he decided
that he would translate it to English from Greek. A few copies of
his translation were printed though not published. He then decided
to go one better and translate the Greek into Sinhala, sadly he
was unable to complete this endeavour.
King
Lear
His
favourite Shakespeare play was King Lear, the reason perhaps, my
guess, is that like Lear all his children were daughters. Even in
King Lear, he was fascinated and fond of the truth I alluded to
a short while ago. There is a passage in Lear, where the king divests
his kingdom in parts to his daughters, and each is called upon to
profess their love for their father. The youngest, Cordelia hearing
her sisters speak of love with flippant adjectives, thinks aloud,
what shall Cordelia speak, better to love and be silent.
So when it comes to her turn, she says nothing and Lear says come
now nothing will come of nothing. Then Cordelia says I
shall not love you all but that when I am wed half my love would
go to my husband. To which Lear in surprise and anger says
so young and so untender, and Cordelia makes reply,
So young my Lord and true!
He
was very fond of that passage 'so young my Lord and true' because
it reflected in my opinion a mirror of his own attitude, speak the
truth whatever the consequences.
Lear
then goes onto disown his youngest daughter and divide his estate
among the others. Kent tells him to check his rashness. But Lear
banishes him. Kent says what would'st thou do old man.
My grandfather would often say that line 'What would'st thou do
old man', in a poignant tone, reflecting on the sad but inevitable
plight of old age, which we too would one day have to face.
He
was a man who believed in the phrase Mens sana copore in sanu -
a healthy mind in a healthy body. He was certainly not a lazy man,
and was not only intellectually agile but physically active, driving
till he was in his mid eighties and till very near his last days
refusing assistance of any kind. Like the rest of us being human
he too was fearful of old age and infirmity and wanted to be as
active as possible. He had great determination and grit. So it deeply
saddened me when he wrote a paper on the classics, maybe two years
ago, I cannot remember the topic, and ended it with ... "from
a once aging now aged classicist". This was a realization that
he had grown too old to be even young at heart.
During
the last few years, he bore his weakening physical strength with
patient acceptance. On his 89th birthday he thanked us for being
with him saying God gives us life and we must accept it in the spirit
He gives it to us. When we said that we would be celebrating his
90th birthday the following year, he joked that he would try to
be around till then.
Another
similarity with King Lear and my grandfather was that he too in
the words of the Bard set his rest in the kind nursery of his youngest
daughter; My aunt Rohini (Jayamanne). I know not from where she
found this poem but she gave it to the rest of us after his death
stating that she would often read it to realize and overcome the
impatience that we all experience some time with those that have
grown old. It is very poignant, and brought a tear to my eye reading
it so soon after his death, realizing that in this busy world, we
can become impatient. The poem is worth reading. It reads thus:
Blessed
are they who understand
My
faltering step and palsied hand
Blessed
are they who know that my ears, today,
Must
strain to catch the things they say
Blessed
are they who seem to know
That
my eyes are dim and my wits slow
Blessed
are they, with a cheery smile,
Who
stop to chat for a little while.
Blesses
are they who never say
"you've
told that story twice today"
Blessed
are they who know the ways
To
bring back memories of yesterdays
Blessed
are they who make it known
That
I'm loved, respected, and not alone
Blessed
are they who ease the days
On
my journey Home, in loving ways.
I
cannot but fondly recall the early childhood memories I have of
my grandfather - of him teaching me to play chess, at which he was
very good and at which I could not beat him even in advanced age,
of the various conundrums and puzzles he would put to me to stimulate
my thought process and of puzzles which he himself would never let
go till he solved, the music that he played and enjoyed listening
to.
In
whatever he did he was exacting and difficult to please on an intellectual
level. As a human being he was very simple, humble and gentle. Despite
his intellectual brilliance he had no airs about him. In private
life his affection was unconditional. He was a loving husband and
devoted father and grandfather. He so loved my grandmother that
at her passing he wrote, "My Lilian now and forever, more now
than ever", and he would drop letters of love into her casket
while it was about the house.
Pet
cat
This
man who was strong and unbending in public life was a very sensitive
man in private. I still remember as a six year old I brought him
to tears when I inadvertently broke the news to him on his return
from overseas, that his pet cat was lost and gone forever.
His
was a life that was colourful, a life that enriched those around
him, a life that was meaningful.
His
was a life that is too large for me to describe in full, a life
that began in the year the First World War broke out, a life that
saw colonial Ceylon grow to be Sri Lanka with all its vagaries and
vicissitudes, a life of which I can only give a brief outline.
We
are thankful for the blessing of his long and full life, the good
health he enjoyed and his peaceful passing away. We are thankful
to you who remember him.
Now
that he is gone beyond sight and beyond sound and beyond touch forever,
we truly appreciate what we have lost.
No
more the stories of old, no more the anecdotes, jokes, and chuckles
of laughter, no more the opportunity to tap that vast storehouse
of knowledge or clarify some literary point or Latin phrase which
we could always do with him and took for granted, no more the thought
provoking contribution to public opinion by V. L. Wirasinha, no
more the pleasure of his company, no more the gift of his leadership
and benefit of his wisdom.
We
are now only left with memories and the inspiration of the exemplary
life of Victor Lloyd Wirasinha, a man who lived up to his name of
Victor- victorious in his battles of principle, a Wira Sinha, a
Brave Lion when facing up to adversity. He was a man who believed
that there is no real excellence in this world which can be separated
from right living. If I may use the words of Shakespeare;
The
elements were so mixed in him
That
nature might stand up and say
To
all the world 'This was a man!'
When
come such another.
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