An
inspiring teacher
Kularatne Muthukuda
It was noon, we were all relaxing in the Maharagama Teachers’
College staff-room after lunch. We were hazily aware of music on
the radio in the background, while deeply engrossed in some interesting
discussion when my friend Muthukuda, seated next to me, burst out
laughing, saying, "Look at that singer, belting out that song
in terrible Sinhala, he sings 'Yachaka' beggar, when the song actually
implies Chataka, the Hornbill - a bird. I just can't understand
how they can sing like this and get away with it.”
This
incident goes to show what a sensitive scholar Kularatna Muthukuda
was. His was an indomitable passion for the Sinhala language. Kularatna
Muthukuda joined the teaching profession in his early twenties and
continued to pursue his commitment to the development of the language.
His remarkable flair for Sinhala came to the notice of those involved
in education in the country and he was soon absorbed to the ranks
of teacher educators as a lecturer in Sinhala at the Meerigama Teachers'
College in 1965.
This
was around the time that the Curriculum Development Centre was coming
up on Bauddhaloka Mawatha, Colombo 7. Muthukuda played a key role
in the Sinhala unit there helping in the development of curricula
for the schools system of the island. He joined the staff of the
Teachers' College, Maharagama in 1978 where he continued to teach
hundreds of grateful students until he retired in 1989. His services
to the country were immense and his contribution to the cause of
Sinhala education, boundless. Out there, in schools all over the
country are his students in their thousands who mourn the passing
away of an inspiring teacher educator. May he attain Nibbana!
K.D.D. Percival
A
life devoted to the Dhamma
Ayya Nyanasiri (Helen Wilder)
When I heard of the death of Sister Nyanasiri, my mind flooded with
memories of this remarkable woman, who in her own unassertive way
contributed so much to the Buddhist Publication Society and the
upliftment of the lives of so many people.
I
first learned of Sister Nyanasiri in 1981, when I was staying at
the Washington Buddhist Vihara. I had been corresponding with Ven.
Nyanaponika Thera, who was then almost 80 years and I was worried
about the future of the Buddhist Publication Society. One day Ven.
Nyanaponika Thera wrote to me that an American woman living in Kandy,
Helen Wilder, whose husband had recently died had volunteered to
help him with the editorial work of the BPS and that he found her
assistance very satisfactory. I was relieved for I knew that the
Mahathera now had the help he so badly needed.
From
early 1981 until June 1984, Helen (as she was then known) came to
the forest hermitage every Tuesday morning to meet Ven. Nyanaponika
Thera and discuss with him the BPS projects with which she was involved.
She helped him in a variety of ways with selfless devotion born
of her love for the Dhamma and joy at being able to assist the monk
she regarded as her spiritual mentor. Her help at this time was
especially welcome as the Mahathera's vision was growing weaker
and he was no longer able to bear the burden of editorship alone.
In
June 1984 when Ven. Nyanaponika Thera transferred the editorship
of BPS to me, Helen continued to help me with the same unwavering
loyalty with which she helped him. In those days before the computer
came on the scene, she typed out many of our books on her manual
typewriter, including the entire manuscript of 'The Middle Length
Discourses of the Buddha'. She edited manuscripts, read proofs,
went to the printers, helped at the office, organized the BPS library,
arranged files etc.
After
we went in for computerized typesetting, she bought a small computer
for her house and for two years, helped with the text input until
her diminishing eyesight made it impossible for her to continue
with such work. Though she contributed so much, she always used
to say that she was the one who gained the most, for she had the
opportunity to learn as she worked.
All
this work, though done with so much dedication was in a sense, a
true self-sacrifice on her part, not because she was drawn to a
life of materialistic self-indulgence but because she felt her deeper
calling was towards a life of solitary meditation. She found her
greatest inspiration in Buddhist literature came from the poems
in the Sutta Nipata-that describe the 'muni', the solitary sage
who wanders alone and meditates alone. It was towards this ideal
that her heart most aspired. Yet in this life she could approach
this ideal only gradually and imperfectly.
Until
1987, she tried to fulfil it as a meditating Buddhist lay woman,
but by mid-1987 she felt she could not continue to live as comfortably
wearing the apparel of a householder. Thus stirred by a sense of
urgency, she asked Ven. Nyanoponika Thera if he would grant her
ordination as a dasa-sil-matha. The ordination ceremony was held
at the Buddhist Publication Society itself, conducted by Ven. Piyadassi
Mahathera, with Ven. Nyanaponika Thera as preceptor.
From
then on Ayya Nyanasiri lived in several small houses in the Kandy
area until in 1996 Gen. and Chandrani Fernando kindly offered her
the kuti on their property in Gurudeniya- a place which turned out
to be an ideal setting for her meditative life. For the Fernandos
this offering was an act of singular merit, which I am sure, will
bring them abundant fruit. Here in Gurudeniya, many of the Buddhist
women in the Kandy area had the opportunity to visit her and offer
her alms and she became a mentor and spiritual friend to the English-speaking
Buddhist women. With her customary prudence she was skilful in striking
a wholesome balance in her schedule between the time she would give
for others and the time she would reserve for her own Dhamma reading
and meditation.
This
residence was also convenient for me to visit her. Often during
the years I continued to serve as BPS editor, when I had to spend
a full day at the BPS to catch up on editorial work I would go to
her kuti for midday dana and we would have the chance to speak together
at length, just as we did during the many years that we met on Tuesday
mornings at the forest hermitage when Ven Nyanaoponika Thera was
alive. Even now I can still see in my mind's eye her beautiful garden,
with her gardener Shiva smiling at work and the path leading down
to her kuti.
For
everyone who met her and knew her, Ayya Nyanasiri was a true Kalyanamitra,
warm, loving and friendly, ever ready to share with them her own
understanding of the Dhamma and her experience in the practice of
the Buddhist path.
I
had earlier planned to visit Sri Lanka in March or April and would
have seen Ayya Nyanasiri before her death. Unfortunately I could
not but I did write her a farewell letter, just a little more than
a week earlier and I was moved to learn that she had liked it so
much she showed it to all her visitors.
I
know that Ayya was firm in her desire not to return to this world
nor did she wish to take rebirth in any celestial realm. Her aspiration
was to head directly for the ultimate goal, Nibbana. I hope that
in the death process she has succeeded in fulfilling this wish though
I also somehow hope that we will meet again in the future so that
we can continue to work together once again for the good of the
Dhamma.
And
so I bid farewell to my dear and beloved friend and I thank her
for the wonderful friendship she granted me during the 22 years
we knew each other. I would also thank all who were with her and
helped her in her illness. May they all partake of the merit and
may all blessings be upon them.
Ven. Bhikkhu Bodhi Thera
Many
were the lessons we learnt
Thahir Hadjiar
Born on September 1, 1918, at Beruwala, to Cader Marikar Notaris
Samsudeen Marikar and Cassim Lebbe Marikar Kadeeja Umma, Thahir
Hadjiar or simply 'Appa' to us passed away peacefully on May 9,
2003 at the age of 84.
He
had his early education at Holy Cross College, Kalutara and his
secondary education at Kotte, Christian College and Zahira College,
Colombo. His trading experience began with his brother at Kalutara
(Maha Kade) and later with his uncles at Welikada, Rajagiriya and
later in the family business Allied Trading Agency at Messenger
Street. He was the founder of Thahirs (Pvt) Ltd., presently managed
by his two youngest sons Mumthaz Sirajudeen and Kamal Pasha. His
elder son Ifthikar Ahmed is the Chairman of Allied Trading International
(Pvt) Ltd., named after the family business of Messenger Street
fame.
A
meticulous, punctual, disciplined and well-dressed man, he always
had a smile which earned him the nickname "Siriththa Muham"
(smiley). He always maintained an excellent relationship with the
villagers and relatives. He would often visit his relatives even
in distant places and forge lasting bonds. He initiated the annual
Mohideen Kanthuri (the annual mowlood of his firm) in the month
of Rabi ul Akhir, which became an important family get-together
for the next 54 years. In the early part of his life he lived mostly
in Colombo to look after the business and later his sons' education.
He would travel down to Beruwala every week with his sons and the
return every Monday early in the morning involved a long walk to
the railway station in Beruwala town.This gave his sons the opportunity
to listen to many a discourse on family history and other topics.
In 1998 he moved to Beruwala where his wife and five daughters lived.
He
was an avid reader and had an invaluable collection of old books.
The happiness he derived at others' success and the wealth he sacrificed
for others' education speaks volumes of the man he was. He encouraged
every child to excel in studies. My beloved grandfather is no more,
but he will be remembered for what he was and for what we learnt
from him.
May he attain Jennathul firdouse. Ameen.
Azha Halik
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