He
was a beacon who showed the light and path to success
Shabbir Sangani
Is it possible to be everything-successful businessman, visionary,
strategist, leader, devoted parent, sportsman, and a truly good
human being? And, is it possible to start up a business and develop
it into one of our biggest apparel manufacturers - single-handedly-in
the short span of 30 years? Yes. Shabbir Sangani was all this and
much more. On his first death anniversary, this is a meagre attempt
to honour the man that he was and will continue to be in our hearts.
Shabbir
started his garment manufacturing business, at the age of 19, having
turned down his university acceptance in the USA. With 20 machines
and 40 workers, he ran his business out of a disused cinema hall
in Dehiwala. Even in this unglamorous setting, the factory was neat
and orderly without a chair out of place. From here on, Shabbir's
business grew by leaps and bounds. Although the reasons for his
continued success are best known only to him, we can learn from
his inimitable style.
Shabbir
was a rare blend of humility and steely determination. He was never
ashamed to admit his mistakes and apologize when he was wrong. He
always sought advice, not just from business consultants and those
he admired, but also from his team and even his junior employees.
Once, a young graduate employee asked him, “How did you become
so successful at such a young age?” Without hesitation he
replied, "By being totally focused on what I wanted."
Shabbir never wavered in his single-minded determination to achieve
the dreams he had for his company and himself.
Those
who knew Shabbir would say that he never stopped. He was always
in a hurry and wanted things done in record quick time. Once, when
asked why he never rested - he smiled and said, "Life is too
short to take naps." He expected others to keep pace with him,
which was like running an endless marathon - especially as he was
always quite a bit ahead of you.
Together
with his focused determination and boundless energy, Shabbir also
had a tremendous amount of discipline. Whether it was to complete
his gruelling work- out sessions, his strict diet or making it to
a meeting on time despite feeling sick, he never wavered, once a
decision had been made.
As
a leader, he evolved into being a motivator and mentor to his team.
It was difficult to work for him and not be influenced by his strong
leadership style. Although theories and abstract concepts bored
him, when faced with problems, employees knew he would help them
find a way out or come up with a completely unorthodox suggestion
that was previously inconceivable. He was quick to make decisions
- mostly relying on the facts at hand and his uncanny gut instinct.
This perceptive side of his character was unique to him. Before
an issue surfaced, Shabbir had the ability to anticipate it and
act accordingly.
While
making tough business decisions, Shabbir's compassionate nature
would become evident. The employee's needs, his family considerations
and emotional well-being were always considerations.
When
people were in trouble, he would help them out quietly, without
saying much. Some of his magnanimous actions came to light only
after his death. Shabbir was always known for his honour and integrity.
Over the years, he built up so much credibility with those he worked
with that deals and transactions were purely based on his word.
If he committed himself to something, however small, he made sure
that he would deliver, as promised.
At
work and play, Shabbir was passionate about anything he took on.
He constantly urged his team to "stretch" themselves.
All goals had to be beyond the "comfortable" range for
him to be pleased.
Generally
shy and never boastful, Shabbir was really an introvert who preferred
to spend time with those he was comfortable with. However, when
his work required him to head a team, to be a presenter or a host,
he did very well.
Maintaining
balance in our lives is something we all strive to do. Shabbir seemed
to have it down to a fine art. Somehow, he did it all -spent time
with his family, worked 12- hour days, exercised vigorously, travelled
extensively, had daily dinner meetings and never cancelled a planned
meeting. He always made his family a priority. Although he never
spoke about his own successes, Shabbir took immense pride in his
family's accomplishments.
Finally,
one cannot complete a profile of Shabbir without acknowledging the
risk-taker that he was. It is fair to say that Shabbir thrived -
and died - pursuing risk. It was the uncertainty, the fear, the
challenge, and eventually the thrill of conquering the seemingly
impossible that propelled Shabbir on.
Shabbir's
tragic and untimely demise has left a void in many hearts. His death
is a loss to his family, his group of companies, the apparel industry
and to Sri Lanka.
In
life, Shabbir was a beacon showing us the light and the path to
success. In death, we hope that he will continue to guide us towards
achieving what we have set out to do….
"The
guardian angels of life sometimes fly so high as to be beyond our
sight, but they are always looking down upon us."
A friend
A
courageous man
S. Pathmanathan
A tall, upright and handsome man - S. Pathmanathan, passed away
peacefully in his London abode in the early hours of May 8 while
he was reading the daily newspapers. He was 85.
Mr.
Pathmanathan was a cricketer of repute and represented the Royal
College cricket team that toured Australia in the late 1930s. Born
to a family of eight children, he was the second son of the late
Mr. and Mrs. Sundaram who were held in high esteem in Cinnamon Gardens.
At
the time he migrated to London, he was the Assistant Secretary of
the Ceylon Cricket Association. He also officiated as an umpire
in the Sara Trophy matches in the late 1950s. He faced every situation
in life courageously much to the admiration of many.
He
was Chief Shroff at the State Bank of India and later was an Executive
in the American Embassy in Colombo.
It
was during this time I came to know him more intimately. His sense
of humour and endearing ways earned him the respect of all those
who had the privilege of knowing him.
Bala
We
will meet someday
Gerard Mudannayake
June was once more here;
To bring memories of you brother dear,
Now within four walls I spend my time,
And recall your advice so refined.
Your lingering years I did the best I could;
To bring solace and comfort to you as a sister should,
“Norma, I'm coming” came the call.
You
thought you were a worry to us all.
Your eldest daughter came my way;
She helped me much I must say,
From Mt. Lavinia - a cab to me sent she,
And for a change, she took poor me.
To drive me to our home town fine;
Failed not she to give to me a good time.
To
repay her generosity somehow
To dole out to her - what have I now?
I wish you had played the fiddle fine;
As you divulged to me that time
The change has upset her much
I just can't help her as such
Spent I time with your daughter dear
Much did she say which you ought to hear
To ease my mind I did the best
At feet of Jesus left- And now I rest.
My
lingering years in the same boat am I
Awaiting the call to sail up high.
Farewell brother, farewell I say,
Till in heaven we meet some day.
Sister Norma
Son,you
will always be remembered with devotion
Nirosha
Dearest son Nirosha, you disappeared quite unexpectedly but made
so many remember your name forever, by your memorable life. This
gives some consolation to me even though my mind is still in pain
because of the event that took place on Guru Poornima day, in July
2001 when your life was ended by cold blooded murder in front of
my eyes.
Nirosha,
you remember that by a sudden decision on June 23, 2001, we visited
the famous Shiva temples in India, Chithamparam, Thiruvannamalai,
Seerkali and Kanchi and you were happy about this visit which was
two months before your final M.B.B.S. exam. Furthermore you and
I drank the milk from the milk abishekam of Lord Shiva at Chithamparam.Later
on July 1, 2001 you visited Gayathri Temple and Hanuman Temple at
Nuwara Eliya. On our return I gave you a coconut to be broken in
front of Lord Ganesha, which you did, and I mentioned that you should
get a Distinction in Medicine. But on July 6, instead of this distinction
in Medicine, you received a higher status in the celestial divine
world. But why should this happen?
Nirosha,
I believe that only you are aware that I have lost all my happiness
and mental peace, since you left me.
Om! Shiva, Shiva, Sathya Narayana
Bindu
Mandala Vasini Nama!!!
Loving
Dada, Dr. Srideva
With
a gentle smile you helped us all
Isme Rita Fernando
True child of God you were, dear sister Isme;
Expressed sentiments of gratitude, to God our creator,
With a gentle smile, you spoke words of appreciation
To uplift and make us feel comfortable all the time.
Diploma
in Bible studies you did obtain,
And a trained teacher you were, specialized in English,
Never did you seek fame or speak of your status,
Fulfilled every responsibility to brothers, sisters, children and
students.
A faithful wife and mother who did her best for the family,
You did not trouble anyone, but kept the home fires burning,
Until you closed your eyes, after much strife and strain,
Time was ripe for you to receive the eternal reward.
Your
daughter and son-in-law, specialized as general physicians,
Son, a law graduate and attorney at-law
Your parents were blessed, with five daughters and five sons
Praise and thanks be to Almighty Father who will grant you eternal
rest.
Laurinda Jayasinghe
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