Condoms
not condemnation
From Kumudini Hettiarachchi in Bangkok
"Raise your hand if you are HIV positive."
It was a simple, yet loaded request and as everyone in the packed
room curiously turned around to see who was HIV positive, a single
hand, somewhat hesitantly, went up. It was a middle-aged woman,
in a salwar kameez, looking embarrassed, with a child by her side.
The
request came from pretty Anandi Yuvaraj of India, who herself is
HIV positive and was the ultimate reality check for the theme under
discussion at the XV International AIDS Conference held last week
in Bangkok.
Nine
people, six women and three men, were speaking on 'Gender, condoms
and stigma in South Asia' and Anandi was one. Taking the youth perspective
on this sensitive topic to the international arena from a region
where talking sex is taboo not only in homes but also in schools
and universities, was teenager and Scout Samudra Samith Dinesh from
Sri Lanka.
"The
condom is condemned. But it is a necessary tool for sexually active
youth to protect themselves," Samudra said. Lamenting that
sex education in the region including Sri Lanka is at a very low
level, he explained that the situation is even worse for women because
they lack access to education and information.
"The
situation of HIV infected and affected people is appalling. They
are deprived of their basic rights, needs, self-worth and hope,"
Samudra, a youth representative sponsored by UNICEF, said urging
that laws be enacted to protect them and provide them services and
ensure respect.
"This
should be the goal of all governments in the region. The reduction
of stigma and discrimination of people living with HIV/AIDS is one
of the necessary measures in this goal," said Samudra while
Anandi from the India HIV/AIDS Alliance pleaded with those living
with HIV to come out into the open and get involved in prevention.
Diagnosed
with HIV in 1997, Anandi says, "I didn't care about stigma
and discrimination. When I heard that I had HIV, I was so happy
that I was alive. That day I thought, I am not dying today. We who
are HIV positive must turn the world upside down. We must talk about
condoms and prevention," she said.
Dubbed
the selected critical themes for South Asia, strategic condom programming,
gender issues in HIV programming and stigma and discrimination were
being discussed last Tuesday. The chairperson was Dr. Nafis Sadik,
Special Envoy of the UN Secretary-General for HIV/AIDS in Asia and
the Pacific. And in the room, among the few posters adorning the
wall was one with Lanka's own popular cricketer Sanath Jayasuriya
asking, "I care. Do you?"
"There
is the conundrum of gender, stigma and condom use that we must traverse
to succeed in combating the spread of AIDS," stressed Meenakshi
Datta Ghosh, Project Director of India's National AIDS Control Programme
who had introduced two contraceptives in the family planning programme
in 2002.
The
effectiveness of the condom was put in focus when Ms. Ghosh said
that in 85% of the 5.1 million people living with HIV in India,
the disease has been transmitted sexually. According to her the
stigma around condoms and the silence around sex make the situation
more complex and there is an urgent need to bring about a change
in the attitudes of men and boys.
Making
a powerful and passionate presentation, Dr. Pramilla Senanayake
of Sri Lanka said the tragedy is that policy-makers, parents and
service providers find adolescent sexuality and reproductive needs
an uncomfortable subject. "Millions of young people are being
denied essential reproductive health information and services. These
are denials of their basic human rights."
The
need is to acknowledge that the overwhelming statistics on adolescent
HIV infections and deaths are in fact compelling evidence of the
tragic consequences of violating fundamental human rights, said
Dr. Senanayake, a former Assistant Director General of the International
Planned Parenthood Federation (IPPF). "There is an urgent need
to move out of this damaging culture of denial and remember that
sexual health is not about morality but an issue of bodily integrity
and wellbeing."
On
gender issues, Kathleen Cravero, Deputy Executive Director, UNAIDS,
Geneva came up with several crucial suggestions including the strengthening
of HIV prevention for women, reducing violence against women, protecting
or ensuring property and inheritance rights of women, guaranteeing
equal care for women, promoting female contraception methods such
as the female condom and promoting education for girls so that it
will be a positive weapon against HIV.
These
are warnings and issues South Asia needs to take seriously to prevent
the AIDS pandemic going the same way here as in Africa. Women and
HIV is of critical importance for the countries in this region because
throughout the 15th International AIDS Conference what has been
a recurrent subject is the "young female face of HIV"
as more and more young girls are ensnared in its web.
For
Sri Lanka, measures need to be taken to keep its status of 'HIV
low prevalence' (so far the estimated number is 7,500-8,000 with
523 reported HIV/AIDS cases) by addressing and strengthening these
three important issues of gender, condoms and stigma. Then should
come the next step of attempting to bring down the numbers of those
living with this deadly enemy.
Celebrities
light up the darkness
A blackout in the 10,000-seat arena at the IMPACT Convention
and Exhibition Centre in Bangkok, Thailand. Suddenly thousands and
thousands of pinpoints of light illuminate the darkness.
It
is around 9 p.m. on July 11 (last Sunday) and time for the candlelight
memorial for those who have said goodbye after falling victim to
AIDS, the pandemic that is spreading across the world. The AIDS
candle is jointly lit by Thai Prime Minister Thaksin Shinawatra
and United Nations Secretary-General Kofi Annan, while the tiny
torches handed out to each and every person who entered the arena
shine in the darkness.
This
is the highlight of the opening ceremony of the XV International
AIDS Conference with the theme 'Access for All'. Earlier the celebrities,
world leaders, the scientists, the activists, the people living
with HIV, the journalists and also the protestors had trickled in
filling to capacity the arena and sending the overflow into many
other side halls where people watched the ceremony on huge TV screens.
Seventeen
thousand people had registered for the conference, which for the
first time had interactive leadership sessions and a Global Village.
Secretary-General Kofi Annan, Premier Shinawatra and Graca Machel
were the patrons and also active participants of the Leadership
Program dedicated to highlighting and promoting diversity of leadership
including from the fields of religion, industry and media, in the
fight against HIV/AIDS.
The
other first, the Global Village, was for community leaders and organizations
that could not pay up the $1,000 conference registration fee. Among
the celebrities at the opening were actor Richard Gere and Miss
Universe 2004 Jennifer Hawkins from Australia. Gere, who is involved
in major anti-AIDS work in India got a prolonged ovation as he walked
in slowly turning around with his hands together in the greeting
of namasthe.
Throughout
Shinawatra's speech protestors held up placards with "No more
lies", while one heckler screamed 'hypocrite' as Annan spoke.
Starting around 1 p.m. there were numerous cultural events, with
colourfully caparisoned elephants leading the way. Recognised as
a symbol of Thailand, they were also used as the "visible symbol"
of ability and power at the conference to indicate the power of
all partnerships in the fight against this epidemic.
A
discordant and tragic note came out loud and clear, leading to some
controversy over the much vaunted theme - Access for All -- as most
people including some of the VIPs had left by the time Paisan Sawannawong
of the Thai Drug Users' Network got up to speak on 'Access for people
living with HIV/AIDS'.
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