Three
beautiful people lost in the whirl of tsunami
Jaliya Jayasuriya
December, 26, 2004 will go down the annals
of Sri Lanka’s history as one of the gloomiest days ever confronted
by its people. The destruction and devastation caused by the tsunami
brought misery to thousands of innocent Sri Lankans.
In
this unannounced death trap were caught three beautiful persons
- my good friend, Jaliya Jayasuriya and his two loving sons Sanka
(19 years) and Hashan (16 years), my students at the CCC School
of Cricket. When disaster struck, the Jayasuriya family, were at
the Yala National Park having arrived there from Tissamaharama in
the morning. The tsunami took the lives of Jaliya and his two sons,
but left his wife Henrietta injured and unconscious to recover in
hospital - shocked and devastated to learn of the loss of her husband
and their two loving sons.
Jaliya,
the magnificent personality who stood over six feet five, was really
a gentle giant. His two boys were also six footers though they were
in their teens. An outstanding product of St. Anthony's College
Katugastota, Jaliya, an all-round athlete played almost all games
at school, but excelled in basketball, rugby and athletics representing
his school. He was awarded colours in rugby, played cricket for
his house, and was a storehouse of knowledge on the game.
Similarly,
his two sons, represented St. Joseph's College, Colombo in basketball
and cricket. Sanka represented the senior team at basketball and
the 2nd XI at cricket, while Hashan represented the Junior team
at basketball. Sanka also represented CCC School of Cricket at U-15,
U-17 and U-19 levels and also toured India with the school team
in April 2000. Hashan, too represented CCC school of Cricket at
U-13 and U-15 levels and toured India in 2001. Both were very loyal
and disciplined students.
Leaving
school, Jaliya joined Lever Brothers as a Sales Representative,
where he worked for a couple of years. He joined Singer (Sri Lanka)
Ltd., as Merchandising Manager in 1985. It was at Singer, that I
had the good fortune to come to know this wonderful man - a very
loyal and sincere friend and above all a thorough gentleman.
In
1994, when Singer (Sri Lanka) Ltd, sponsored and organized the first
ever International World Cricket Series in Sri Lanka, "The
Singer World Series", Jaliya was the livewire of the organization
which successfully conducted the tournament. Unassuming gentleman
that he was, Jaliya, inspite of his towering personality, always
kept a low profile. He was very popular among all, but shunned publicity.
In
the following year, when Singer Sri Lanka sponsored "The Singer
Champions Trophy 1995" in aid of the Cricketers' Benefit Fund
in Sharjah, it was once again Jaliya who helped to make the series
a success. His experience, coupled with his pleasing personality
helped him to win the confidence of all people from Abdulrahaman
Bukhhatir, Chairman, Cricketers' Benefit Fund Series to Jagmohan
Dalmiya, the then ICC president. This tournament was followed by
the AKAI-SINGER Champions Trophy in 1997, also staged in Sharjah.
His successful, organizational ability earned him the respect and
admiration among cricket administrators of U.A.E., Asia and Singapore.
At
Singer, Jaliya, as Merchandising and Promotions Manager pioneered
the 'Singer Mega Stores' concept and was instrumental in starting
several "Mega Shops" in Kandy, Rajagiriya and Mount Lavinia.
Thanks to his enthusiasm and passion, Jaliya was also successful
in promoting and organizing several international and local rugby
tournaments for schools and clubs in Sri Lanka.
Jaliya
Jayasuriya rose to the senior management position of Business Development
Manager at Singer in 1996, and served the Company till 2001, when
he joined Nutrina (CIC) as Marketing Manager. Even after leaving
Singer, Jaliya did not lose touch with his old colleagues and promptly
joined the Association of Past Employees of Singer where until his
demise he was an active member inspite of his busy schedule.
Jaliya
was loved by all his subordinates, colleagues, friends, neighbours
and anyone who came into contact with him. He was a fond and dutiful
father and a loving and caring husband to his beloved wife.
Nelson
Mendis
A
leading economist with a warm heart
Palitha Silva Gunewardene
When I met Palitha at a function a few months
ago and he told me he was writing an appreciation of his late father
Rear-Admiral Ananda Silva, I never imagined that I would be writing
an appreciation on Palitha a few months later. Unfortunately, Palitha
and his beloved wife Harshini were at Yala National Park when their
lives were taken by the cruel tsunami that hit our shores on December
26.
I
got to know Palitha when I joined the Telecommunications Regulatory
Commission where Palitha was Director, Economic Affairs. A soft-spoken
gentleman, Palitha never flaunted his brilliant educational qualifications
and was ever ready to work hard and put in the long hours necessitated
by the expedited telecommunications reforms launched by the then
Government.
Palitha
was a recipient of the British Government's prestigious Chevening
Scholarship and obtained his MSc. (International Securities, Investment
& Banking) at the University of Reading, U.K. He was also successful
in the Securities Representative Examination at the Securities and
Futures Authority (SFA), U.K. and thereafter obtained his MBA at
the PGIM, University of Sri Jayawardenepura.
In
the field of accountancy, Palitha obtained associate membership
of the Chartered Institute of Management Accountants (CIMA), U.K.
and was a member, Divisional Governing Council of the Chartered
Institute of Management Accountants (CIMA), Sri Lanka Division.
Palitha
had stints in the Morgan Stanley (U.K.) Group, London, National
Development Bank and Sampath Bank in Colombo prior to joining the
Telecommunications Regulatory Commission. Having applied for the
Post of Director-General in the Securities and Exchange Commission
(SEC), Palitha left the TRC to take up appointment as SEC's Director-General.
He continued to be the Director-General of SEC until he ran into
stormy weather and as a result had to seek redress from the courts.
It
was during this time that he made the ill-fated visit to Yala having
gone to Kataragama prior to that. With his death the country has
lost a great economist cum accountant and a warm-hearted and humane
gentleman of the highest order.
May
he attain Nibbana.
Themiya
L. B. Hurulle
End
of a fascinating voyage
B.H. Leelarathne (Sunil)
B.H. Leelarathne (Sunil) passed away on October
18 after heart surgery. He was 55.
An
employee of Ceylon Shipping Corporation Limited (CSCL), he had sailed
on many voyages and visited many countries as a seaman. I knew Mr.
Leelarathne was a popular bread maker on ships. Later he worked
several years in the head office of the CSCL. Subsequently he was
appointed bungalow keeper of the CSCL holiday resort at Bentota
where he worked until his early retirement. The staff and especially
their children remember the delicious meals along with the warm
hospitality he extended to those who stayed there.
He
meticulously maintained inventory records at the holiday resort.
After retirement he took to a different field and began writing
as a correspondent from Induruwa for the Lankadeepa newspaper. He
also worked as a field officer of the Sri Lanka Insurance Corporation
at its Ambalangoda Branch. However, he kept in touch with the CSCL
staff, meeting those in the Administration Department at least once
a month.
May
Mr. Leelarathne's sojourn in sansara be short and may he attain
the supreme bliss of Nibbana.
Yasapala
Ponnamperuma
He
was a true follower of the Man for others
Lakdasa Dissanayake
In January this year, we remember the 15th
anniversary of Lakdasa's death. The last time I met him was at a
mutual friend's father's funeral. I was away in the USA when he
died.
Looking
back at his life and work, memories flood one's world. Lakdasa contributed
to life in many ways, foremost being his life in the Church and
his work as a State Medical Officer. It was when he was working
in Nawalapitiya that he participated in the affairs of the Diocese
of Kurunegala. He was a member of that Diocese in the Standing Committee
when Archbishop Robert Runcie visited Kurunegala. As a doctor, he
cared for his patients, sending them post cards to remind them of
their clinic dates, and also calling on them if they were not able
to keep their appointments.
Lakdasa
both in life and at the point of his death lived and worked for
others. In that sense he was a true follower of the Man for Others.
He could have used his office to purchase a motor vehicle. That
was not Lakdasa. He was not enticed by "filthy lucre"
as the Scriptures state, nor by all that glitters and shines in
life.
In
remembering Lakdasa, one cannot forget his role as a sportsperson.
His zooming kicks to touch and those fantastic drop goals were part
of his game.
Sydney Knight
A life
of beauty and serenity
Pathma Balasingham
Pathma - the name means lotus. Never was an infant
so aptly named for she symbolized the beauty and serenity associated
with this particular flower in our traditional, spiritual and cultural
heritage. Born into a traditional Hindu family, she had her early
education at Hartley College, Point Pedro, close to her hometown
of Puloly.
Later
she went to Ramanathan College (Jaffna), the premier institute for
girls, devoted to nurturing them in the Hindu faith and the fine
arts. Finally at Holy Family Convent, Bambalapitiya in Colombo,
she was exposed to different communities and faiths, in preparation
for a more cosmopolitan life.
She
was married at an early age of sixteen to the handsome Dr. Balasingham,
a cardiologist with a promising future. Tragedy struck when Dr.
Balasingham succumbed to a heart attack at the early age of forty
four. Faced with the prospect of bringing up three young children
- a boy and two girls, Pathma faced this challenge with great courage.
She
even found time to engage in social service activities. I came to
know her well as a senior member of the Sri Lanka Tamil Women's
Union, founded in 1909. She held various responsible offices in
the organization, in 1964 as Treasurer, 1966 as Vice-Principal,
which post she held again in 1969 and as Principal from 1972-1974.
From 1975-1980 she held the elected post of Vice-President until
she left to join the Ashram at Puttaparthi before we could honour
her as President.
Having
fulfilled her duties as wife and mother, and to the community she
felt the time had come to devote herself to spiritual development.
I and fellow members will treasure her memory and remember her with
affection as a gracious and willing helper at all times, ready to
shoulder any responsibility in a quiet and unassuming manner. Her
devotion to Kalalaya and her contribution to the school based on
her grounding at Ramanathan College were invaluable.
Sarojini Kadirgamar
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