A
man of humility, he never hurt anyone
B.M. Amit
Two tireless workers in Parlimentary
Service lost their lives in the devastating tsunami on December
26.B.M. Amit, late Editor of Hansard and his wife, Kanthi Wickremesinghe,
Chief Simultaneous Interpreter, Parliament are no more. Parliament
is poorer for losing two brilliant, kind-hearted and efficient employees.
I am poorer for having lost a dear colleague and best friend of
well nigh 30 years.
Amit
and I were colleagues both in the Supreme Court service and as Hansard
Reporters in Parliament. It was while we worked as Parliamentary
Reporters that I came to know Amit's gentle, kind and exemplary
character.
As
the fastest shorthand writers in the country, both the legal fraternity
and the NGOs relied on us to record proceedings in courts and at
international seminars in leading hotels. He was efficient, reliable,
and never let me down or for that matter anyone.
As
we had to supply proceedings the very next day before the day's
proceedings started, we worked late into the night - often going
home at 2 a.m. One such case we worked on was the Arbitration case
between Oberoi and the Ceylon Hotels Corporation which was heard
by three British judges.
It
was here that I learnt of his gentle and gentlemanly manners.He
would not leave office until I had finished my work and he saw me
safely home. Many Members of Parliament sought his assistance to
find them old speeches in Hansard for them to quote in their speeches.
He obliged them willingly and speedily. He had a good memory and
was a kind of "walking Hansard index”.
Many
a time he was a shadow Editor to erstwhile Editors of Hansard. They
relied heavily on Amit and he didn't let them down, obliging them
willingly and cheerfully.
After
I retired from Paliament, I joined the Islamic Development Bank
in Jeddah as Economic Reporter. As Sri Lanka is not a partner of
the IDB, this post was specially created for Sri Lanka purely on
merit. After five years of service there, I decided to quit. Before
I left, I wanted that place reserved for a Sri Lankan. My wish was
granted by the authorities. My choice as my successor was Amit.
He
served the Bank with commendable diligence for one year and then
resigned. The reason, I came to know later, was that he was a family
man and could not live away from his wife and children.
He
was very fond of his mother and spent every Sunday with her. If
anyone asked him to come for any activity on a Sunday, he would
say, "I have to be with my mother. Sunday is kept apart for
that purpose, I can't come". Thereby he earned the love of
his mother and the reward that is promised to him by our Prophet
(on whom be peace) who said, "Paradise lay at the feet of mothers."
After
my return to the country, Amit and I partnered as freelance stenographers
in recording Admiralty Court proceedings in the High Court and proceedings
in labour courts. By this time efficient English stenographers were
a dying breed.
We
were eagerly sought after. We worked in some of the biggest cases
in labour disputes. He won the respect of judges and lawyers alike.
Amit was a perfect gentleman, humble, sincere, humane and witty.
I remember once a member of his staff asked him "Do you know
how to handle an e-mail?" He replied, "I do not know how
to handle an e-mail but I do know how to handle a female.”
The questioner was a female.
He
never hurt anyone. In my 30-year association with him, I never saw
him pick a quarrel with anyone. Even if someone was rude to him,
he remained calm and avoided his adversary's arrogance. The hallmark
of his character was humility.
His
greatest magnanimity was clearly visible after he became the Editor
of Hansard. He was kind and courteous. He moved with every one high
or low. He cared for his subordinates. When they made a mistake,
be it minor or glaring, he did not rudely summon them to his office
and throw the script in their faces. Instead, he walked up to them,
sat down by the computer, explained the seriousness of the mistake
and had it corrected. It was because of this that there was a spontaneous
overflow of powerful sentiments. His entire staff cried unashamedly
when the news of his disappearance was announced by his driver.
They still cry when he is discussed among friends.
When
I decided to migrate to New Zealand in 2001, I still remember how
he walked into my house. Tucked under his arm was a copy of the
Translation of the Qur'an by Allama Yusuf Ali. He expressed many
regrets and summed up his farewell message with the words "You
are not only my friend but you are my brother. I shall miss you
always."
When
I got ready to come to Sri Lanka just before the tsunami, the first
gift I purchased was for my dear friend whom sadly I could not see,
not even his corpse, for it had already been buried. He was, in
a sense, the last of the Mohicans - of the Reporters of the old
Parliament. He exhibited genuine leadership qualities. He has left
a void that cannot be filled by any one in the Hansard Branch. At
least not for a long time to come.
It
is the belief in Islam that those who die violent deaths such as
drowning, incurable diseases, childbirth and accidents receive a
reward equal to that of a martyr (one who dies in a holy war).
The
Prophet of Islam, Muhammad (on whom be peace) has taught us, 'when
you ask Allah for Paradise (Jannah) ask for Jannat-ul-Firdous. It
is the highest heaven which lies directly under the "Arsh (the
Throne) of Allah. I pray, May Allah in His mercy forgive his sins
and grant him Jannat-ul-Firdous.
M.C.A. Hassan
A mentor
to journalists, he guided them like a father
Siriwardena Subasinghe
Veteran journalist Siriwardena Subasinghe, a man
of great principles passed away last week creating an irreparable
void in the field of journalism. He was a gem of a man and a gentleman
in all respects.
Mr.
Subasinghe, a typical villager from Weweldeniya near Danowitta never
forgot his village despite his education at Ananda College and subsequent
job as a journalist in two leading newspaper companies - Associated
Newspapers Ltd and Wijeya Newspapers Ltd.
He
joined the profession of journalism as a staff writer and rose to
the position of Editor in several dailies, weeklies and periodicals
where he left his mark as a thinking and creative journalist.
He
lived in the picturesque hamlet of Weweldeniya, just a few metres
away from the Colombo-Kandy road surrounded by hills and dales.
He belonged to the old school of journalism. Among his colleagues
were Meemana Premathilake, D.D. Wettasinghe, Edmund Ranasinghe,
Wally Perera, Nimal Perera, D.C. Ranatunga, L.E. Samararatne, H.K.
Mahindadasa, Mahinda Karunaratne, Benedict Dodampegama, Elmo Gooneratne,
G.S. Perera, Eamon Kariyakarawana and Wimalasiri Perera. Mr. Subasinghe
who helped to mould public opinion for over four decades had the
inspiration and influence of the greatest newspaperman in the history
of Sri Lanka - late D.R. Wijewardene.
He
was a calm and collected man. He was simple and had few needs. But
he was able to bring about a revolution in the fields of humanity,
culture, arts and traditions through the newspapers he edited. He
always attempted to be impartial and present a balanced view. Mr.
Subasinghe trained in Fleet Street, was a source of inspiration
to young journalists and helped many others including me to develop
and sharpen skills.
His
compassion and kindness was boundless. He guided newcomers and taught
them the secrets of the trade like a fatherly figure. He was the
pioneering editor of the second era of the Sunday Lankadeepa published
by Wijeya Newspapers. He was the editorial kingpin behind the birth
of Wijeya Newspapers when it got publishing rights of the defunct
Lankadeepa published in the former Times Building, Fort. He joined
Lake House or the Associated Newspapers in 1953 when we were still
in school.
He
came to Janata, the evening daily founded by respected editor Denzil
Pieris. Denzil had chosen him and from the day he joined the editorial
he showed his colours. Lake House at that time consisted of the
best of journalists who later rose to great heights here and abroad.
Mr. Subasinghe had the rare distinction of editing two leading Sunday
newspapers - Sunday Lankadeepa and Silumina.
Later
he edited the Dinamina twice in the seventies. He had the ability
to tackle tricky problems through his inborn satirical approach
through which he won the hearts of all. He also used the same tactics
to enforce discipline and punctuality among his men.
He
was a mentor to me. His generous advice and encouragement moulded
and expanded my journalistic horizons. He once created a record
by making the Silumina the largest selling newspaper in South East
Asia.
The
takeover of Lake House in 1973 by the government under the pretext
of broadbasing its ownership worried him. Although it was a bad
time for him he took it calmly. Subsequently he joined the Wijeya
and saw the birth of another newspaper group flourishing as he wished.
Siri Ranasinghe
A chance
meeting and a friendship of three decades
Theagan Kunaratnam
The seventies began with the transfer
of power to the SLFP-Marxist coalition. It triggered the biggest
wave of mass migration from Sri Lanka. This coalition was seen as
a threat to the precious freedoms cherished by the nation, particularly
after the savage attack on Lake House by Mrs. Sirimavo Bandaranaike's
goons. Leading journalists like Denzil Peiris, Editor of The Observer,
was forced to go into hiding. The professionals - both Sinhala and
Tamil - too felt that the SLFP-Marxist coalition, weighed down by
their ideological baggage, would seriously undermine their interests.
The
Burghers and the Tamils had begun migrating even earlier. But the
brain drain began in increasing numbers when the standardization
of marks for university entrance threatened the Sinhala elite in
the south. In particular, Sinhala and Tamil doctors concerned about
future prospects of their children were looking abroad to stabilize
the future of their children.
Dr.
Theagan Kunaratnam and I are among the first in the mass migratory
wave of the seventies. I left shortly after the attack on Lake House.
Dr. Kunaratnam, who was the head of Colombo Municipal Medical Services,
left in 1972. Neither of us knew each other when we were in Sri
Lanka. But on one Saturday afternoon in 1972 when I was shopping
in the Prahran Market in Melbourne I bumped into him. I spotted
him as a Sri Lankan and we were delighted to find each other. The
friendship that began that day lasted till he passed away on February
13, last year.
In
the seventies meeting a Sinhalese or a Tamil in Melbourne was a
rare event because the flood of Sri Lankan migrants had not poured
into this popular home from home in Australia. He was in Prahran
- a popular market place - exploring the lie of the land. Then and
there I invited him home for lunch.
That
was not the only way we bonded. To our pleasant surprise we discovered
that his wife, Rita, and my wife, Rangi, were schoolmates in Jaffna.
Up close and personal links from the past never fail to seal friendships.
And
so our relationship progressed over three decades. Over the years
I learnt that he was a Major in the Volunteer Medical Corps. He
was in the thick of the JVP riots in Anuradhapura caring for the
injured Sinhala youth. It was an experience he never forgot. In
Australia he was awarded the St. John's Ambulance medal by the Governor
of Victoria.
To
this day I have yet to meet another father who was committed to
his family like Theagan. He was very protective and everything revolved
round his family. In his eyes his wife Rita and the three children
- Renuka, Manjula and his only son Ishan -- came first. Perhaps,
his attachment to his family is a result of the death of his distinguished
father, Dr. Isaac Kunaratnam at an early age when he was a student.
He played the role of the father that he did not have.
Dr.
Isaac Kunaratnam was a leading surgeon of the time and he served
for quite some time in Galle. Theagan grew up in Galle -- a place
that carried nostalgic memories for him. When he visited the south
with me he did a detour to his old haunts in Galle just to touch
base, as it were. When his father died of a sudden heart attack
it was a great loss not only to the Kunaratnam family but also to
the high society of the day. The list of pall-bearers (a list published
in the Daily News as a ritual in those spacious days) indicates
that practically everybody who was somebody was present at the funeral.
Among them was the legendary Prof. E. F. C. Ludowyk, judges of the
supreme court, politicians, Churchmen and socialites.
Ensconced
in the bosom of his family Theagan lived a quiet life. One of the
regular features of his life in Melbourne was the annual Christmas
party, presided over by him and his wife Rita. It was an occasion
for his family and his circle of friends to gather round him. As
far as I can remember that was the noisiest event in his life.
Of
course, when the grandchildren came he got used to a noisier life.
He adored them. He was a devoted husband. A great father. Great
grandfather. And a great friend. It was comforting to be with him.
That's all that one can ask from a friend. My wife and I miss him.
But his courageous wife, Rita, is there with us to carry on from
where he left.
H.
L. D. Mahindapala
A
friendly colleague
D.W.H.Wickremasinghe
The late D.W.H. Wickremasinghe hailed from Panadura.
He excelled as a student of St. John's College. Not only did he
perform well, in his studies he was also a member of the first XI
cricket team. Those who knew him have fond memories of his sporting
qualities on and off the field.
Later
on he continued his sporting activities to adult life and was a
member of the railway cricket team for a number of years. Having
left school he joined the government service and soon climbed to
an important administrative slot in the Government Railway Department.
He
was an able administraand a friendly colleague to all. He was also
a tower of strength to all his relations both in Panadura as well
as in Kegalle. His colleagues remember him as being a soft spoken,
well-mannered person with a magnanimous heart.
Noel
Wickremasinghe
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