Out
of the tsunami nightmare
An eight-year-old Lankan girl's experience
By Leonard R .Mahaarachchi
Three months after the December 26 tsunami, the haunting
images may not invoke the awe it did in the immediate aftermath
of the catastrophe, but for survivors, the nightmare continues.
The
trauma is taking its toll with children being the worst affected.
With little or no counselling being seen in the rehabilitation process,
the battle to overcome the nightmare is left to survivors themselves.
However, some have come to terms with the tragedy and are learning
to live with it - as in the case of eight-year-old Uresha Fernando,
a Colombo Methodist College student. She, along with her parents
Upali and Jayani Fernando, ten-year-old brother Udara and her twin
sister Udeshika, was on the ill-fated train at Telwatte when the
tsunami struck.
They
boarded the train from Moratuwa to go to Hikkaduwa where they were
planning to spend a few days with relatives and attend a birthday
party. When the tsunami hit the train, little Uresha was thrown
out only to be stopped by a wall of a compound of a house. She heard
someone telling her to climb the wall. Which she did. She shouted
out to her brother, sister and parents to join her there but they
were not so lucky.
Several
hours later, she joined a lorry load of survivors who were being
sent to a refugee camp. The lorry stopped at a petrol shed to pump
in some fuel. By a strange quirk of fate, the little girl's uncle
Suren Soysa, who was on his motorcycle, also stopped at the same
petrol shed for fuel. He had heard the calamity by then and was
concerned about the fate of his relatives.
When
Suren by chance glanced over the faces of the refugees he saw little
Uresha. "Yes, that is my Hikkaduwe Suren mama” the little
girl recognized him. Mr. Soysa took the girl home and contacted
her grandfather Rev. Johnston Fernando, a Methodist priest who lives
in Athurugiriya.
Nearly
three months after the tragedy, Uresha goes into a "sort of
depression" from time to time, her grandfather says. He says
he wants to get the child admitted to the Methodist College hostel
because he believes that the atmosphere there and the experience
of living with friends will help her overcome the nightmare. |