He’s
gone, forever
Journalist Lakmal Sampath De Silva was not only
dedicated to his profession, he was also a pillar of support to
his family
By Dhananjani Silva
"You don’t know the value of a journalist,
mother, since you are a teacher. I can go a long way in the field
of journalism, so please don’t stop me, but help me and encourage
me instead.’ This is what my son always used to tell me,”
said the grieving mother of slain journalist Lakmal Sampath De Silva.
Lakmal, 23, was brutally killed on July 1, and his body found on
a street in Dehiwela.
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Journalist Lakmal Sampath De Silva |
“That day he walked into the house in a very
cheerful mood at around 9 p.m. While he was watching the news, he
received a call on his mobile, and said he needed to go out immediately
on an important assignment, and that he had been asked to come to
the Boralesgamuwa junction,” said Lakmal’s mother, 56-year-old
S. M. Rupa De Silva.
“When he was leaving the house, he came
to worship me, and then he told us to sleep, because he might get
late to come. But I cleaned his bedroom, and even changed his bedsheet
for him to sleep after he returned, since I thought he would be
very tired,” she explained.
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Lakmal’s mother, S. M. Rupa De Silva. |
Lakmal’s mother expected her son to return,
but he didn’t come home that night. Indeed Lakmal never came
back. Instead, the following morning, Rupa was asked to come to
the Dehiwala Police Station, only to be told that she had lost her
son, forever. Lakmal’s bullet-riddled body was found at Jayawardene
Place in Dehiwala.
The family has faced tragedy and sorrow before.
Lakmal’s father had died in 1984 in the Maradana bomb blast,
when Lakmal was just five years old. Since then it was Rupa who
brought up the two children, Lakmal and his sister, now 21, with
much difficulty.
“He protected my daughter and me after the
death of my husband. I didn’t let them feel the loss of a
father, but tried as much as possible to give them everything to
the best of my ability from the salary I earned by teaching. Sometimes
when he had to go on assignments, when he did not get transport,
I made it a point to give him money to hire a cab. I always tried
to prepare a good meal for him to eat after he came home from work,
and recently when I told him that dinner is ready, he refused to
eat, saying that he would eat only if I fed him,” she cried.
“I have spent a lot on them, especially
on Lakmal and finally, for his funeral too, I got the best suit
for him, as that would be the last thing I will be doing for him,”
said Rupa in tears.
A student of St. John’s College, Nugegoda,
Lakmal had begun his journalistic career at 17, and had been working
as a freelance journalist for several publications such as Sathdina,
Kreeda, Aratuwa and Suwanda. He was also following an External Arts
Degree at the University of Sri Jayewardenepura at the time of his
death.
Lakmal was a born writer, as well as a skilled
speaker, his mother said. “He obtained a lot of certificates
for speech when he was schooling. Since he was eternally writing
novels and poetry, even when he was at home during his leisure time,
Lakmal hardly had time to have long conversations with us. But when
he had time, he used to tell me everything – the work he does,
where he goes and what his progress was like, and even his future
plans,” she said.
“He never got late without informing me.
Sometimes while he was at work too, he used to call and find out
where I was, and whether I was doing alright. I lost such a loving
son,” Rupa said.
Recalling Lakmal’s childhood, his mother
remembers how he would salute each and every police officer on the
road. According to her, Lakmal was very keen on politics during
his childhood too, and once had cried a lot asking her to let him
get onto the platform where a politician was addressing a gathering.
“Having a very powerful voice, my son was
a person who could not stand injustice. He would have gone a long
way, if he had lived,” she lamented.
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