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Exploitation
of children
Most children after six or seven years are busy around the home, running
errands and helping their parents. Even in wealthier countries, children
are encouraged to work for a few hours. This early training has a
variety of benefits. Children running errands learn to communicate
with other individuals. Children engaged in some kind of work learn
a skill which could be useful in their later years.
Child labour, on the other hand implies something completely different.
It is the exploitation and overworking of young children for personal
benefits and also depriving them of their right to health and education.
It is commonly known that the greatest concentration of child labour
is amongst the poorest people of Asia. In fact, 60% of child labourers
are employed in Asia. Although they are considered to be the wealth
of a nation, children very often are employed in bad working conditions
with very little compensation. According to International Labour
Organisation statistics, around 120 million children between ages
five and four have full-time employment. They are employed in agricultural
activities, garment industry, fishing industry, as porters and brick
makers, beedi wrappers, mine workers, scavengers, sex workers and
domestics.
The causes for this situation are many and varied. It is believed
that poverty is the most important factor. Lack of educational opportunities,
entrenched social and cultural practices and globalisation which
has spawned labour intensive industries have in turn created a demand
for cheap labour.
The international programme for the elimination of child labour
of the ILO has spread its tentacles far and wide to eliminate slavery,
forced labour, prostitution, pornography and other hazardous work
involving children. Those employed in sweet shops and debt bondage
are forced to work for long hours and obtain low wages. The latest
survey conducted in Sri Lanka has revealed that nearly a million
Sri Lankan children are in some form of employment, the majority
being domestics.
How can we change this situation? No magic wand can be waved to
combat the problem in a few days or months. However, all countries
in the world can take steps to criminalise all offences committed
against children or the exploitation of the young by adults for
personal benefits. Universal compulsory education should be strictly
enforced in a systematic manner. This coupled with poverty alleviation
programmes, rehabilitation and vocational training for school drop-outs,
through international cooperation will to some extent help control
child labour in the world.
Amaranath Gnanasampanthen
Marrying
for money
These days you hardly see or hear of a marriage being completed
without the groom's side demanding a large sum of money and property
as dowry.
What is this dowry anyway? Think about the amount of trouble parents
go through when the time comes for their daughters to get married.
If they don't have the money, does it mean that their daughters
can never get married? Is this what we call a fair world?
What's more, if it's a doctor, engineer, etc... the demand gets
higher and higher. Come on, when these guys are so educated and
earn enough, why on earth do they have to take a great amount of
money and property from the bride's side? This is ridiculous and
unexplainable as far as I'm concerned.
Parents giving what they like to the couple as a gift is something
different. It's a gift given with joy. But demanding dowry and measuring
a girl's worth by her riches is completely unjust.
Qualities are what matter the most. Go for the good qualities she
possesses. That's what is important for a stable married life. Money
and riches may come and go. But good qualities and education are
some things that will always be there. These things and a bit of
hard work, are more than enough for a married couple to establish
and live a peaceful life together.
I like to conclude with a call for all the guys who intend to get
married in the future. Hey guys make a decision. Are you going to
marry the money or the girl for what she is?
Nushrath Mansoor
Sexual
harassment - A national pastime?
This letter is written to protest against the ever increasing number
of perverts in our society who, in their depravity take satisfaction
in clutching the private parts of women who have the misfortune
of being within their reach.
A shrug of the shoulders and a 'men will be men' attitude in such
instances will never do. Sexual harassment should be seen for what
it is - a criminal offence which degrades a woman's dignity and
humanity. I hope that every woman reading this letter, who, at some
point in her life has been a victim of such perversity, will make
her indignation and displeasure HEARD and FELT.
The surest means of protection from sexual harassment in the future
is to inculcate in all minds a healthy respect for the human body.
Yet, are we even close to creating an environment in which such
respect can be generated? Mostly through a glut of socially irresponsible
advertising, the woman is continually, mercilessly demeaned to the
level of a sex object or baduwa or gediya as it is so crudely put
in Sinhala.
Do we really need to see models parading in underwear to know what
underwear looks like? Do we really need to be burdened with the
sight of a half exposed bikini area to know that cricket is a passion?
I don't.
Every responsible adult in this society has the duty of doing his
or her utmost in whatever way possible to rid our environment of
sexual harassment and all factors that contribute to it. Otherwise,
there is nothing that prevents our country from degenerating even
faster into a breeding ground for perverts.
J. C. Wickramaratne
Hello
out there
Hey
Guys, (Shane, Shaun, Fazlie, Justin and Shaan)
Wuz up? O.K. we know that God is everywhere. Hey Shane, Kimmy
misses you so badly and Shaun, Kimmy misses you so madly. Enrique
Debb misses you so badly and you too, Justin. And finally, S misses
you, Shaan. And we wish you a fantastic future and that's it.
Bye, Bye, Bye.
From Guess Who (U'll know who)
Tharashee
(D. B. V.)
Hi! Can you remember me? How are you and your friend keeping?
(That proud girl, sorry I forget her name) Contact me through this
page.
Mass
To my dearest
Dinusha Nangi,
Wish you a very happy 19th birthday. May all your dreams come
true. My heart belongs to you! You are so special to me. Please
call me.
Your ever loving,
Akhila
To my Dearest
Shaman,
I want to say that I love you so much and you are always in
my dreams, please don't misunderstand me. Don't be so proud. Please
give me a call. How many times have I called you, but yet you ingore
me. I miss you so much. Take care and may God bless you.
From the girl who loves you so much (N)
To our darling
nona, Safna and Saldeen,
We wish you a very happy 7th birthday on September 21.
From Saju, Musthaq, Muksi, Farin Aunty and Aslam Uncle
The queen
of my life, Eshani (Bashi),
Though we are far apart, I still feel that you are close to
me. I just want you to know that I love you so much and I miss you
when we are apart. Remember I'll always be yours. You are the girl
of my dreams. I want to be with you, laugh with you and cry with
you.
From ever loving Nishal (Muza)
To the two
guys who were on the Chilaw train,
Hi, can you remember the two girls who were at the Dematagoda
station on September 9 at 2.50 p.m. One girl was wearing a blue
T shirt and ash trousers and the other girl was wearing a black
blouse and a cream coloured skirt. You spoke to us. We'd like to
get to know you both better. Contact us through this page.
From the
two girls at the Dematagoda Station,
D and N
To the most
thrilling Guy, Shibly (2002 A/L)
Hi, Shibly, how are you? V wish you a fantastic birthday. What
happened to your A/L results? Hope you got through. We miss you
in the same way that you miss us!
From the unforgettable, invisible girls of Eleven in Level
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