One reason why children, and ultimately people in general, hate mathematics and numbers so much is because they have this whole perception in their heads that computing figures and numbers mentally are so mind boggling and difficult that they give up before they even try. This is one reason why people struggle at mathematics, addition and even simple algebra.
To be perfectly honest, it's not as hard as you think. Actually, math, in all its complexity and headache-inducing problems are easier than most people think it out to be.
One way to get over this whole misconception about math is to think about it as something that's not difficult or impossible; instead, it should be something that should be thought of as thought provoking, challenging and surprising. Nothing in life is difficult if you don't let it, especially when your child is still at such a tender age. Encourage your son or your daughter to love math; you'll never regret it.
1. Integrate numbers into activities that your kid loves doing.
Whether it is sports or board games, numbers can be a part of your child's learning experience. Think of it this way; the next time you play monopoly, why not let your kid do all the computations of rent and other expenses every time he or she lands in one of your railroads or hotels. This is one fun way for your child to learn about numbers and math without him having to break a mental sweat from all the pressure.
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Games and activities that require some degree of mathematical computation or analysis is also one very, very good way for your children to practice what they have learned in the classroom. And on another note, for them to be able to associate mathematics with good memories would enable them to recall what they have learned much faster, leading them to have better retention of the skill sets taught to them.
2. Give your child some form of reward if they are able to solve math problems successfully.
A little positive reinforcement every now and then would work wonders to your children. A little encouragement and a certain short term goal to set their sights on would give them a little drive and determination to make good in math and all its mathematical problems.
It's worked before during our time, why should it be any different in today's generation of young minds? It could be in the form of ice cream, an IMAX movie or even a new action figure or Barbie doll. Whatever reward your child may want to have, don't deprive him or her of it if it helps them learn math better and with much enthusiasm.
3. Assist him in whatever way you can.
As parents, it is your duty and obligation to help your child succeed in as best a way that you can. So if you find that junior is having trouble with numbers, a few encouraging words and tutoring would go a really long way as far as your child's development is concerned. |